After 14 years, Sun Haiyang's family finally ushered in a reunion, and finally got to see their own son Sun Zhuo. In the past 14 years, he knows best what kind of mental journey he has experienced.
There is no doubt that the past days have been extremely heartache and suffering for Sun Haiyang's family, and they never thought that Sun Zhuo would be separated from his family in that way, nor did he think that this misfortune would happen to him.
Fortunately, Sun Haiyang's family did not choose to give up, even if the time passed, they still chose to persist, and the final result did not disappoint them.
So what has sun haiyang's family experienced in the past 14 years, perhaps we can get some information from the self-statement of Sun Haiyang's daughter and Sun Zhuo's sister Sun Yue.
01 Fathers who value their children's education
Sun Haiyang grew up poor, so his education level is not high. It is precisely because of the losses they have suffered over the years that they pay more attention to their children's education.
Sun Yue is the eldest daughter of Sun Haiyang, and Sun Haiyang attaches great importance to Sun Yue's education. At that time, Sun Haiyang and his wife ran a bun shop in the county town, got up early every day and were greedy, very hard, earned hard money, and the family was not rich.
However, in this case, Sun Haiyang still insisted on enrolling Sun Yue in a dance class, hoping that Sun Yue could have a skill in addition to his cultural achievements.
However, everyone also understands that it is not an easy task to learn to dance, especially the training of basic skills, which may make children feel very uncomfortable, so some children do not want to learn to dance, or they are not willing to go to dance classes.
Sun Yue is also such a child, the basic skills training is very hard, Sun Yue did not want to go at that time, that time Sun Haiyang was angry with his daughter for the first time, holding the iron tongs next to the stove and loudly questioning Sun Yue whether he was going to dance class.
Sun Yue, who had never seen his father get angry in front of him, was scared to cry that time. After seeing his daughter crying, Sun Haiyang hurriedly put down the iron tongs, and his heart was also very entangled, after all, it was not his intention to scare his daughter.
Judging from Sun Haiyang's various behaviors, he attaches great importance to his children's education, and does not want the children to experience the hardships they have suffered again, but wants the children to live a better life in the future.
02 Sun Zhuo's quarrel after "losing"
October 9, 2007, this day may not be forgotten for the Sun Haiyang family for a lifetime. This day is the day Sun Zhuo was taken away.
After Sun Zhuo was taken away, Sun Haiyang's family fell into a complex mood of complaining, anxiety, and self-blame. During the day, the family went out en masse, posted notices of search for people, and walked the streets and alleys to inquire about the news. At night, when everyone gets together, accusations and quarrels between each other also occur.
Sun Haiyang's wife blamed him for not looking after Sun Zhuo, while Sun Haiyang blamed his wife Sun Zhuo for being abducted when she was only three or four meters away but did not find out in time, while Sun Haiyang's mother blamed her son and daughter-in-law for losing her grandson.
In one quarrel after another, the emotions in everyone's heart are cathartic, but it is also easy to change a person's personality.
One of the most influential is Sun Zhuo's mother, who has become sentimental, sensitive and somewhat emotional since Sun Zhuo was taken away.
Sun Yue recalled that after a quarrel between her father and mother, her mother almost cut off her own hand with a kitchen knife, but she was stopped in time.
In this quarrel between the family and the thought of Sun Zhuo, Sun Zhuo's mother's body became weaker and weaker, which made people feel painful.
03 Self-blame after "running away from home"
There were few conflicts between Sun Yue and her parents, and when she was in the sixth grade of elementary school, there was a relatively fierce conflict between her and her mother.
One day after noon, Sun Yue came to the bun shop, but her mother kept nagging herself, so Sun Yue felt a little unbearable and ran to the school gate, trying to find a clean point.
As a result, this action angered the mother, and then the mother went to the school gate to argue with Sun Yue and dragged Sun Yue back home.
What is more embarrassing is that there were many students who knew Sun Yue at the school gate at that time, so Sun Yue thought that his mother's move hurt his self-esteem. Coupled with the fact that the sixth grade has gradually entered the rebellious period, Sun Yue made a decision to sneak out of the house and go to a park near her home.
After it was dark, Sun Yue gradually regained calm in his heart and walked home. When she got home, she found two police officers in the house, and when she realized that her parents couldn't find her, she immediately called the police. They no longer want Sun Zhuo's encounter to be repeated.
At the moment of seeing Sun Yue, the expression of Sun Haiyang and his wife became relaxed, and the previous anxiety disappeared, at least the child did not have an accident, which was the best news.
This "running away from home" made Sun Yue feel remorseful, from her parents' words and deeds, she could feel that her parents attached importance to herself, and her original immature behavior made her parents worry about themselves.
04 Sun Hui who is carefully cared for
On the one hand, the Sun Haiyang family is insisting on finding Sun Zhuo, and on the other hand, it is also actively facing life. Sun Hui is the couple's third child, and Sun Hui's birth has eased the atmosphere of the whole family a lot.
After Sun Hui was born, the family did not tell him any news that his brother Sun Zhuo had been abducted at the first time, but silently guarded Sun Hui through a special way.
In order to prevent Sun Zhuo's tragedy from happening to Sun Hui again, even if Sun Hui is in the second grade of primary school, Sun Haiyang and his wife still choose to insist on sending him to school and sending him to interest classes.
Sun Hui is also confused because many of his peers around him have already gone to school on their own, without parental pick-up. So Sun Hui told his parents what he thought, and at that time, Sun Hui's mother told his brother Sun Zhuo's experience. After knowing this, Sun Hui also began to understand his parents and be considerate of them.
05 Joy after the reunion
When Sun Zhuo's news was confirmed through DNA comparison, the dark clouds that hung over Sun Haiyang's family finally dissipated. At the recognition ceremony, Sun Haiyang and Sun Zhuo hugged and cried. As a big man Sun Haiyang cried a lot. At that time, he didn't think about his face at all, he just wanted to wrap his arms around Sun Zhuo tightly, not wanting him to be taken away from him again.
Sun Yue was studying in Singapore at the time, and because of the relevant requirements of epidemic prevention and control, she was not able to return to China to participate in the recognition ceremony. However, it was time to get in touch with Sun Zhuo through video.
"Hello Sun Zhuo, I'm a sister, I'm in Singapore."
Although his heart had already made full preparations, when Sun Yue said these words, the tears had already flowed down uncontrollably, and his voice had become choked. The younger brother who had thought about playing with him as a child had been separated from himself for 14 years and was now an adult.
In the past 14 years, the family has never forgotten Sun Zhuo, nor has they given up looking for Sun Zhuo, and now that they have been reunited, it is difficult to describe the joy in their hearts no matter how many words they say.
Sun Yue said that Sun Zhuo's grades in other subjects were OK, but her English was relatively weak, and she also had one more task after that, that is, to use the holiday to tutor Sun Zhuo's English.
06 Write at the end
In the past 14 years, Sun Haiyang's family does not know how many tears have been shed and how many times they have experienced the gap from hope to disappointment, but they have never given up. Every time he saw other families find their children, his heart was both happy and uncomfortable, and how he hoped that the child who was found was Sun Zhuo.
However, "the hard heart of the people is not disappointed", in the end, Sun Haiyang's persistence was rewarded, Sun Zhuo finally found it, and then the family no longer had to be sentimental during the New Year's Festival, but re-embraced the new life with a positive attitude.
Attached is the original text of Sun Yue's post: