Some time ago, there was a very hot topic on Weibo: "The host analyzed Zhang Yuqi's name."
The host used "Lady, Yi Yu Yi Li, Yi Qi Yi
The outflow of short videos has made netizens frequently praise the host's knowledge reserves.
But these two poems are not from a certain book, but from his improvisation.
This host is called Li Jianian.
This time, Ten O'Clock Jun chatted with him about dreams, family affection and life.
The name Li Jianian is always linked to "Women under the World".
In 2009, when Li Jianian debuted from "The Woman under the World" and began to emerge, the scenes of his recent embarrassing life are still vivid.
Li Jianian (far right) was recorded at the scene of the "Woman under Heaven" program
That year, Li Jianian, who had just arrived in Beijing, experienced for the first time the feeling of "no relatives":
Not a single friend or relative, completely black eyes.
Everything should be established from zero, and the most direct feeling is the expensive rent, high prices, and the rhythm of urban work like "Dulala Promotion".
At that time, the economy was in distress, in order to save money, he only ate one meal a day, and when the landlord knocked on the door to ask for rent, he hid in the house and did not dare to open the door.
In this situation, depression also quietly comes.
That long waiting period made Li Jianian, who was only 20 years old, have a particularly hard time.
Fortunately, his sense of faith is the best gift for Beijing.
Li Jianian did not choose to give up, he remembered a similar low he had earlier.
It was in childhood, when a sudden family change made the whole family very poor.
His grandmother, who loved him the most, also died at the same time.
In the midst of great grief, when the whole family rented into the four walls of the low-cost house, Li Jianian's inner force was released to the greatest extent.
"I fought back like a Jedi, and God didn't deserve that determination on me."
During the college entrance examination, he was admitted to the Film Academy of Chongqing University with the first place in the country.
The experience of that year has always inspired him to move forward.
By chance, he saw that Sunshine Media, helmed by the famous host Yang Lan, was recruiting people. Although the conditions are not fully adapted, Li Jianian still plucked up the courage to submit his resume.
During the interview, he gave HR an extremely sincere look.
"That look seems to be saying, 'I won't be able to live if you don't admit me again.'"
Then he received an offer.
In Sunshine Media, he became the host of the hot field, and at the beginning he won the audience's good mood by performing live performances of dance professional skills, because of talent, he touched the doorway two or three times, and he could drive the audience's mood by chatting.
After Yang Lan knew, he gave an evaluation: "Yes, then let him go out on location." ”
As a result, Li Jianian became the location host of "Women in the World".
From 2009 to now, from "Women in the World" to "Fashion Exchange" to "Beautiful Pretty Lady", Li Jianian has already had a place on the hosting stage.
Li Jianian (right) at the recording site of "Beautiful Pretty Lady"
But many people may not know that he is an authentic "social terrorist", but he has his own set of ideas for getting along with people:
One is sincerity, basic courtesy, and smiling;
The second is to improve yourself and become a very powerful person, so that there will be people with social cattle X syndrome to take the initiative to find you to socialize.
Relying on these two moves, Li Jianian has walked freely for 10 years in the role of the host, who should have been "extroverted".
When I think back to that time, Li Jianian said:
"One is to thank so many friends for their help, and the other is to thank myself for gritting my teeth at that time."
In the balance between work and family, Li Jianian also has his own set of unique ideas.
Li Jianian's parents have received a good education.
In his own words, they are "mature parents" who communicate without any barriers or obstacles, and who are very transparent in their hearts and do not impose their hopes on their children.
Many people think that to love their parents, you have to "go home often to see", but Li Jianian does not think so, he said:
"The moment when you can provide a good life for your family, like when they have a nice house, drive a comfortable car, don't have to freeze outside in winter, and then they don't have to hesitate about what they eat and buy, it's the happiest moment for me."
Don't keep saying you're just staying with him, but you can't create a good life for them. ”
In his eyes, it is even more important to be able to create a better living environment and living conditions for his parents, especially when his parents are getting older.
