In recent years, the word "bear child" has also become a bad word, in fact, it used to say that the bear child is more naughty and naughty, but now it is a child who does not understand things.
We all know that children have their own consciousness, but children cannot develop in the direction we want.
We want the child to become a good child, first of all, we must change the child in terms of etiquette, the child must at least know politeness when going out with us, so that others will think that the child is a good child who knows how to be polite.
So what etiquette do children need to know when they go out with us?
Etiquette of conversation
When we take our kids out and meet acquaintances, I'm sure there are some kids who are more introverted.
Children may not like to greet acquaintances, in this case we should encourage children, tell children that there is nothing to be afraid of this person, and then let children boldly greet others.
Similarly, there are some more introverted children, they may be more familiar, or they may be better educated, so they will be very enthusiastic to greet others, what will they show in this part of the children? It is very likely that when you are far away from others, you will call out to others loudly.
So others may not hear, so we can tell the child that when we meet an acquaintance, we can run to the acquaintance, or we run a few steps, and then greet others like this so that others can hear.
Don't yell from a great distance, it's impolite to shout from a great distance.
Toilet etiquette
We have to tell the child that when the child goes to the bathroom outside, we must gently push open the door, and then when we go out, we must also gently push against the door and let the door close.
Can't say let's leave the door shut louder after we're gone.
If you have a tissue after your child has washed his hands, we can wipe them off and then clean the table top of the washstand.
Of course, if there are no tissues, then we have to tell the child not to shake his hands, because the water will splash everywhere. I believe that many children will not throw their hands at home, because there are towels at home to wipe their children's hands, so when we go out, we can prepare a few tissues on our bodies.
Etiquette for walking
When we walk on the road, if it is a relatively wide road, we all know that we should walk on the right side when walking.
So what if it's a narrower road? If the road is narrower, then we can pull over and let some of the larger cars pass first, or if it is a sidewalk, we can make the side wider.
Remember that we can't walk in the middle of the road because it's very dangerous behavior, and there are some cars that they want to overtake.
At the same time, do not chase and fight on the road, this is a very easy thing for children, because children on the way out of school or on the way to school, walking with their friends will become very happy, they are likely to do some chase games, this is a very dangerous behavior, I believe that children will not have these behaviors when they are with us adults, but when several children are together, I think they are mainly happy, not safe.
We must emphasize safety to children more, not only to tell their children to pay attention to safety, but also to let children help others to pay attention to safety, when walking, we must look at the six ways and listen to the eight directions, we must pay attention to their surrounding environment. Because we can only manage ourselves and not what others should do, we had better observe our surroundings.
For children, some etiquette that needs to be paid attention to outside, when we take children out, we definitely hope that children can understand things, because then others will praise our children, and we ourselves will be happy.
When the child is at home, we have to teach the child this, because only when we are at home, the child can do it, and the child can do it freely outside, not that we do not talk about the child when we are at home, then the child outside will naturally do it, which is impossible, so when we teach the child etiquette, we must teach it at home and outside.
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☆ I am the "color color parenting" of the color color, the mother of two children, but also a learning and growing mother, focus on pregnancy and childcare knowledge sharing, I hope that my little advice, can help you solve the confusion and troubles in the process of taking the baby, so that the child grows up better and happier!