Living to the age of 30, these 10 truths I understood, to everyone.
1, find someone to help, no matter how familiar, but also remember to give benefits. In reality, many people think that familiar people do not need to be polite, in fact, this is just the opposite, the more familiar people, the more they need respect and serious treatment, so please help acquaintances, and then remember to give him benefits. It's not about money and friendship, it's about your attitude towards others, respect, and high emotional intelligence.
2, borrow money, there is a loan and repayment, it is not difficult to borrow again. In reality, there are countless examples of rifts in their friendships because of the delay in repaying the loan money. When borrowing money, think about the generosity of others to you, no one is easy. Remember to say hello to people, don't ruin your relationship because of this, because the people in this world who are willing to lend you money are really good to you and believe you.
3, moderate advance consumption, is conducive to their own more motivated to move forward; and excessive advance consumption, life will enter a dead end.
We can appropriately use credit cards, or online tools to consume to meet their own needs, but do not be this convenience to develop the habit of spending a lot of money, otherwise excessive consumption, life will fall into a difficult point. Advanced consumption, just to facilitate us, do not over-consume, because sooner or later we will have to pay it back. Many times, we need to delay the satisfaction of Oh!
4, while working, while looking for opportunities, the best is to use the time outside of eight hours to learn and improve themselves, do not rely on dead wages to support themselves, otherwise it will be more difficult. Side hustle is the guarantee of your freedom and the guarantee of your freedom.
5, learn from people with positive energy, especially those related to your hobbies or training, because you can completely transform your interests and hobbies into a way to monetize. Some people say that interest is just interest, it doesn't matter if you make money or not, this is also possible! If it can help drive higher value, who wouldn't?
6, it is better to seek others than to seek oneself, read more psychology books or read some books to improve their ability and broaden their own patterns, which is conducive to better handling their emotional and psychological problems.
7, within a year, no matter how busy and poor, but also to travel twice, travel can let you see more things you can not see, with your feet to measure the warmth and cruelty of the world, than staying in place more rewarding. Going out and walking around more will help you better judge your understanding of the world.
8, do things only for efficiency and results-oriented, do not do blind efforts and fruitless things.
Of course, someone here will definitely refute me, what is inconclusive? No result, don't do it? Isn't the process important? Of course, what is important here is that we should focus more energy and time on things that have results, and do not make blind efforts and efforts, because none of us can afford to lose. Life is efficient and realistic after all, you are not shrewd, you will be eliminated by the world, shrewd is not calculating, but to be responsible for your own behavior and time.
9, learn to speak and praise others, is a manifestation of high emotional intelligence, but also a popular performance of high emotional intelligence. Even if you are not used to it, you must learn to be tactful and restrained, because we can express and achieve results with a more gentle attitude.
10, be a grateful person, you will get more feedback and luck! Because a person who knows how to be grateful is welcome, liked by others, and willing to help you by others, maybe others don't need you to reciprocate anything, but just a thank you and a sincere attitude is enough.
Gratitude is always there, and you will be lucky for a lifetime. Grateful people, others are more willing to come closer to you because you are worthy of other people's trust and giving.
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Author: Ah Qiu, Psychological Counselor, Integrative Medicine Therapist. Get out of the demons and the guidance of your family to help you better heal the demons and overcome anxiety and depression.