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The world is in a hurry, just for the sake of breaking silver for a few pairs. But this piece of silver can relieve people's sorrows.
Hurrying is the norm for modern people. Running and toiling is the lifelong way of life of ordinary people. However, is this life of toil really valuable?
Now there are many people who are thinking about the value of life and lamenting the meaning of life. why? Because they feel unforgettable pain in their fast-paced lives.
Young people who have never experienced the world feel that there is nothing wrong with a fast-paced life, at least we receive more information and a richer entertainment life.
And the old jianghu who have already experienced it feel that the fast-paced life is like a "hypnotic", and if you are not careful, it will make people live a painful life, and there is no joy in their hearts at all.
In fact, whether it is a young person or a middle-aged and elderly person, if you can choose, you may as well slow down the pace of your life and don't accelerate it anymore, otherwise you will not be able to withstand the pressure of reality.
A comic book writer once said that it is a world of rush and soullessness.
Let's think about whether we have lived like a soulless and walking dead. It may be hard to hear, but it is indeed a reality of life.
As a person, "slow down" in the following 4 places, your blessings can slowly accumulate.
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Slow down on "temperament" and you can feel happy.
There is a kind of life called "people idle cars and horses are slow, and the road is also the same as the stars".
Living in a life of slow carriage and horses and far letters, you can feel the spring color of the world, you can also perceive the most delicate feelings, and you can appreciate a more exquisite life.
Nowadays, people, not to mention "slow" life, may even eat in a hurry, afraid that eating will delay their time.
Eating, they choose to eat fast food; talking about feelings, they choose to talk about fast food-style feelings; reading, they choose to read fragmented fast food books. Everything is fast, as if there is no soul.
If people want to regain their souls, they need to start with the word "slow".
Many times, we think that "slow" is a negative practice, a manifestation of Buddhist lying flat. As everyone knows, "slow" is an attitude of life and a choice of true disposition.
Add the "slow" factor to the personality of the person, then you will go to the beauty of the northern scenery, experience the quiet beauty of the flowing water in the south of the river, and appreciate the beauty of the flowers in the garden. This is the "beauty" of nature.
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Be slow on "making money" and you'll accumulate thick and thin.
In your opinion, is it better to make quick money, or is it better to make money slowly, lay a good foundation and accumulate experience?
Most people will definitely choose the former, thinking that it is best to make fast money, and it is enough to make money. This kind of thinking is precisely the lowest level of concept.
All "fast" has only one result, that is, to come and go in a hurry.
A colleague, he changed six jobs in ten years, went to five industries to make money. However, he can only reach the surface of these industries, and cannot go deep into them. In the end, he got nothing.
The so-called "three hundred and sixty lines, the line out of the yuan." ”
No matter what kind of work you do, you must participate in it with the mentality of "slow cultivation", and don't always think about making quick money. Otherwise, it will hurt you.
Like a drilling rig, if it just drills a few times and then changes positions, it will never be able to drill a good well.
The truths of the world are all similar.
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Be slower on "doing things efficiently" and you'll be more successful.
Some scholars have done a study, in the end, is the long-term reading of students better grades, or short-term surprise students have better grades?
The results of the study found that a student who read for a long time, even if he did not review before the exam, his grades would not be much worse. Students who rely on short-term surprises do not know what to ask.
In the same way, on the issue of "efficiency", we must not think that "seeking speed" is necessarily high efficiency. Sometimes, the faster you go, the less efficient you are.
True efficiency is when you slowly work in this field for years, even decades, and then practice makes perfect, and you are superior in experience and technology.
The more big things you do, the more you can't be fast, but you have to think carefully and make effective decisions. As soon as he encounters a major event, he panics and makes random decisions, believing that he will soon suffer the bitter fruit.
Therefore, a long period of "slow cultivation" is the premise of becoming a big thing.
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Slow down on "feelings" and you will embrace happiness.
In this era, there are too many fast-food feelings, fast-food family affection, and fast-food marriages. This is the key reason why modern people live painfully.
If you had to choose, would you rather have feelings that flow long, or do you want to have feelings that are as stimulating as fast food?
Immature young people will choose the latter, while mature adults will choose the former. People, the more mature, the more they like the feelings of thin water and long flow.
With your partner, there is no need for him to fall in love with you immediately. Give some time to others, give some time to yourself. Feelings are cultivated, not maturing quickly. Not to mention, the rapid maturity of feelings, do you dare to accept?
With your loved ones, there is no need to ask them to respect you immediately. Give some space to others, give some space to yourself. Family affection is often the result of getting along for a long time, and it is impossible to have a breakthrough in a short period of time.
In this materialistic society and floating hearts, slow down, maybe you will be more blessed.
Wen/Shushan has deer