Li Jianian with his parents
But not staying around often does not mean that Li Jianian does not like to get along with her parents.
Li Jianian and her father often joked and joked like friends:
"My dad will never say when you will come back, dad misses you, no, he will say that his son's dad has recently lost some tea, you have to study, a little eyesight." 」
In Li Jianian's vision, when his father retired, he took his father to his side and lived with his mother, in his vision, the so-called "fairy-like days" are probably:
"Every day after getting up, I have my mother's meal, and then I can also tease the cat with my mother every day, and then go out for a walk after eating with my mother and my father in the evening, go to skewer relatives during the day, and then do pedicure at home to do pedicure and pedicure."
When he was young, Li Jianian got along with his father in the same way as all fathers and sons in the world.
There have been conflicts, quarrels, and even "wars" between the two.
But as the years passed, everything returned to calm and gentleness.
Li Jianian will always remember taking his parents to Xinjiang in 2017, and in the early morning, he and his father got up together to watch the sunrise.
At that time, my father said to him:
"Son, I suddenly feel that our life is like a sunrise, it is always 'little lotus to show sharp corners', and in the end it shows a pure, original appearance, and a good family of three is really good."
In 2020, a sudden epidemic disrupted the rhythm of everyone's life.
The impact of the repeated epidemics on life is unavoidable, and he has his own set of soothing ways to deal with negative emotions:
"A lot of emotions are 'idle', mediocre self-disturbance, keep yourself busy, find things for yourself to do, take time out to do things, instead of thinking about things, you will not always be trapped in an emotional whirlpool." 」
One of the ways Li Jianian makes himself "busy" is to test the waters of the live broadcast industry. But he does not bring his own goods, but empowers the host of the live broadcast room of brands and artists.
When Yang Lan, Li Jing and other predecessors achieved success in the live broadcast industry, Li Jianian suddenly understood that the boundaries of hosts should not be limited to the TV screen.
But Li Jianian is not a person who "goes with the flow": "I am a person who worships microphones and worships professions. ”
In the context of the change of hosting mode and the change of marketing model, the live party he received often had to work alone for 7-8 hours.
"The guests are flowing water, I am iron."
This toil is also his sobriety:
"I'm certainly not as popular as celebrity traffic and seniors...
I don't have the ability to select products and brands to hit prices, etc., so I will do the live broadcast hosting in a down-to-earth manner, and I am very satisfied with the recognition of the industry and the brand. ”
In the days of doing live broadcasting, Li Jianian's happiest thing is to look at the praise bullet screen on the screen, and every time the audience praises his voice, it will make him secretly happy for a while.
When he didn't have to work, he chose to spend his time reading, watching movies and making clay sculptures, and he found that when various activities filled the gaps in life, anxiety could be well diluted.
During this temporary leisure time, Li Jianian also had more time to think about his present and future.
10 years ago, he stood on stage and picked up the microphone.
After 10 years, his career was small, and his original intention did not change.
He said that the biggest change today compared to his self 10 years ago is that he knows how to "respect himself":
"10 years ago I was a completely disrespectful person, always thinking every day about how to make other people happy, will he not like me?
Looking back now, I even feel that a lot of good youth and time was wasted at that time.
So I also want to share a point that one of the things you always have to do is first you believe that you are good, respect yourself, make yourself comfortable, and other people will be comfortable because they are with you. ”
When asked what he wanted to say to himself 10 years ago, Li Jianian said:
"You see, nothing that you used to worry about and worry about has happened, everything is fine, don't worry, don't be inferior, because you're already a star in the eyes of so many people." 」
I think this sentence does not only apply to himself, but also to all ordinary people who inevitably have low self-esteem in life and have to pluck up the courage to face life.
Like me, like you.
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Author | Xie Bian, a dog that kept running, was gone.
Anchor | Yi Fan, radio host, sound temperature explorer.
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