分手后什么时候可以开始新恋情？ ｜时代杂志
When we put too much attention on attaining the status of “healed” or waiting a specified amount of time to move on from a past relationship, we may miss out on opportunities to apply what we’ve learned about ourselves and test out new relationship skills we learned in therapy. Taking healthy risks as we move on from breakups can help us see and experience relationships differently. There is no one moment when we will be perfectly ready to take the plunge again, and no amount of time when we will arrive at our best self. And that doesn’t mean that we are less worthy of loving, supportive partnerships.
这篇文章探讨了分手后何时开始新的恋情的问题。作者Myisha Battle认为，尽管社会对快速开始新关系有负面看法，但新关系有时能帮助愈合心灵创伤。情感恢复因人而异，不应仅用时间衡量。文章指出，即使在愈合过程中，人们也可以成为好的伴侣，不必等到完全痊愈后才开始新的恋情。过分追求完美可能阻碍开启新关系，重要的是在新关系中运用从前段关系中学到的经验和技能。即使还在愈合过程中，人们仍然有资格享受爱与支持。#恋情# #心理# #情感分析# #感情# #关于感情# #阅读分享# #爱情# #分手# #分手失恋# #外刊#
