In 1988, in order to maintain the stability of his marriage with actor Wang Xingjun, Guan Mucun gave birth to a son, Long Long, who knew that the arrival of this child did not bring much joy to the family.
With Guan Mucun's musical achievements, Wang Xingjun's temper became more and more grumpy, and he satirized Guan Mucun without saying a word: "If I had such a reputation and influence as you, I would have tossed to foreign countries a long time ago." ”
Later, in a quarrel, Wang Xingjun accidentally injured Guan Mucun, and once there were countless times, this time Wang Xingjun became addicted, which was also the main reason for Guan Mucun's divorce from Wang Xingjun, who was 6 years younger.
In the final analysis, Guan Mucun's marriage to Wang Xingjun is not so much love as "sympathy and pity", who knows that this person who was originally connected with Guan Mucun's life has become the main reason for the failure of Guan Mucun's marriage because of his original family.
Until I met Jiang Hong, a high-ranking official, the same self, the fame was even higher, I did not expect to have a different sense of care in another man.
Jiang Hong is full of love and admiration for Guan Mucun, because he is a leading cadre, although he is not satisfied with his arranged marriage, he can only settle for the sake of his career, but after encountering Guan Mucun, Jiang Hong desperately proposed a divorce to his wife.
Years later, Guan Mucun said: "At that time, Jiang Hong was through a painful choice. He prepared for the worst, and if he didn't, he would return to his hometown to become a farmer. I immediately said, you go home as a farmer, and I will go with you!" ”
Jiang Hong said: "She suffered so much before, and she can no longer let her suffer in the future, in my eyes she is a national treasure!" ”
The same is Guan Mucun, why are there such a big difference between the two men before and after? After divorcing Guan Mucun, how is the actor Wang Xingjun now?
The end of the world is the same fate
In 1973, after Wang Xingjun saw the drama "Sail a Thousand Miles", he said to one of the old actors of the Xi'an Film Studio: "Uncle, I also want to be an actor." ”
The old actor saw that Wang Xingjun was in good shape and had artistic talent, and encouraged him to apply for an art group, and did not think that the old actor's casual words completely changed the fate of Wang Xingjun's life.
Unfortunately, Wang Xingjun's family was too difficult, and he went to the Xinjiang Construction Corps as a worker in his first year of high school, because he was forced to drop out of school because he raised his younger brothers and sisters.
Outstanding literary and artistic talent, in the corps Wang Xingjun was quickly transferred to the propaganda team, in the following more than 1 year, Wang Xinjun has been examined by a number of literary and art groups in Xinjiang, although there are 3 willing to admit, but the regiment does not release people, which makes Wang Xinjun very depressed.
Looking at the white snow, but his ideals could not be realized, Wang Xingjun and his mother hugged each other in the snow and cried, Wang Xingjun choked and asked his mother: "Why is it so difficult for people to live?" ”
Mom said, "No matter how hard it is, you have to live." "In the empty snowy field, the figures of mother and son are so lonely and helpless.
May be lucky, in 1980 with 80 yuan borrowed from relatives' families, Wang Xingjun embarked on the road to apply for the Shanghai Theater Academy, although 1600 people, only 7 people were admitted, Wang Xingjun was still admitted, during the school, the hard-working Wang Xingjun has been enjoying the state's Grade A bursaries, every New Year's Festival, the state also gave him subsidies, has been the backbone of the school's ability.
Later, under the recommendation of his teacher, Wang Xingjun entered the crew of "Born on the Sea", where he met Guan Mucun, a woman who shared her illness and changed his life.
And Guan Mucun's road to fame is no smoother than Wang Xingjun's.
Guan Mucun, who inherited his mother's singing talent, came to Tianjin Steel And File Factory at the age of 17 to work as a general worker, which made the hardship family situation better.
Because of his good singing, Guan Mucun was seconded to the Tianjin Opera House to perform, and after several years of experience, in 1977, at the age of 24, Guan Mucun became an official singing actor.
Until 1983, when she met the film "Bright Moon on the Sea", the 30-year-old Guan Mucun was already a very famous singer, and she not only starred, but also sang the lead singer.
Mercy is not love
In 1983, the fledgling Wang Xingjun and the famous singer Guan Mucun met, and their encounter completely changed each other's fate.
When filming this film, at the suggestion of the famous composer Shi Guangnan, Wang Xingjun also changed his name from "Wang Xinjun" to "Wang Xingjun", just for the future of the stars, but unfortunately, the future of Wang Xingjun is not as loud as the name.
Guan Mucun, who was already a Tianjin Opera House at that time, has always regarded this 6-year-old actor who just debuted as a younger brother, and in the process of getting along, Wang Xingjun's frank personality made Guan Mucun very appreciative.
