Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In the face of feelings, men and women are after all the former rational, the latter emotional!
Speaking of which, the different forms of self-treatment between men and women in feelings are probably a difference that has a long brain and a lack of roots!
Women fall in love with men, are easily addicted because of habits, and can't quit! Therefore, even if you know that the person in front of you is not the right person, you are still unwilling to let go!
Men fall in love with women because when they really want to make the final choice, they will spend the rest of their lives with the clearest mind to choose a person who is "more suitable" for themselves!
Therefore, it is not difficult for us to see in marriage and love that the proportion of happy men is far greater than that of women!
Women will give everything for love and give it their all! If you decide, it is a lifetime. Men are different!
When he loves you, the promise is true, and the desperate change of heart when he leaves you is not lying!
In particular, the last person he married may be the one he said he didn't love, but it must be the most correct choice he made after weighing all the pros and cons! And, the days after marriage must be sweeter than you think.
It turns out that men, faced with marriage and love choices, have no love to speak of!
The second grandfather Qiao Zhiyong in "Qiao Family Compound" has a lover Jiang Xueying of green plum bamboo horses. The two of them once swore in front of the bodhisattva that they would not marry, and they would not marry!
The affection between each other is not only known to each other, but also the neighbors, relatives, and family members are also seen in the eyes and remembered in the heart.
However, after the death of the eldest uncle Qiao Zhiguang due to illness, the burden of the rise and fall of the Qiao family passively fell on the body of the second master Qiao Zhiyong. For the sake of the Qiao family, the grandmother tried her best to "lead" the second grandfather to abandon the text and engage in business.
Moreover, in order to bring the Qiao family's business back to life, the grandmother made the decision for the second grandfather, proposed to the Lu family of the "first cut", and made a "career" marriage between the Qiao and Lu families!
Speaking of which, Lu Yuhan, the miss of the Lu family, has never had a place in the heart of qiao Zhiyong, the second grandfather before being proposed! The affair between the two was also broken by Qiao Zhiyong's drunken mud on the night of the candle in the cave room.
Looking at such a situation, I believe that no one will feel that the "affectionate" Qiao Zhiyong will forget the beloved Jiang Xueying completely when he is newly married for a few days, and he will be deeply entangled with Miss Lu in front of him, right?
However, the "affectionate" Qiao Zhiyong is extremely disappointing! He, taken away all his affection by Miss Lu, a "love" that could not be contained by Miss Lu could not extricate himself!
Qiao Zhiyong, who "empathizes with others", exhausts the realistic nature of men facing marriage and love. Understand Qiao Zhiyong's empathy, you will understand the choice of men when facing marriage and love, after all, it has nothing to do with love:
First: in a man's heart, reality and love are separated after all
When meeting Jiang Xueying before Qiao Zhiyong became a parent, Jiang Xueying said:
I know, Joe's family is down now, but don't think about it! Whatever you become, I'll follow you!
Moreover, when Jiang Xueying's father wanted to choose another son-in-law for Jiang Xueying, Jiang Xueying faced Qiao Zhiyong and affirmatively said, "I will not agree..."
Then, on the night when Qiao Zhiyong became a parent, he packed up his luggage and said to his handmaiden in a fixed tone, he will definitely come and take me away!
Qiao Zhiyong came, but he only roared a few times and did not take her away!
He went back to the rise and fall of the Qiao family and righteously accepted the marriage with Miss Lu, which was beyond reproach! However, what is surprising is that in the face of his newlywed wife's help and full dedication to himself, Qiao Zhiyong has completely fallen!
Qiao Zhiyong, because he needs to rely on his wife's interests, because he sees his wife's shrewd mind, he can support himself to achieve great things...
For a short time of new marriage, because Qiao Zhiyong had to go to Baotou to deal with business, it was inseparable for the husband and wife to have a strong sense of concubinage...
Jiang Xueying has been replaced in just a few days!
