Who is Lu Xun's wife?
You're going to say —.
Xu Guangping, something that everyone on the earth knows.
In fact, Xu Guangping and Lu Xun were only cohabiting, and Lu Xun did not go through any marriage procedures with her before he died.
Since the two people love each other, why don't they go through the formalities and be together in a bright and honest manner?
The reason for this is -
Lu Xun is a man with a family, he has a wife with knotted hair——
Juan
。
Juan, also known as Lady Juan. She was Lu Xun's knotted wife, a poor and unfortunate little woman.
Zhu An, a native of Shaoxing Province, Zhejiang Province, was the original partner of Mr. Lu Xun and the wife of an arranged marriage.
Juan was three years older than Lu Xun and was a traditional little-footed lady.
In 1901, in line with the traditional idea that a man should marry a woman, Lu Xun's mother listened to the matchmaker's words and went to the Zhu family without her son's consent
"Please Geng"
He arranged a marriage for Lu Xun.
It is that the two families of men and women exchange the eight characters of the birthday of their children to see if their eight characters match.
In feudal society, only men and women with the same characters could marry.
Lu Xun was reluctant to marry a hundred people, he was already in a new school in Nanjing at that time, accepting the new idea, how could it be possible to marry an uncultured, traditional small-footed woman!
Lu Xun once resisted, but his mother liked Juan, saying that they were a couple created by heaven and earth.
Lu Xun had no reason to contradict his mother, he only had silence.
Silence does not mean compromise, Lu Xun hated this marriage from the bottom of his heart, he took it
"Procrastination"
Strategy, trying to make the Zhu family retreat from difficulties.
Lu Xun received a scholarship to study in Japan, and he left without looking back.
Juan waited for the word boudoir, but her fiancé crossed the ocean and heard nothing...
When Lu Xun went to Japan to study, Juan was already twenty-one years old!
In those days, women usually married at the age of sixteen or seventeen.
Juan is an old girl without compromise.
After the old girl Juan left, she had been silently waiting for his husband to return...
Waiting, what is the taste...
Wandering, anxious, uneasy, probably a little bit of anticipation!
After all, at that time, it was a very glorious thing to be able to study abroad, and it was every woman's dream to have a noble husband and wife.
"When Mr. Big comes back, we will get married, and after marriage I must be the most virtuous wife."
Juan often thinks like this...
Poor Juan, she didn't know that Lu Xun never wanted to spend his life with him...
When Lu Xun was in Japan, he wrote to his mother to bring a message to the Zhu family, persuading Zhu An to put his feet on his feet and go to the academy to study.
But the Zhu family did not allow it, they were a traditional feudal family, they could not understand why Lu Xun wanted his daughter to put her feet, how could a big-footed woman go out to meet people?
"A woman's talentlessness is virtue"
The concept also made it impossible for the Zhu family to agree to let their daughter go to the academy to study.
Juan was also very confused about Lu Xun's suggestion, she did not have the courage to put her feet, and the small feet had already taken shape, and it was useless to put them.
Here, we can't blame Juan, the traditional education from childhood to adulthood made her accustomed to "three from four virtues, against the grain." ”
Just like a person who is accustomed to eating coarse tea and light rice, it is not comfortable for him to eat the whole table of Han.
What kind of environment produces what kind of talent.
Lu Xun wanted to change Juan with only one letter of his own, which was too subjective.
Time flies, Lu Xun is gone, the Zhu family is anxious, and Lu Xun's mother is also anxious!
"We in the Zhou family must not do unkind and unjust deeds..."
Soon, Lu Xun in Japan received a letter from his mother who was seriously ill, causing him to return quickly.
Anxious, Lu Xun immediately booked a ferry ticket and returned to his hometown...
The mother was fine, but ordered herself to marry the Zhu family girl immediately.
Lu Xun was silent.
In 1906, Lu Xun finally consummated marriage to Juan.
The Zhu family was very uneasy, they knew that Lu Xun had new ideas, afraid that he would have a situation at the wedding...
It is gratifying that Lu Xun is very obedient and has not made any trouble.
The Zhu family was relieved, they thought that Lu Xun had already confessed his fate!
They were wrong...
Lu Xun's obedience was only to filial piety to his mother, and he didn't want her to be sad for the old man!
From the moment Lu Xun saw Juan's first face, he was doomed to have no chance to stay with each other...
Lu Xun lifted up the red cloth covering the bride's head, and his heart flooded with a burst of coldness——
"Yellow and white, pointed chin, lips a little thin, face too big..."
What especially made Lu Xun dissatisfied was that Zhu An was obviously a small foot, but he also had to put on a pair of large cloth shoes, which was simply a fraud!
"Am I going to spend my life with such an uncultured country woman?"
Lu Xun was desperate and never looked at Juan again.
"Juan is a gift from my mother, and I can only provide for a good life, but I can't give her love."
Lu Xun said to his friend like this...
On the fourth day after the marriage, Lu Xun left, and he did not follow the local rules, took Juan to the ancestral hall with him to worship the ancestors, and even left in a hurry without even saying hello to his wife before leaving.
Juan looked at her husband's departing back in a daze, and tears silently slid down...
"Am I really that annoying?"
Juan, from the moment she married Lu Xun, her life was no longer complete!
Lu Xun never wanted to get to know his wife, his heart was full of anger and pain, and he never gave Juan any chance to get close to himself, including his body!
Juan has a husband equals no husband, she became a decoration, a shadow.
Juan was very uneasy -
"I've been married to Mr. Big for so long, why hasn't he ever said a word to himself?"
"Mr. Big, I, I..."
"It's too late, it's time to go to bed, don't stay here!"
