The beauty of a gentleman's adulthood, the evil of not being a man. - The Analects
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May the king's heart be like my heart, and will not live up to his wishes."
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, and will be troubled by the love of this unrequited love.
After meeting that person in this world, no one can hide from this sincere love. For Lu Muzhen, her love is only fulfillment, a sacrifice made after meeting that person.
It is no complaints and no regrets after meeting that person.
Parents' orders cannot be violated
The heroine of the story belongs to Lu Muzhen at the beginning
。 She has an enviable family lineage, is a prominent family lady, born in the Shuxiang Mendi of the Huya. Her family was full of talent, and her father, Lo Yiu-hsien, became wealthy in the area after making money doing business in Honolulu, USA.
But Lu Muzhen's father was a person with a very high bias towards feudal thought, and her father was always
Insist on educating Lu Muzhen with "a woman's talentlessness is morality"
。 Insisting on opposing the study of contemporary new ideas, Lu Muzhen was exposed to Confucian women's ideas from an early age, which laid the foundation for her later hard work and resentment.
Under the education of her father, Lu Muzhen became steady and quiet. When she was seventeen years old, at a dinner party with the Sun family, the people of the Sun family liked Lu Muzhen at a glance. I felt that this girl was steady, quiet, gentle and virtuous. And his son Sun Wen, since he was a child, has not accepted defeat and has ideals in his heart. This girl will tolerate her son.
In this way, under the arrangement of the elders, Lu Muzhen made a marriage contract with Sun Yat-sen early.
Sure enough, on the big wedding day, the second when the groom lifted the hijab, the second when the two looked at each other.
Lu Muzhen's heart was already deeply attracted to the boy in front of him.
Love you, you will love everything about you
At that time, Lu Muzhen, who was immersed in the joy of the new marriage, did not realize it
Her husband has a "great ambition" in his heart, an eagle that longs to fly into the vast sky.
But in Sun Yat-sen's mind, all this is the result of his parents' arrangements. So in the days when Sun Yat-sen and Lu Muzhen became wives,
Respect each other as guests.
Soon, shortly after the new marriage, the last era of the Qing Dynasty, when China was in a deep and hot era. Sun Yat-sen, who had always longed for a grand cause, naturally saw an opportunity. So I decided to abandon the doctor and follow the text, but all this is really difficult for the newly married Lu Muzhen to leave home and go away,
But in the spirit of love for Sun Yat-sen, she chose to be inclusive.
In the days of Sun Yat-sen's departure, Lu Muzhen kept his home in good order
。 In the face of Sun Yat-sen's parents, she dutifully and without regret paid for the family. There is such a sentence
"Behind every successful man there is a woman who pays silently"
。 For Sun Yat-sen, Lu Muzhen was exactly that.
After the revolution held by Sun Yat-sen, some people at that time persecuted Sun Yat-sen and his family. In order to survive, Lu Muzhen, as the wife of the family, took on the burden of protecting the family.
So he chose to take his child to run to Sun Yat-sen's brother, Sun Mei.
At this time, Sun Yat-sen was running around in order to escape for his life, and before fleeing to Japan, he could not rest assured of his wife and children. So she came to the front of Lu Muzhen, who was already very vicissitudes at this time, and the day-to-day work made her no longer have the glory of her former youth. The corners of the eyes already have wrinkles
At the moment when Sun Yat-sen saw her, his heart may just be guilty, and there is still no love.
On the contrary, for Lu Muzhen, it was the husband that Chao Twilight longed to see
。 But for the sake of her family, she chose to be strong, and after separation, she was still the wife of the independent Sun Yat-sen.
The second half of life alone
Later, due to the turmoil of the situation, after Sun Yat-sen launched the Xinhai Revolution, he was supported by the people.
Elected interim president.
Sun Yat-sen remembered Lu Muzhen, and after becoming the president, he ordered his men to quickly take himself and his three children back from Japan. Lu Muzhen, who has always been influenced by feudal ideas, could not adapt for a while, but as her adored husband,
She was willing to change herself for the sake of Sun Yat-sen.
Love may be to change themselves for the other party, but if in this love,
Only one person is constantly improving, and one person is stagnant, and after all, it is not far away.
After being taken away by Yuan Shikai, Sun Yat-sen, as his wife, Lu Muzhen began to think about what he could bring to Sun Yat-sen. In fact, she could only cook for him, but at this time, Sun Yat-sen was no longer the same as he was.
After much deliberation, Lu Muzhen offered to let Sun Yat-sen take a concubine,
This decision was really not easy for Lu Muzhen, who had been subjected to feudal ideas since childhood.
But her love for Sun Yat-sen was greater than anything else.
But when Sun Yat-sen heard Lu Muzhen's words, he was angry for several days and did not pay attention to her, after all, this was his own wife.
But things always change
。 In the days when Sun Yat-sen fled to Japan,
He became acquainted with Song Qingling
Both were influenced by Western culture, and in a foreign country, the two chatted speculatively. Not surprisingly, Sun Yat-sen fell in love with Soong Ching-ling, but he still had a wife at home, so Sun Yat-sen took Soong Ching-ling to Lu Muzhen.
In fact, a woman's sixth sense is incomparably accurate when facing the person she loves. When Sun Yat-sen and Soong Ching Ling stood in front of Lu Muzhen, she had a strong premonition that Sun Yat-sen fell in love with her. It's a different feeling.
Sure enough, Sun Yat-sen preached that this was his secretary, but he was in love with her.
Even if Lu Muzhen loved Sun Yat-sen very much, the two of them were already inseparable at this time. as
If he couldn't help his husband, he wouldn't drag his feet, so Sun Yat-sen chose to give Lu Muzhen a letter of resignation.
In the days of separation from Sun Yat-sen, Lu Muzhen chose to live in Macau and raised three children alone. After the children are all grown up,
Only Lu Muzhen died alone.
Lu Muzhen once said to Sun Yat-sen:
I love you, but I can't stop you from running to the good guys.
Perhaps in Lu Muzhen's heart, her love is fulfillment.
summary
Everyone in this world expresses love differently: it is fulfillment, it is old and dead, it is shaking hands and making peace, it is letting go. But I prefer to "only wish that the king's heart is like my heart",
In Lu Muzhen's life, she met Sun Yat-sen as the fulfillment of love, and for Sun Yat-sen, she was also lucky to meet her.
The long life is like a wilderness, full of thorns along the way. But when we meet people who are willing to work together, we must always be afraid of the process, and there will eventually be flowers!