After Liu Ruyi's death, the throne of Zhao was succeeded by Liu You.
Seven years after Gao, Lü Hou suddenly summoned Liu You to Beijing. After Liu You entered Beijing, he took his entourage to live in his official residence.
Lü Hou sent soldiers to surround his official residence, drive out all his ministers, and cut off his food supply.
The chancellor of the State of Zhao could not bear to let his king of Zhao starve to death, and secretly brought food to Liu You. Lü Hou caught one and killed one.
In the end, Liu Yousheng, the King of Zhao, was starved to death.
The cause of the incident was because of his wife.
Lü Hou arranged for each prince to be a woman of the Lü family as his wife, and Liu You's wife was in charge of her mother's power, flying and wandering, Liu You was dissatisfied, and pampered other concubines, so his wife complained to Lü Hou and slandered Liu You, saying that he had said at home:
"King Ande of the Lü clan, after the empress dowager is a hundred years old, I will strike at it."
This was obtained, so Lü Hou hurriedly summoned Liu You and killed him!
After Liu You's death, Liu Hui the Prince of Liang succeeded him as King of Zhao.
Liu Hui's wife surnamed Lü was even more unsure, she was Empress Lü's most trusted subordinate, the daughter of Xiangguo LüChan, and even more stubborn.
She sent people to monitor Liu Hui all the time, and Liu Hui followed him wherever he went. Liu Hui couldn't stand him and fell in love with a palace girl, and her wife didn't say a word and killed this palace girl.
There is no freedom in life, there is no love, Liu Hui can't stand it and commits suicide.
Although it is said that he was forced to marry such a wife, the truth is also that he should marry a wife.
Excluding other factors, if you have a good wife, the family will always be kind, and the harmony can make money.
In contrast, a "bad" wife will always make the chickens and dogs jump in the family.
A friend of mine, in his thirties, married his daughter-in-law in a hurry.
At that time, they struggled with whether to buy a house or a car in Wuhan first, and the elders suggested buying a house first, after all, the house appreciated and the car depreciated. His daughter-in-law felt that first they bought a car, had face, and made trouble every day, and finally they bought a car.
After that, the housing prices in Wuhan seemed to grow overnight.
His daughter-in-law was clamoring to buy a house again, and finally there was no way, she bought an off-plan house in Hannan and never delivered the house.
After the house incident came to an end, the state advocated the time of the second child. His daughter-in-law made a fuss about giving birth to a second child, and as a result, the second child was born and did not care, and she wanted to go out to work to earn money...
Later, I will not list them all. It is said that some time ago, a divorce began.
In this way, an "unwise" wife can always find out the unsatisfactory things step by step, and make a fuss step by step.
In a lifetime, it is not long to say that it is not long, it is not short to say that it is short, how many blessings can be stirred up like this?
I hope you can all have a "virtuous" wife, and you will not fail!