"People in Shenzhen"
- Issue 41 × Coming Home for the New Year -
In early January, Shenzhen people who found positive infections for the new crown virus and were rejoicing and preparing to go home for the New Year were caught off guard.
Can you still go home for the New Year? Do I have to quarantine when I go home? Will I be quarantined when I return to Shenzhen from home? ...... People who want to go home face various difficulties.
What is more difficult is that the epidemic prevention measures will be adjusted according to the development of the epidemic.
You have no way of determining whether today's epidemic prevention measures will be more strictly controlled tomorrow.
This year, can Shenzhen people still go home smoothly for the New Year?
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"I want to go home for the New Year"
Logically, I should not have this kind of mood of going home for the New Year, because I have become accustomed to the New Year outside, and if I don't go home for the New Year this year, it is already the fourth year that I am not at home for the New Year.
The first three years are nothing, because I know that I can't go back, there is no expectation, there is no psychological gap, but this year because of the sudden epidemic, all the rhythm has been disrupted.
I don't have anything myself, mainly I feel sorry for my parents. Because I am an only child, my hometown is in the northeast, and the last time I came home was in May or June of 20 years.
I have told my parents before that I am going to go back for the New Year, and I have also talked about the details of going home, and my parents are also very happy. But the sudden epidemic, coupled with my business trip to Zhuhai, is now isolated in Zhuhai, and it is even more difficult to go back.
When I told my parents that I couldn't go back, although they said that they were mainly working, they could still see a trace of silence in their eyes, and when I saw this, I forced myself to hold back tears. My story may be a microcosm of thousands of ordinary families in the context of the epidemic.
I don't have children and can't understand my parents' feelings, but I think every parent's wish during the New Year is to have their children by their side.
In 2019 National Day, my favorite daddy has advanced cancer.
In mid-January 2020, I returned to my hometown for the New Year, because the outbreak of the epidemic had just occurred, I stayed in my hometown in fear for more than a month, and at the end of February, I found that I was pregnant with twins, and various pregnancy reactions throughout pregnancy, morning sickness, hepatobiliary stasis, anemia during pregnancy, gestational diabetes, short cervix, and hospitalization in the second trimester began to protect the fetus for more than a month.
In 2020, the National Day, Daddy's cemetery was built, and he has been thinking of going back to kowtow. But the two babies were born prematurely after the National Day in 2020, and they were born at 34 weeks + 4 days of pregnancy.
Because of premature birth, the baby's lung function is immature, jaundice is high, weight is light, and he lives in an incubator for almost 20 days before returning home. XiaoBao has two egg-sized hemangiomas at the root of the thigh, 28 days after birth, he began to go to major hospitals (Nanshan Women's and Children's Hospital, HKU, Shenzhen Children's Hospital), hospitalized, took medicine, did 5 lasers (I don't know how many lasers to do in the later stage), laser surgery fees can not brush medical insurance, no reimbursement, must give cash, each time is 3800+.
In Shenzhen all the way to fight monster upgrades, the whole 2 years did not go home and family reunion, really tired, living like a year, the dolls are only 1 year and 3 months, 2021 did not go home for the New Year, this year is no way to go home for the New Year.
The mother-in-law said: "Going back to your hometown is not to change places to take the baby, don't go back." ”
Yes, go back for 7 days, toss back and forth for 2 days, but also clean up, take the baby... A whole bunch of clothes, milk powder, toys were moved around. Even if there is no epidemic, we have no plans to return to our hometown, or in Shenzhen for the New Year.
Looking forward to 2023, the dolls are older, can walk and talk, and then go back to the ancestors, burn incense for my father, prostrate, tell him how much I miss him, and tell him that he has been worried about him all the time for the past two years.
Every time I called my grandmother, the first thing she said was, "When are you coming back?" "Because of work, I have come home to visit my grandmother less and less over the years, and I know that she misses me and I miss her.
When I was a child, I was a left-behind child, my grandfather died of illness when I was very young, and it was my grandmother who brought me up.
I am not shy about saying that my grandmother is the dearest person to me, closer than my parents.
On New Year's Day night, I told her that I would go home this year to accompany her for the New Year, and I could hear the joy in her words. But it is not satisfactory, on January 7, Shenzhen added positives, Shenzhen began to control, the company's words outside let us not leave the depth. In addition, there are not many annual leave, and if I have to isolate from the depths and return to the depths, I can't afford it no matter which side.
That night I told my grandmother that I might not be able to go back for the New Year, and the other end of the phone suddenly became quiet, and it took a while for my grandmother to say, "Oh, this way, then you have to wear a mask yourself, pay attention to safety, and come back next time you have the opportunity." My heart tightened, my eyes blurred, I told her a few words, and hurriedly hung up the phone.
During this time, I did not dare to call my grandmother, I was afraid of crying myself, and I was even more afraid of hearing her lonely voice.
Time passes day by day, the end of the year is approaching, although Shenzhen has not yet cleared zero, but I still hold a glimmer of hope. I really want to go back and spend the New Year with Grandma.
21 New Year did not go back, May Day went back once, living in Luohu, it seems that 22 years of New Year can not go back.
I haven't been home for two years, this year I went home for the New Year, the epidemic did not disrupt the plan, reported to the village, and planned to take a ride back to my hometown for the New Year on the 29th.
Influenced my blind date, hahaha
I don't want to go home, and I plan to spend the New Year in Shenzhen this year
This year, the probability is that I can't go back, wait for the next holiday
Harm, every New Year can not grab the ticket to go home, this year can grab but can not go back
I regard my hometown as a root, and my hometown treats me as a bane, and I dare not go back!
When I knew that I was working in Shenzhen, the village committee said that I should not bring poison back to the village, and my parents and parents also let me not have to go home for the New Year, Chinese New Year's Eve give a big red envelope.
I was disappointed, but I decided to listen to them and not go back.
Since there have been new cases in Shenzhen, everyone has been worried about whether they can go home for the New Year.
Worry about going home to isolate, the time cost is too high; worry about the process of going home because of the dense flow of people, there will be a risk of infection; worry about the refund of tickets...
While I was still typing, the Shenzhen Health Commission reported a new case.
Although the epidemic is unpredictable, Shenzhen has been working hard.
Some fans said: "I believe in Shenzhen speed, I am not worried about my safety in Shenzhen, but I am afraid that I can't go home for the New Year." ”
There are still less than half a month before the Chinese New Year's Eve, looking forward to the day of "zeroing".
This year, are you still planning to go home for the Chinese New Year?