A woman truly falls in love with a man, whether poor or rich, tall, fat and thin, she will follow her for a lifetime. Even, against everyone's wishes, moths will fight fires. As long as men love themselves, even if the knife is in the fire and the oil pot, they have nothing to fear!
But men, after all, love and marriage are separated, and reality and love can be easily distinguished.
In particular, when facing a golden and wise woman who can make her "struggle less", all the sea oaths and mountain alliances can be taken lightly by the wind and clouds. Whether the past can be remembered again is really unknown!
Love is deeply rooted, because love cannot be. Let go of the past because the profits are maximized!
Women's affection, in the face of reality, is not worth mentioning for men after all!
Qiao Zhiyong to Jiang Xueying, there is no chai rice oil and salt of the wind flower snow moon, but Jiang Xueying took it seriously. Qiao Zhiyong to his new wife is a convenient door to open the fried rice oil and salt!
In this emotional war, in the trade-off between pros and cons, Jiang Xueying is doomed to lose to Miss Lu!
Second: the affection of women, in the face of men's reality, is worthless
In real life, I believe that a large part of the people will say that women are material, and that women will eventually use material to determine the depth and value of feelings!
But in fact, women care about the material on the surface, care about the truth in the heart! However, she wants to reflect that she is valued through the form of men's material contributions!
Most of the time, women just use their mouths to care about material things and seem urgent, but they are just to find a sense of security in their hearts.
When you really fall in love with someone, what you say and what you actually want have nothing to do with each other. What is said in the mouth is material, but what is in the heart is who is truly loved!
And a man, when faced with feelings, does not say anything on his lips, and his actions seem to be very affectionate, but in fact, the material reality he cares about is deeply rooted in his heart.
Qiao Zhiyong has loved Jiang Xueying deeply for many years, and in the face of Lu Yuhan, who is golden, beautiful and wise, the white moonlight of the past has also instantly faded!
Before the newlyweds returned to the door, Qiao Zhiyong and Lu Yuhan had no round house. However, when Lu Yuhan took Qiao Zhiyong back to the door, he used the jade jade cabbage of the dowry to blackmail his father into lending hundreds of thousands of taels of silver to the Qiao family, and Qiao Zhiyong instantly turned against him after learning about it!
Therefore, after borrowing money and returning, Lu Yuhan used the words "I didn't know that you once had a beloved lover" and wanted to pack up her things and go back to her mother's house, when Qiao Zhiyong said, "Since I married you, you are my wife... Where are you going back? Then, the two men made up the night of the flower candle in the cave room, and Lang's concubine intentions began from then on...
For the sake of the rise and fall of the Qiao family, it is forgivable to be forced to marry Lu Yuhan, but within a few days of the new marriage, he saw the money transference, the recognition of the heart, the love, and the years of feelings forgotten...
This is the manifestation of men's nature in the face of reality.
Women feel that as long as two people are deeply in love, they can be a lifetime! In men's view, the material of real life is the real rest of life.
Many people say that where a man's money is in his heart, but in fact, where the man's center of gravity is, it represents where the actual interests are!
Who a man is emotional about and who he changes his heart depends entirely on who can maximize his own interests in the real trade-off.
Men can weigh in for the sake of realistic benefits, and bond with a woman who doesn't love. It can also be because after the union, with the woman who brings her the greatest benefit, a deep "love" is generated, and she is single-minded and loyal!
When faced with reality, men's sanity and women's brainlessness are doomed between the two, and the chance of women being hurt is the greatest!
In real life, it is unknown how many men and women have lost to reality. I don't know how many women bear the name of material, but only care about "he loves me" and are full of holes for a man.
I don't know how many men, under the banner of "I love you, have to do it", have finally held hands with others!
The biggest irony in the love between men and women is that "affection cannot be eaten as a meal"!
Where is there so much love without fruit? Where are there so many objective factors? It's just a "last resort" after weighing the pros and cons!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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