In feudal times, the status of women was very limited, and if they could marry the prince, the whole family would definitely celebrate. During the Kangxi period, he had a total of 35 sons, only more than 20 lived to marry and have children, each child had a wife, several or a dozen of the side wives were different, some people counted, Kangxi had at least 400 daughters-in-law, so many daughters-in-law can get Kangxi comments only 3.
If Kangxi's favorite son is the crown prince's concubine wife, the empress originally gave birth to a concubine for Kangxi, because of the blood loss, only Yin Rong was left, Kangxi liked him very much, made him the prince and took everything from him. At a certain age, Kangxi personally chose a princess for him, but he did not deal with the princess except on ceremonial occasions. By the second year, the prince fell ill and had a high fever and passed out, Kangxi was distressed by the prince, did not sleep all night, accompanied by the prince, at that time his daughter-in-law was also a sleepless night with the prince, he learned that this daughter-in-law is exactly what other people say, gentle and generous and virtuous. If there is a prince's reward, there is a share of the princess. After the prince became an adult, he did not pay much attention to his wife, until she never resented, the prince was deposed twice, she was accompanied by the prince, asked the kangxi princess how to deal with it, Kangxi sighed and said: "If he is willing to be with the prince, just go with her", send a few more palace women to serve, in fact, the palace wife who is under house arrest does not have this treatment, obviously enough pity for this daughter-in-law.
After the crown prince was deposed, the old Eight Yin Yu came out of the limelight, and his wife Guo Luo Luoshi gave him great help behind his back, including her family. It is undeniable that her wife is very good, full of poetry, can also ride horses and shoot arrows, if it is a boy, it may be good. She was too strong, and one mid-autumn festival, she entered the palace to attend a family banquet, and after the end she walked in front of her husband, and after this matter was known to Kangxi, he criticized her fiercely.
After the competition for the throne became more and more fierce, Kangxi found out that Tong's help to Laoba was very great, and her mother was a Tong person, so Kangxi was extremely dissatisfied with this daughter-in-law, and directly told Yin Yu to strictly discipline his wife, after Yongzheng inherited the throne, Laoba fell, she was returned to her mother's house, and she did not know what the final whereabouts were.
Compared with the first two daughters-in-law, Yin Chan's side wife, Niu Hulu, was kangxi's last daughter-in-law, fortunately, she married Yongzheng at the age of 13 and gave birth to a son, Hongli. She was not Yongzheng's wife, Kangxi had only seen her once, and she did not speak on that side, and her evaluation was extremely high.
In the spring of the Kangxi Emperor's death, he went to Yin Chan's mansion and met his grandson Hongli for the first time, and he liked this lovely and intelligent grandson very much. He was very eager to see the mother of this grandson, Hongli's mother hurried over, kneeling on the stone slab, Kangxi looked at her, found that she was strong, hands and feet, was a traditional Manchu woman, and looked at Hongli, praised her and said: "You are a blessed person!" "This important meeting was recorded and passed down.
The three daughters-in-law of Kangxi were recorded by history, one sympathetic, one criticized by him, and one praised by him. In the final analysis, the fate of a woman at that time was closely linked to her husband and son. Of the three, the first two fell because of their husbands, and only the last daughter-in-law, who was first rich because her husband inherited the throne, and later blessed by her son. The fate of each of Kangxi's daughters-in-law was very different.