When Mao Xiang appeared in "White Gate Willow", he was one of the four sons of Fushe who was handsome, handsome, well-off and talented at the end of the Ming Dynasty.
How handsome is he? Two years ago, everyone should have seen a TV series "Qing Yu Nian", the hero in the play also has extraordinary "beauty", when he married a beautiful princess, some people said that the groom is better looking than the bride.
The same is true of Mao Xiang, when he disembarked from the boat with Dong Xiaowan, one of Qin Huai's famous prostitutes, and appeared at a dock, the agitated crowd on the dock was immediately attracted by the appearance of the two of them, which roughly means:
If there is only one beautiful woman, it will not stop everyone, the key is that the beautiful teenager next to this beautiful woman is simply like the person who came out of the painting.
When Mao Xiang was born into a well-off family, his parents never had any strict restraint on him, whether in terms of behavior or spending money.
In order to wait for him, Chen Yuanyuan has been hiding from the "high society" to hunt him down, and Dong Xiaowan will not hesitate to sacrifice all his wisdom and hobbies, even his life, in order to risk Xiang.
As for his talent, although He said that he had a scholarly view of the facts, he had read the Four Books and Five Classics since childhood, and he also won the approval of his friends in terms of literary style.
It can be said that before the Qing Dynasty entered the customs, Mao Xiang lived a proud life of smooth sailing.
However, with the entry of the Qing Dynasty, the life of Xiang Xiang was disrupted, and he began to lead his family to live a life of displacement and displacement, in this turbulent and displaced life, the family's belongings were left behind, left behind, robbed and robbed...
In the turbulent and displaced life, his temper began to be grumpy, he was tired of fleeing, he began to feel tired of taking on the family's food and drink, and even more than an old servant in the family who risked becoming a family, and he also lost the modesty that a gentleman should have, and his virtue was far inferior to that of Xiao Wan...
However, this paragraph in the book writes that when he went to the home of his friend Zhang Weichi to learn about the military situation, he met the servants of his friend's family who were moving things, and under his questioning, the servants were wary of him, lying, and it can be said that there was no show of respect.
In a hurry, he reprimanded the servant a few times, waiting for his friend Zhang Wei to return late. When he said that he wanted to eat, the servant only brought a bowl of rice to the master, and did not risk it.
Mao Xiang was now eating a steamy corn paste, Zhang Weichi actually said that there was sweet potato rice here, he thought that sweet potato rice was the delicacy under the sky.
However, when he saw that there was only one bowl and a pair of chopsticks, before Xiang Xiang could speak, Zhang Weichi asked the servant:
"Why didn't Mr. Mao have any?"
The servant replied, "When Mr. Mao first entered the door, he said he had eaten."
Who told the servant that he had eaten?
As soon as He looked at the servant's proud face, he knew that he had deliberately straightened himself out.
Now hindered by his friend's face, his own face, and even more hindered and disdainful of a villain's calculations, he had no choice but to turn his head around, not to look at the servant's face and the way his friend was eating, and looked out the window and said:
"I've eaten it."
When he said goodbye to Zhang Weichi, he watched Zhang Weichi hide the situation of moving, and he thought that his family was tired of friends, and the friend did not want to help him anymore, and he categorically said to his friend:
"Where I go in the future, I won't worry about my brother."
Then the head walked away without looking back.
We say that there is arrogance in this, but here we also see his courage and backbone.
Even if he didn't know where he was going tomorrow, he still straightened his spine and did not refute the face of the next person, in order to eat a mouthful of food; He did not put down his face and begged his friends to continue to help their family escape.
Although he went back to the world and was drunk and drunk.
In fact, whose life is not only not like this, we ultimately rely on ourselves, any outsider is unreliable, nor should we point to relying on others.
We must remember:
Don't point fingers at anyone, because helping yourself is not someone else's responsibility and obligation. There is no reason for us to blame our own misfortunes and setbacks on others.
When facing the cold of the world, accept it calmly; In the face of human warmth and coldness, calmly deal with it; Be grateful to those who have helped themselves, and do not hate those who have not reached out; Gratitude is obtained, do not correct the past.
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