Last winter I went to an event organized by the TV station. It was still early to leave the race, and the young people who competed together gathered in a room to talk. It was supposed to be a business party, but the topic somehow turned to love.
A brother who had been silent snuffed out the cigarette butt in his hand and began to tell his own story.
His father was divorced seven times and was well known in the local area. And he happened to be sentenced to his father, and you can imagine how chaotic his life was as a child. Never believing in love and marriage, he mixed into his twenties with a cynical attitude, and one day he met a girl he liked. The two were very compatible, but he didn't want to get married, and the girl didn't want to bind him, so the two of them simply got along. Until one day, the son of the local health bureau chief also fell in love with the girl.
'You can be with him, I won't mind'. When he learned of the existence of another suitor, he made God say this to the girl. Maybe it's the frivolity of less or less, or the inexplicable self-esteem - because the girl works in the hospital in the city, and the other party promises that if she agrees to the marriage, she can help him adjust his position.
'Really?' The girl asked rhetorically and didn't speak again.
The next day she left the city.
He searched every possible place and didn't find her, in those days when there were no mobile phones, they had always relied on pagers to exchange messages, but his calls were never echoed again.
The most beautiful love in the world is often scarred.
Things are impermanent, and there are so few things we can control.
Few people can love without self-esteem, and everyone's self-esteem is hard as a rock and towering like a cliff. Perhaps because of this, we are always happy to see the heroine in the love story struggling to step out of the boundaries of self-esteem, the lonely and honorable head underground, and softly saying 'I love you'.
True love in the world is accompanied by regret, sadness and loneliness, but there are still people who are willing to give a lifetime of waiting. But true love will eventually dissipate, and the only constant in this world is change, and it will not stay for anyone or stay for anyone.
So when we are still in love, be brave to love; When we have to let go, leave a dashing turn, not just for self-esteem.