Wang Lihong is divorced.
Of course, in 2021, when divorce is piled up, this marriage and divorce are also full of twists and turns.
First, the Taiwan media broke out:
Wang Lihong ended his 8-year marriage! The divorce procedures are all done!
Then Wang Lihong's agent quickly debunked the rumors:
As far as I know, there is no divorce.
Then Wang Lihong himself posted:
Decided to live separately.
In the comment area, in addition to condemning the broker for spreading false news, more people are asking:
Eight years of feelings, the golden boy and the jade, how to say that the departure is gone.
After all, the two were married, but they were blessed by the whole world.
Wang Lihong and his ex-wife Li Lianglei married in 2013.
At that time, Wang Lihong announced in an official statement on Weibo:
I found Forever Love, her name is Li Lianglei.
After confessing his love, Wang Lihong opened a concert again, and the big screen was full of Li Lianglei.
I also wrote an exclusive song: I won the jackpot, and you are one in seven billionths of me.
Throwing away the guitar and kissing Li Lianglei across the fence are also daily operations.
Clockwork Weibo, but also the name of Xiu En'ai.
Moreover, speaking of which, they are still green plum bamboo horses, running in both directions.
According to Wang Lihong's agent, the two had known each other when Li Lianglei was still in her 10s.
At that time, Wang Lihong returned to China from studying abroad, and Li Lianglei went to Princeton University for undergraduate studies, and then went to graduate school at Columbia University.
When Li Lianglei graduated, the two naturally talked about love.
In the second year of marriage, they gave birth to their first child, followed by another hug.
Everything is perfectly like a fairy tale.
But sure enough, fairy tales are all deceitful.
The two married in 2013 and stopped interacting in 2019.
The last sweet photo stops at Valentine's Day 2019.
The last time Li Lianglei mentioned Wang Lihong on Weibo was on Father's Day in 19 years, for the sake of children.
Regarding the reasons for the change of love, Wang Lihong wrote this sentence:
In these years of marriage, I have done too much to lack.
However, in the eyes of the Taiwan media, the real reason is because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
It is said that Wang Lihong's career has always been managed by the team and family, and Wang Lihong also listens to his mother's words.
However, after getting married, Li Lianglei intervened strongly, and because she did not understand the rules of the process, the project ended in failure.
A host once complained that his wife influenced Wang Lihong's work.
And this "seizure of power" has also evolved into a problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law competing for property management rights, becoming the last straw that crushes marriage.
A Taiwanese weekly magazine also said that wang Lihong and Li Lianglei's marriage has long been in trouble.
In October 2016, after Li Lianglei gave birth to her second daughter, the couple was preparing for divorce.
However, because Li Lianglei was pregnant with three children in 2017, the divorce was temporarily shelved.
Some of the details of this claim do have their way.
For example, Wang Lihong's mother attaches great importance to Wang Lihong and collects all his honors and growth experiences from childhood to adulthood.
And Wang Lihong has always been proud of his parents' happy marriage for decades, listening to his parents in everything.
He even specially chose his marriage registration day on the day of his parents' wedding anniversary.
In addition, it is said that after Li Lianglei married Wang Lihong, her mother-in-law believed that she should not meddle in the work and should be a full-time wife in a down-to-earth manner.
In order to show obedience, she could only follow the man's surname and change her name to Wang Lianglei.
But Li Lianglei did not seem to be satisfied with this life, and later changed her name back, and also posted on Weibo, "There is no time to exercise, and gradually lose herself." ”
After marriage, Li Lianglei's early ins had many photos of her husband and children, but she rarely saw the figure of her in-laws.
Not even Chinese New Year's Eve.
And Wang Lihong and his parents took a photo, it seems that Li Lianglei rarely participated.
The only family portrait of Wang Lihong that has been made public has also been questioned to be PS.
It has also become a classic unsolved case on the Internet.
In short, there is no conclusion about whether it is true or not, but the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is indeed a scar for countless Chinese families.
According to statistics, more than 40% of women believe that they have encountered a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Nearly 50% of divorced couples also divorce because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
It can be seen that although the mother-in-law is not the protagonist in the relationship between husband and wife, she plays a vital role in it.
As the saying goes, marriage is a matter of two families after all, and even pure love will involve family affection.
It's just that there should be clear boundaries for this kind of affection.
There is such a bridge section in the TV series "Double Sided Tape":
Li Juan's mother-in-law often intervened in their husband and wife's mode of getting along, not only giving advice on the division of household chores, but also giving advice on meals, and even interfering in their childbirth plans.
In this way, the little days of obvious happiness were made a chicken feather by the mother-in-law.
Teacher Wu Zhihong mentioned in "Why The Family Hurts People": The first place in the family should not be a parent-child relationship, but a husband and wife relationship.
As the saying goes, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is far away and close to smell, which is the truth.
Therefore, keeping a distance, having a sense of boundaries, only the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law "it doesn't matter" are the most appropriate ways to get along.
Of course, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law want to have a sense of boundaries, and they can't rely only on the consciousness of both sides.
In good families, most people with high emotional intelligence reconcile the distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
After all, because of him, the two most important women in life, he had a tie.
The direct cause of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also because the mother-in-law is worried that she has no place around her son.
What the daughter-in-law cares about is that in the small world of herself and her husband, there is always the shadow of the mother-in-law.
Therefore, if the husband is invisible at a critical moment, the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law will inevitably be short-term.
And if the husband can do a good job of bridging between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it will act as a lubricant in it.
As the old saying goes, the two ends of the heart eye conceal, and the two ends without the heart eye pass.
Knowing your position, you can become a family that everyone envies.
Of course, the problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law come from all aspects, and cannot be completely solved by adhesives alone.
It is also very demanding that all mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along completely in harmony.
Under the same roof, it is inevitable that friction will occur over time.
It is fate to get along, and it is normal not to get along.
In a word, in marriage, there are no 100% right people, only the right way and the right love.
-Ends-
Images and sources:
"Wang Lihong Announces Divorce: Eight Years and Three Sons, Still Come to This Step", Art Space, 2021.12.16
"Debunking a Lonely Rumor, Wang Lihong Is Really Divorced", Luo Serious, 2021.12.15
"Official Divorce! Wang Lihong's pet wife finally can't fit anymore", ins Life.2021.12.15
"Wang Lihong's Divorce: Eight Years of Holding the Golden Boy and Jade Girl, Why Is It Scattered?" Yi Jie Watch movie, 2021.12.16
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