For Lu Xun, Juan was not a wife, just a gift, and he only had the obligation to support himself, and as for the rest, he did not have to care.
Lu Xun's mother hugged her grandson with her heart, but day after day, year after year, Juan never showed any signs of pregnancy.
Lu Xun's mother talked to Juan once and asked her to add Ding to the Zhou family as soon as possible.
"My mother-in-law blames me for not fulfilling my daughter-in-law's responsibilities, but Mr. Big has never touched me, so how can I have children?"
Juan desperately told outsiders...
If it weren't for the utter despair in the depths of his heart, with a traditional character like Juan, how could he possibly tell others about his privacy?
Cold, boundless cold surrounded Juan, and she couldn't see any hope...
Juan also tried to communicate with her husband about her feelings, for example, Lu Xun occasionally said that there was a fruit that was delicious, and Juan immediately said that he had eaten it too.
But Juan didn't know that Lu Xun was talking about Japanese fruits, and China didn't buy them at all!
Zhu An's flattery only deepened Lu Xun's disgust for himself...
"What an illiterate country woman."
Juan was so frightened that he didn't dare to say more...
As the days passed, Juan was still guarding the widow...
Juan was not dead-hearted, she felt that she was a snail, crawling slowly along the corner of the wall, always able to climb to the top of the wall.
"One day, Mr. Big will be moved..."
However, Lu Xun was still the same, although the two were husband and wife, they lived separately in two places and did not interfere with each other!
Zhu An was shattered, and she didn't know what she should do to make Mr. Big happy.
"Maybe let Mr. Big take a concubine room, and he will be happy."
In Juan's traditional thinking, the husband is heaven, and since he cannot pass on the inheritance for his husband, he has the responsibility to take a concubine for him.
The naïve Juan did not expect that her kindness would only be exchanged for a blank eye of Lu Xun!
Juan didn't understand Lu Xun, and Lu Xun didn't understand Juan.
Juan spent one night after another in loneliness, she only had her mother-in-law, no husband; only sourness and no happiness.
Finally, one day, Juan discovered the existence of Xu Guangping...
Juan was completely chilled...
"Mr. Big is not coming back, and I have no strength!"
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping were teacher-student lovers, and they represented the trend of society at that time...
Juan was unfortunately born in the era of the alternation of old and new, and was thus forgotten...
Soon after, Xu Guangping and Lu Xun lived together.
Xu Guangping became pregnant, she gave birth to a son, Lu Xun named the child "Sea Baby"
Juan is a kind woman, and although Lu Xun ignores her, she is still happy that Lu Xun has a son in middle age.
"Mr. Big finally has a queen, and I am relieved."
Juan regards Xu Guangping as a sister and Zhou Haiying as her own.
However, Lu Xun was still not moved, and the world did not know Juan's kindness.
In 1936, Lu Xun died of illness...
"Mr. Big is gone!"
Juan wanted to cry without tears.
In this marriage, Juan never felt the slightest happiness, but she was still sad and sad for Mr. Big's departure.
Juan, the dumbest woman in the world...
After Lu Xun's death, Juan's life with his mother-in-law was borne by Xu Guangping, and Lu Xun's younger brother Zhou Zuoren occasionally took care of it.
Her mother-in-law also died, and Juan was really lonely.
Juan no longer accepted Zhou Zuoren's help——
"Mr. Big doesn't like this brother, and I can't do what Mr. Big doesn't like."
Up to this point, Zhu An's heart was still thinking about Mr. Big.
Xu Guangping was imprisoned, Zhu completely cut off his source of livelihood, and his life was miserable.
A small bowl of porridge, a plate of pickles marinated by herself, this is Juan's three meals a day.
Later, even such a day could not be maintained, and in desperation, Zhu An could only sell some of Lu Xun's paintings and calligraphy according to Zhou Zuoren's suggestion.
Public opinion has reprimanded Juan, and reporters have even come to the door to scold Juan for not fulfilling his wife's responsibilities.
What is
"Failure to fulfill the wife's duty"
Did Lu Xun ever perform his "husband's duty" to Zhu An before his death?
Why don't people condemn Lu Xun, but blame Juan?
That's because Lu Xun was a great intellectual, a great writer, an anti-feudal fighter...
And Juan is just an insignificant country woman who can be trampled on.
"I am also a relic of my husband, why don't you consider protecting me, you protect and protect me?"
This was the only time Juan, the poor woman, had cried out for herself...
On June 29, 1947, Juan finished his life in solitude.
Before Zhu An died, he hoped that he could be buried with Lu Xun——
"Born in different beds, dead in the same cave!"
This is Juan's last cry...
Unfortunately, Juan still didn't get his wish...
Led by Xu Guangping, Zhu An was buried next to the grave of Mrs. Zhou, Lu Xun's mother, her mother-in-law.
After all, Juan is just a gift from her mother-in-law!
A novel written by Lu Xun
"Blessings"
Xiang Lin's sister-in-law, who was widowed twice, her unfortunate encounter has brought countless readers to tears.
But in the author's opinion, Juan is more unfortunate than Xianglin sister-in-law, Xianglin sister-in-law no matter how she still has a beautiful marriage, the old sixth in the deep mountain old forest hurts her, they also have a son... But what does Juan have? She had nothing.
"Horizontal eyebrow cold to the thousand fingers, fu shou gan for the widow cow"
Lu Xun ignored the most bitter person around him, Zhu An.
The world always thinks that Lu Xun is a victim of arranged marriages, so why not Zhu An? Who caused the misfortune of her life?
Lu Xun did not think about it, others did not think about it, everyone did not think about it...
Juan is lonely in life and lonely in death!
Juan, a bitter woman who can't be cared for...
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