How to know if it is her spare tire

One user said he was once in a painful emotional state. He liked a goddess for five years, and once sent her after dinner with the goddess

On the way back, the goddess received a call from a boy who said he was going to pick her up. The goddess began to push half and half, and then gladly agreed, and gave the other party a specific address, and then the goddess went with the other party like that.

The user said he had a broken heart at the time, and he later decided not to link again

Is a goddess. But the goddess took the initiative to apologize to him and ask him to forgive her. he

Tangled for a while, there has always been a knot in my heart that cannot be solved, that is

Does the goddess have him in her heart?

The above example is obvious, that is, the model of getting along between the spare tire and the goddess

style. In the battle of feelings, the spare tire is always the saddest one

bit! You put a lot of energy and even time and money into the other person, yet

If you can't get the other party's affection, when the other party really has no choice, you will

Throw smoke bombs at you and send a false signal: Ta seems to need you.

If the other person usually never takes the initiative to chat with you, but when you send gifts

When he gave him, invited him to dinner, and invited him to watch a movie, he readily agreed

Then you should pay attention to the fact that you are likely to have become one of the many spare tires of the other party

A member of the . And, more tragic than unrequited love, the spare tire

Didn't know it was a spare tire. If you want to be a spare tire, you must first know you

In what case, it has become a spare tire.

1, never take the initiative to contact you

He will not take the initiative to greet you, will not take the initiative to greet or care about you, will not take the time to listen to you talk about his heart, but will talk to you about his favorite topics when he is bored, and even take the initiative to come to you when he encounters difficulties or injuries.

2, never refuse your enthusiasm to pay

Whether you invite you to dinner or give gifts or hang out together, ta

Do not refuse. A lot of men think that a woman who doesn't refuse is agree, but in

This is not the case at all in a woman's logic. Not refusing is just not begging

Disgust, that doesn't mean you like it.

Just like admitting a boyfriend, if the boyfriend's score is 80, she

Not rejecting you means you just ran to the passing line of 60 points. Before you become 80

Score even higher before you can only be one of the candidates if she has been

If you can't find a boyfriend with an 80 point, you will consider re-enrolling you.

3, never promised, always procrastinated

You pay a lot of a promise that has been waiting for the other person, but he doesn't

Will give you a clear answer.

For example, when the boy confesses, if the girl does not agree or refuse, and

And tell you, "I'm not really in love right now, and we are."

I don't know each other very well, I want to be friends first, I'm afraid I'll get hurt

Harm....and so on and so forth, do not give you a definite period

Xu, but not explicitly refused, has been dragging you, this is for themselves

Turn around later to pave the way.

4, when you want to give up, he will show kindness

When you have been with him for a long time and have not made progress, you may give up, but the other party will turn back to you at this time! So you start to be confused again, don't know what the other person really thinks, and you start to wonder if he has finally found your good.

In fact, he just doesn't want to have a dead-hearted supporter around him from now on, and when he feels that you have changed his mind again, he will become absent-minded about you again.

5, ta has a favorite person, but get along not smoothly Ta's current is not the most ideal partner, or the relationship with the current is not stable, if you can not continue to develop with the current, you can also choose you Therefore, ta always find you to talk to and incumbent of various unsuccessful, trying you to give ta some comfort, and to send you a signal, it seems that their feelings are about to end, you have the opportunity to be with ta Many people go farther and farther on the road of spare tire, pay a lot, but no gain. If you find yourself a spare tire and want to give up the relationship, then please remember the above 5 points and be firm in your thoughts

Don't change your mind just because the other party is overbearing; If you

Don't want to give up, but also support your efforts to turn right and harvest love as soon as possible.

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