After the two became acquainted, Wang Xingjun talked about his life experience and couldn't help but shed tears, and the kind Guan Mucun heard Wang Xingjun's experience, unconsciously remembering his difficult childhood, and couldn't help but shed tears.
Wang Xingjun's parents are from Gansu, when they came to Xinjiang for the sake of supporting the border, as the eldest son in the family, Wang Xingjun also had a younger brother and 2 sisters underneath, in that era of great material scarcity, being able to eat enough was a very luxurious thing, so the family life was very poor.
When Wang Xingjun was 8 years old, his father unfortunately died of a stomach disease, his mother also fell ill in the hospital, 8-year-old Wang Xingjun in addition to school, but also to cook for his younger siblings, the disaster is not alone, shortly after the mother was discharged from the hospital, the family suddenly caught fire, the originally destitute home, except for the four walls of nothing.
Watching his mother raise 4 children with difficulty, Wang Xingjun understood his mother's hardships and the power of poverty from an early age.
The difficult mother remarried when Wang Xingjun was 9 years old, but the relationship between the mother and the stepfather was not good, and the stepfather always hated Wang Xingjun and his brother for eating too much, and complained at home that the family had less labor and insufficient grain and oil.
In this already peaceful home, there will often be a fierce fight for half a nest and a piece of pickles.
In such a family environment, Wang Xingjun naturally began to become inferior and introverted and sensitive, and in the long run, neighbors and classmates looked down on him, and such a growth environment made Wang Xingjun bear great psychological pressure.
He expected success and money more than anyone, so his outstanding literary talent became the only capital he could "make a splash".
Hearing this, Guan Mucun also remembered his childhood as tragic as Wang Xingjun.
Guan Mucun was born in Xinxiang, Henan, a family with an older brother and a younger brother, in that turbulent era, the father was sent to Shanxi, the older brother went to the mountains and went to the countryside, and the family was accompanied only by his mother and brother.
Unfortunately, when she was 10 years old, the only relative in the family died of illness, and since then Guan Mucun and her brother have been dependent on each other for their lives, just when there was a famine in Henan at that time, she and her brother often ate a meal without eating, hungry, and went out with her brother to pick up vegetable leaves to eat.
Sometimes if you are unlucky and can't find it, you can only sleep hungry, and sometimes you wake up hungry in the middle of the night, thinking of your father and brother, and you can't stop crying in your eyes.
Hungry for many days, the family really did not eat, Guan Mucun one day came home to find vegetables and rice on the table, she asked her brother what happened, this is to know that this is the brother brother sold blood in exchange.
In almost the same life experience, Guan Mucun understood Wang Xingjun's inferiority and hardships very well, and also understood Wang Xingjun's heart and courage to get ahead.
In the two years, the two became close friends who talked about everything, and although the difference between the two was 6 years old, Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun did not seem to care.
Strong women and weak sisters and brothers love
After the film was made, the love affair between the two completely spread, and in the face of this relationship, Wang Xingjun, who was already weak and inferior, was under tremendous pressure.
Some people say that he is completely for the sake of clinging to the relationship of Guan Mucun, and that he fell in love with this famous woman who is 6 years older than the big city after graduation.
Some people also say that Wang Xingjun looks quite honest and did not want to have such a heart, so Wang Xingjun once thought of breaking up, but because the love is too deep, so he has been under the pressure of the outside world.
During the period of their love, it happened to be during Wang Xingjun's college years, when the family wanted to book a doll for her 14-year-old sister, so he was in tears in the dormitory.
After Guan Mucun learned of this incident, he also wrote a letter to his family with Wang Xingjun, resolutely opposing the family's decision, and finally Wang Xingjun's sister went to school smoothly, and the two were very happy.
On the eve of the Spring Festival in 1984, Wang Xingjun, whose family was in difficulty, did not have the travel expenses to return home, so Guan Mucun took the initiative to invite him to Tianjin for the New Year, and also remitted him the travel expenses to Tianjin, Wang Xingjun was very moved.
After Wang Xingjun graduated, when he was assigned to work in Xinjiang, Guan Mucun province gave Wang Xingjun 100 yuan and asked him to bring some specialties to his mother.
Knowing that this was saved by Guan Mucun Province's thrift, when eating the remaining piece of steamed bread during the performance, it was all wrapped in paper and taken back to eat, in the face of Guan Mucun, who was so attentive, Wang Xingjun was moved to tears.
Wang Xingjun worked in Xinjiang for a month, and then transferred to Xinjiang Television, at this time Guan Mucun also went to the next level to enter the Central Academy of Drama for further study.
In a way, the two still have a fairly good fit at work.
