Sometimes you don't have to bring too many people into your life. Loneliness, not that there are no friends around, but there is no one in the heart. The city is full of lively and lonely souls, pedestrians who come and go, but the tourists who are hit, the more lively the more deserted. Women, you need to understand the seven fragile psychology of men and then live well.
1) Men need self-esteem, and they value "face" more than anything else.
Men always have a strong sense of self-esteem, have a sense of superiority, they like to listen to women's praise, hope to occasionally come with two appropriate praises, but must be from the heart, never hypocritical.
If you truly love him, take care of his self-esteem as if he were your close friend! If it hurts his self-esteem, he will not only not fall in love with you, but may even hate you for the rest of his life.
For example, when you are proud of your career, don't let him cause pressure because of it; when he is frustrated, don't show too much concern for his gains and losses, otherwise he will feel that you are pressing forward; if he is talking and bragging outside, don't expose him and make him lose face.
2) Men need their own space so they feel free and relaxed.
Every man needs to have his own space and not want to sacrifice himself for his lover. If he were to make such a sacrifice, like the man in the opening story, who would not want to die, he would "die for you, but not for you."
3, men have their own hobbies, hobbies are their spiritual enjoyment.
Hobbies are the sustenance of a man's spirit, and he hopes that the girl can understand and accept this hobby and maintain his spiritual paradise. If you are a wise girl, learn to respect his hobbies. Even if you don't like it, please don't object! For example, don't see him watching a football game, you are disgusted.
4) Men want to do what they like to do.
Women should understand and support men in doing what they love to do. Director Ang Lee has been married for 6 years and has been doing nothing. His college graduation work "Dividing Line" won the New York University Student Film Festival Best Director and Best Picture Award, and then he has been "idle" at home, unable to find anyone to appreciate his script, nor to find anyone to invest in his films.
In those years, he did all that was throwing baseball, crushing the road, watching movies, taking kids, writing scripts, making three meals, and going in a daze. He depended on his wife's salary. Because he had no income, he was discouraged and despaired of himself, and considered whether to change his career to study computers.
His wife, Lin Huijia, knew him too well and knew that he loved movies, so she scolded him: "There are so many people who make computers, there is no shortage of you." You better concentrate on your movie. Later, Ang Lee succeeded, and a reporter went to interview Lin Huijia, and she said such a sentence: To love someone is to let him do what he wants to do.
5, don't think that the man is a fool, he just doesn't want to be too real with you.
So in front of him, you can say what you think, how you want to feel. Go straight and don't hint. Don't be dumb, men are not so delicate. They may not know what you're talking about after you've done your performance.
6, men do not like hypocrisy or heavy makeup.
Men like clean women. For your heavy makeup, he appreciates your plain face even more. Although proper makeup is polite to people, doesn't it lack a sense of reality after passing? There was no need to hide himself so much in front of him.
7. On Sundays, I just want to rest or do what I like.
Men like sports, they like healthy women, and Sunday means sports time, not just once or twice, or all-day sports, like: shopping, getting tired of being in bed. Don't let him think you're bored, in fact, on the weekends you can do something that each other wants to do.
Advice: Don't ask too much of your man, it will disgust him.
I used to think that every choice meant getting, but I didn't realize that choosing also meant giving up. However, the so-called happiness is to have someone to accompany you to talk about those trivial things in life! As the lyrics say, the most romantic thing is to grow old with you.
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