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The college entrance examination is finally over.
Presumably, many candidates are full of expectations for their university life.
After all, who made the high school Chinese teacher, math teacher, or English teacher describe college life so "well"?
Go to college and you'll be able to have fun!
At this point, the three years of high school efforts have not been in vain.
In the eyes of many candidates, as long as they are admitted to college, it means that they will usher in a beautiful university life.
It is full of the "breath" of freedom.
For example, you can fall in love, you don't have to go to class, and you can play as much as you want, after all, your parents are not around, and the teacher is not in charge of yourself as before.
However, college life is not so happy.
It's true that college life will be much freer, but it's also relatively free.
For example, classes don't come from morning to late like before, and most universities don't force you to study late.
This means that you have more time to allocate freely.
However, the difficulty of the course of study increases, and you do not study by yourself, which means that it is easy to hang up the subject, not to mention scholarships and research.
At this time, in fact, the quality of students is more demanding, that is, self-discipline.
In addition, the pressure of employment competition is so great now, if you really only care about playing in college, then you can only be "played" by society after graduation.
Therefore, college life can not be spent so relaxed.
In addition, the dormitory is not as simple and harmonious as everyone thinks.
The boys' dorm is actually fine.
Boys often think straight to the point, even if there is a contradiction, they will directly say it, and it is a big deal that everyone shakes off their faces and drinks and drinks.
However, when it comes to the girls' dormitory, if there is a real contradiction, especially if it inadvertently annoys someone, then this dormitory can be vividly acted into a "palace fight drama".
If you don't pay attention a little, you may usher in a "killing".
No, a girl, because her roommate did not ask her to borrow her own "facial cleanser", so she watched her mistakenly use the hair removal cream as a cleanser.
This kind of thinking is terrible.
After all, the hair removal cream is used on the face, at least this eyebrow may not be saved.
What a needle in a woman's heart!
Although she is wrong to take it without telling you, it will not make her "disfigured"!
There are also familiar groups.
A dormitory of six people can be built into 5 groups.
The so-called group names are actually very different, such as "someone is really hateful", this so-called person is actually the name of a roommate.
Everyone is squeezing someone out of each other.
If you are not careful, you may become the target of other roommates.
The other is that it is harmful to personal property.
There was a female college student who broke the news on the Internet that she returned from her evening self-study and found that her table was full of water.
More critically, the computers and books on the desk were all wet.
And there wasn't a single person in the dormitory.
You ask the roommates who have "just returned", and they are all innocent, and no one knows what is going on.
In desperation, the female college student could only tell the counselor teacher.
The teacher said he would investigate thoroughly.
However, in a place like a dormitory that is not monitored, it is actually not difficult to find out who made it.
After all, people don't admit it, and you can't just wrongfully accuse someone!
In the end, it is still in the dormitory because of some things that are "remembered" on it.
Many candidates who are about to enter the university, seeing the above, are full of "panic" about the accommodation life of the university dormitory in the future.
Not necessarily.
It is inevitable that college students live in the same dormitory, and it is inevitable that there will be conflicts, especially when there is a matter of fighting and thinking between girls.
But that doesn't mean it's not good to be in a college dormitory.
The key is to understand how to get along with your roommates correctly and handle the relationship between each other, so that even if there is a conflict, you can handle it properly.
First of all, contradictions should be resolved in a timely manner.
Contradiction "not overnight" is an important principle.
In the small place of the university dormitory, there are often 4-6 people living in it, and most of them are people with the same major.
Usually look down and don't look up.
When two or several people in the dormitory have a conflict, we must take the initiative to talk about it and find a way to solve it together, rather than sulking in our hearts.
What's more, directly characterize the other party as a bad person.
In fact, many times, a person is not as bad as you think.
If you really can't solve it, you should tell the counselor and teacher in time and let the teacher help coordinate the solution.
Second, communicate more, don't form small teams.
The university dormitory is actually a small group, and many people like to form small teams.
Obviously, it is 4 people, but it can be divided into several small teams, which is really of little significance, and it is easy to lead to the exclusion of some housemates.
Whoever you change to, in fact, you are uncomfortable in your heart.
Usually communicate more, go out to play, study, and eat together, which is more conducive to the feelings between roommates.
Finally, don't do anything to hurt your roommate.
Some people say, "I just can't get used to someone, and I can't get along with her." ”
In fact, this is also normal, after all, people get along with people, after you work hard, you still find that you still don't like this person, and it is normal not to get along with her.
But there is one rule to remember: you can dislike it, but don't hurt it.
For example, the other party's property and personal person, usually do not deliberately find fault for the other party.
In short, I hope that all the "prospective college students" can spend a happy and fulfilling university life, and the university is still very beautiful.
However, this "beautiful" requires your own efforts!
The content of this article is original by [LiYan Jiaoyu], and the copyright belongs to the author, telling you a deep, interesting and helpful educational discourse.