Wen | Nanyi girl
What is about marriage? The famous host Li Yong once said:
"Getting married is like a husband and wife starting a company, there is a common interest, that is, the family, for this common interest to work hard is to operate, so that winning profits everyone has benefits." 」
Deeply believe that marriage is a community, only the two sides have a heart, carefully manage the marriage, in order to harvest greater benefits, that is, happiness; on the contrary, only care about personal interests, and are not willing to bear the responsibilities and obligations attached to marriage, will eventually pay a tragic price.
Marriage, not only for women is the second reincarnation, for men, good or bad and inappropriate, we do not discuss for the time being, it is important that the choice must have the determination to be loyal and consistent, share happiness and hardship, if the marriage contract is used as a means of subsistence, such a person is doomed to suffer for a lifetime.
01The wife, who has been missing for 14 years, actually slept on the bed of her co-workers
Wang Xinyu (pseudonym), a 55-year-old man who lives in Ningxiang City, is a construction site carpenter, because of the needs of work, he has been traveling all over the world for many years, and the work around him is also a migrant worker from all over the world, however, strangely, not long ago, he met a woman who resembled his missing wife on a nearby construction site.
What surprised him was more than this, beside the "wife", there was also a man who claimed to be her husband, the man's name was Liu Cheng (pseudonym), which made him wonder, was this woman really his wife who had been missing for more than ten years? If so, why would there be another husband? What is the hidden feeling behind the disappearance of his wife?
According to Wang Xinyu, he and his wife Li Wenxiu (pseudonym) married in 1993, gave birth to a son the following year, and to this day, have been married to 29 years old, as for when his wife disappeared, Wang Xinyu claimed that he went out to work in 2007, and his wife left the child in a restaurant in her hometown and then disappeared from home.
At first, a few years after his wife disappeared, Wang Xinyu also looked around, and his wife's family also said that they did not know where to go, in order to study for their children to go to school, in the end, Wang Xinyu gave up the search and never thought of remarrying.
However, I did not expect that the wife who had been looking for fourteen years of disappearance had actually become husband and wife with his co-workers on the construction site, and after inquiring, the wife Wang Xinyu was looking for may be the wife of the co-worker Liu Cheng, but the other party was not called Li Wenxiu, but Liu Xiulian (pseudonym).
So, we immediately rushed to Liu Cheng's dormitory, as soon as we entered the door, we saw Liu Cheng sitting up from the bed, and the woman who shared the bed with Liu Cheng was Li Wenxiu, and Wang Xinyu collapsed on the spot.
After some communication, for his wife Li Xiulian suddenly had an extra "husband", at the beginning, Liu Cheng was also dazed, and only then did he know that his wife had a history of marriage in the past, and that she had not gone through divorce.
At the same time, Liu Cheng told us that in 2005, he met Li Xiulian while working in Zhuzhou, and in the same year, he established a romantic relationship, and three years later, when she applied for a marriage license, the real name of her ID card was li Xiulian, and the marital status was unmarried, so she never doubted it.
Moreover, after more than ten years of marriage, his wife Li Xiulian also bore her three children.
So, why did Li Wenxiu Wang Xinxiu get married and still apply for a marriage license with Liu Cheng? Could it be that Wang Xinyu really recognized the wrong person, and his missing wife Li Wenxiu and Liu Cheng's wife Li Xiulian were not the same person?
02Why did the wife run away from home? Who is the real husband with two marriage certificates?
Married for more than ten years, at this time Liu Cheng, for the wife who had just slept with him, suddenly felt strange, and she also wanted to understand how much his wife was hiding that he did not know.
Subsequently, the reporter began to ask about the woman in front of him, however, no matter how Wang Xinyu accused, the other party always chose to remain silent. Wang Xinyu is very sure that Liu Cheng's wife, Li Xiulian, is his wife Li Wenxiu, who has been missing for fourteen years.
Under the repeated questioning of the reporter, Li Xiulian finally began to speak, Li Xiulian said that the reason why she ran away from home that year was that she found that her husband had a close relationship with other women, and in a fit of anger, she threw the child in the restaurant and made the act of abandoning her husband and son, which was really helpless.
