In the process of two people interacting, the woman is too obsessed, and it is not a good thing. Even if you have this man, you may not be able to get his heart.
Even if you give everything for him, even if you take the relationship seriously, the other party will often ignore your existence, and rarely care about your affairs, and you will not get the attention of men at all.
When you fall in love with a person, you can really be very impulsive, you can also become very irrational, thinking that if you give everything for each other, the other party will love yourself wholeheartedly, and the two people can never be separated.
In fact, all this is your own wishful thinking, and the other party does not take you to heart at all.
True love, which should be mutual, is not a one-man show, nor is it a self-directed and self-acted by a person. The other party's timely response and concern can make this relationship develop steadily.
Who is good to whom is not a matter of course, but the person who enjoys it, the person who does not know how to give, is often selfish.
When you are in a relationship with a man, the other party does not consider your feelings at all, and does not ask you about things, then you must consider the relationship carefully.
Men who don't know how to take the initiative to care for you and take care of you, show that he just doesn't have you in his heart and doesn't put you in his heart.
Men who "play tricks" on you are not really true to you.
Cry poor
Men who are not willing to spend money for you must not love you, and always like to cry in front of you, and also ask you to borrow money to spend.
It's not that he doesn't have money to spend, he just doesn't want to spend it on you, after all, you're not someone he really likes, so he deliberately cries poor.
From this, you can see how much men don't love you and how much they don't care about you.
Not only does he not spend money on you, he will find ways to spend your money, and you have to know that such a man is unreliable.
The man who truly loves you, he will do his due responsibilities, will also work hard, give you the life you want, and will not let you suffer with him.
It's easy to see a man, just talk to him about money. For men who don't love you, there's no need to invest too much time and effort.
There is no practical action
People in their twenties have long passed the age of hearing love, and they pay more attention to the actual actions of men.
For men who only promise with their mouths, don't easily believe his lies, and don't be blinded by his sweet words.
Whether a man truly loves you is not to look at his mouth, but to see if he has come from the heart and whether he has actual action.
Love is not so simple to say, but to let women see your efforts and see your sincerity. Sweet talk can be said by anyone, but whether it can be done or not is another matter.
The man who didn't give you any surprises, who didn't help you solve the problem, you have to think hard and can't easily agree to a man's request.
People should live in reality, not in each other's mouths, and do not live in dreams.
Disguise yourself
A man's reluctance to show his true side in front of you shows that he does not trust you enough.
No matter what, he likes to hide and not tell you the truth, which shows that he doesn't have you in his heart, and he also disguises himself.
A man who disguises himself in front of you is a sign of dislike, and you don't really think that this is what he looks like.
When you don't know everything about him, you don't spend any more time on him, don't try to open the door of his heart.
A man does not have you in his heart, no matter what you do, it is superfluous, and he will not be impressed by you.
Just like a person who pretends to be asleep, you can never wake him up, and the same is true of people who don't love you.
You pour out your heart and lungs for him, but the other party never opens the door of your heart for you, just plays with you.
Emotional Message:
After a woman pays her heart, you find that the other party does not really love you, then you will lose miserably.
Falling in love with someone who does not love you, you will not get the love of the other party, but you will let yourself fall deeper and deeper, and you will lose more and more.
With a person, you have to have reservations, don't give him everything.
We must not be blind to our feelings, but we must learn to be rational and see a little reality, so that we will not hurt ourselves.