Text/Xiao He Social Theory (Original Article Ban Plagiarism)
Title: Looking for a Babysitter? The girlfriend quarreled and left the house in a mess, and the man regretted: it is really impossible to have no woman in the family
If a family wants to be harmonious, couples must learn to do a good job of division of labor, whether it is doing housework or with children, this is a matter for two people, not for women.
But in real life, there are still many people who are influenced by traditional ideas, always thinking that as long as men can make money, the chores at home should be done by their wives.
If the husband is sympathetic, after all, life cannot be counted too clearly, but I am afraid that the husband will disdain the wife's efforts, and even secretly ridicule, such a marriage is doomed to not last.
Marriage is so, so are lovers in love, if the two parties can not do a good job of division of labor after living together, then the feelings will sooner or later have problems, only each of them understand and hurt each other, in order to make this relationship go longer.
Recently, a man in Shenzhen, Guangdong Province, posted a video complaining that after his girlfriend quarreled and ran away from home, the home simply became a mess, not only dirty clothes and smelly socks were not washed, but the takeaway packaging boxes on the table were piled up into mountains.
Seeing this dirty scene, the man was remorseful in his heart, thinking that he should not quarrel with his girlfriend, what kind of dirty family was it.
From the video, we can see that the man is obviously a person who does not do housework, his clothes are dirty and thrown on the sofa, and his smelly socks are thrown all over the floor.
After cooking without a girlfriend, the man's kitchen can be said to have completely lost its meaning, he spent his days by ordering takeaways, and after eating, the takeaway packaging was not thrown away in time, so it was placed on the table.
In this regard, the man not only did not feel ashamed, but complained solemnly: "I have lost the ability to pack things, this clothes are not washed, the washing machine will not be used, and there is no woman in this family."
Many netizens are angry after watching the video, they think that the man does not really want to apologize to his girlfriend, the reason why he regrets it is because there is no one to clean the home, which is looking for a girlfriend, obviously looking for a free nanny.
In addition, the man's words, but also by a lot of female netizens angry scolding, in their view, such a man must not marry, otherwise there will be no good life in the future, a big man will not even use the washing machine, is really the first time to hear, proper mother treasure man.
I want to say that both men and women must learn to do housework, which is the basic condition of independence, a person after leaving their parents, everything must be practiced, even if there is no object to talk about, they must also love to be clean and sanitary.
The main reason why there are so many young people who can't do housework today is that their parents are too doting and have not let them develop good habits of doing housework since they were young.
Especially for some one-child families, these children are loved by their families from childhood to adulthood, and parents would rather be tired than let their children do it. As for those who have good family conditions, not to mention, their parents do not do much housework, how can children?
Laziness is human nature, and no one wants to do housework every day to be tired and half dead, but this is an inescapable life problem, so it must be learned to face.
In my opinion, no one can not do housework, just think and do not want to think about the problem, for those who love to be lazy, we have to force them to try, do not blindly accommodate and tolerate, this will only make the other party become accustomed to it, and even dismissive of it.
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