During the conversation, Li Xiulian still kept crying, as if to express the misfortune of the marriage contract with Wang Xinyu, she was a woman with a bitter fate.
However, for his wife's explanation, Wang Xinyu refuted it, claiming that in 2005, because of a person's limited income, he let his wife also go out to work, she met Liu Cheng in 2005, and during the marriage contract, she fell in love with Liu Cheng, it is reasonable to say that Li Xiulian betrayed first, and then abandoned her husband and son in 2007.
Secondly, Wang Xinyu confessed that he had never betrayed the marriage contract, and he had never thought of finding another wife to live in fourteen years.
So, during the marriage contract between Wang Xinyu and Li Wenxiu, how did she marry Liu Cheng?
When we asked Li Xiulian again, she confessed that she did not betray the marriage contract, it was three years after running away from home, she only met Liu Cheng, and later, when inquiring about the household registration, she found that she had no relationship with Wang Xinyu, which was relieved to receive a marriage license with Liu Cheng.
Time is the best ironclad evidence, no matter how Li Xiulian defends, it cannot change the fact that she is lying.
Perhaps it is the bitter fruit planted in that year, now married to Liu Cheng's Li Xiulian, life is not good, in this regard, Wang Xinyu said that as long as his wife goes home with her, he can still accept her and will not turn over old accounts.
If the wife continues to live with Liu Cheng, Wang Xinyu requires the wife to pay part of the son's maintenance over the years, as well as mental loss fees totaling 100,000 yuan;
Hearing that Li Xiulian was asked to compensate 100,000 yuan, Liu Jianma, who was sitting on the side, stood up and said that there was no money, and Wang Xinyu immediately retorted: "My wife has not had a penny with you?" ”
Liu Cheng said, "I said are you here to scam now, or are you here to do something?" ”
In fact, in this relationship dispute, Liu Cheng himself is also a victim, for Wang Xinyu to find his wife to ask for 100,000 yuan of maintenance, in the end, does not still need to pay for it himself? There are still three children in his family that need to be raised, how to get 100,000 yuan and compensate Wang Xinyu.
Watching her two husbands argue over money there, Li Xiulian cried and said that she had no money and would rather live alone, and even her four children (Wang Xinyu and Liu Cheng) did not want to take care of it anymore.
Seeing that his wife began to speak out and was unwilling to take responsibility, Liu Li immediately stepped forward to stop it, and at the same time, Liu Cheng also refused to discuss the solution to the matter.
The next day, when we went to Liu Cheng and Li Xiulian to negotiate, the workers told us that the two of them had left the construction site and returned to their hometown; in desperation, we rushed to Liu Cheng's hometown, but we did not see their shadows, so it can be judged that the two sides intend to refuse to take all responsibility in an evasive way.
Subsequently, Wang Xinyu chose to call the police, during which Time Wang Xinyu got a surprising message, it turned out that his wife's real name was Li Xiulian, and she used a fake ID card to marry Wang Xinyu; and then, she used her own ID card to marry Liu Cheng.
03 The author's emotional summary
A good marriage contract, half rely on loyalty, half rely on self-discipline, for marriage, the host Yang Lan also said:
"Marriage is not only love, but also the righteousness of taking care of each other, the tacit understanding of not abandoning and the unforgettable kindness."
Everyone can get married, but they can't get married for the sake of getting married, marriage is when both parties reach an agreement, be responsible for each other, and face the difficulties of the future together. Relying on each other, in the face of suffering, will not take a step back.
Marriage, for anyone, is not a benefit, but a responsibility that cannot be shirked. Men must play the responsibility of husband and father, women must play a good role as wives and mothers, walking through the wind and rain, helping each other in the same boat, is the true meaning of marriage.
According to Article 1051 of the Civil Code, Li Xiulian was involved in bigamy, Li Xiulian used a fake identity card to marry Wang Xinyu, during 1994, the two had a husband and wife, and also gave birth to a son, the marriage contract was valid; the marriage contract with Liu Cheng was invalid; Wang Xinyu could sue his wife Li Xiulian for bigamy. Liu Cheng can sue Li Xiulian for financial compensation.