On National Day in 1984, the two people held a wedding ceremony at the Beijing General Political Guest House, after the marriage Wang Xingjun was busy filming, Guan Mucun continued to study at the Central Conservatory of Music, the husband and wife gathered less and left more, married for 3 years, stayed together for less than 3 months.
In 1988, in order to maintain the family and marriage, Guan Mucun returned to Tianjin to work, gave birth to a son Longlong Guan Tianyuan, did not think that the arrival of this child did not add happiness to the family, but more troubles.
After Wang Xingjun got married, the star path was not smooth, coupled with the further progress of Guan Mucun's career, the marriage gap between strong women and weak men was more obvious, the inferiority of the original family and the later impatience, coupled with the collision of chicken feather life after marriage, Wang Xingjun's personality began to become very complicated.
In just a few years, the marriage between the two has reached the point of seemingly inseparable, to be fair, Wang Xingjun is not a bad person, may have experienced too much suffering since childhood, Wang Xingjun desperately wants to succeed, and Guan Mucun, who has been displaced since childhood, only wants to live a stable and warm life.
In the face of Guan Mucun's casual encounters, Wang Xingjun was very "disdainful", and when the two quarreled, Wang Xingjun often ridiculed Guan Mucun, "If I had such a reputation and influence as you, I would have tossed to foreign countries a long time ago." ”
Later, in a quarrel, Wang Xingjun directly moved his hands, and later as long as he was unhappy and unsatisfactory, he would sprinkle anger on the children and Guan Mucun and commit domestic violence against them.
Guan Mucun was a 35-year-old mother, and she loved her son very much, and in order to let her son have a complete family, she often suppressed tears, did not argue, and silently went to the side of tears.
Once, Wang Xingjun wanted to hold an exhibition without money, and asked Guan Mucun for money, but Guan Mucun could not come up with so much money for a while, and Wang Xingjun started again in a huff.
After this fuse, Seki Makimura completely died of love and marriage, and completely ended this ambiguous marriage in 1990.
From marriage to divorce only 6 years, after the divorce Guan Mucun gave the only small square meter house in Beijing to Wang Xingjun, a person with his son to rent a house, although the life is hard, but always solid.
Anachronistic love
After the divorce, Guan Mucun lived alone with children, although it was difficult, moving was a common thing, but fortunately, there was no small progress in his career.
In the same year of the divorce, Guan Mucun participated in the performance of the art film "Tang and Song Dynasty Style". In the following year, in order to get closer to his career, Guan Mucun was also admitted to Nankai University for postgraduate studies.
During her graduate studies, Guan Mucun's TV art films "Turpan Grapes Ripe" and "Beautiful Dunhuang" brought her unprecedented honors and harvests.
From the first Golden Disc Award to the second prize of the first Young Singer Competition, Guan Mucun's reputation in his singing career is getting higher and higher, and there are more and more fans, including a person named Jiang Hong.
At the peak of Guanmucun's career, a friend of Jiang Hong's was preparing to prepare for a celebration of the 45th anniversary of the founding of the People's Republic of China, but his connections and contacts were limited, so he asked the high-ranking official Jiang Hong to help.
Jiang Hong has always been a fan of Guan Mu village, not only especially likes Guan Mu village's songs, but also appreciates her as a person, so one day, he specially went to Guan Mu Village's home to visit.
When Jiang Hong entered the door, he was completely stunned, and the home of a famous singer actually lived in a very embarrassing and simple place, and his heart was very unhappy.
Before leaving, Guan Mucun warmly said to Jiang Hong and his entourage: "Don't leave, I will cook for you to eat." ”
Subsequently, Guan Mucun rode a bicycle to go out to buy vegetables, who knew that in the vegetable market turned around the wallet lost, the vegetables were not bought and had to go home, and finally found a only radish at home, rubbed into silk, and laid a bowl of noodles for them to eat.
After Jiang Hong returned home, he thought of this poor woman and couldn't help but think in his heart: "Guan Mucun is a very good person, there are many people who like her, but there are too few people who care about her." ”
Out of pity and the enthusiasm of fans, Jiang Hong often goes to Guan Mucun's home to help take care of children when he is not busy, and in the face of the care of this big brother, Guan Mucun feels that life is full of hope again.
In the chat between the two, the two found that their views on society and life were very consistent, and Guan Mucun intimately called Jiang Hong "Big Brother Jiang" in life.
Under the relationship, the frustrated Guan Mucun had a long-lost warmth towards this big brother, but at that time, Jiang Hong was a person with a family, and the two could only admire each other.
Love beauty does not love the country
At that time, Jiang Hong's marriage was arranged by his parents, although Jiang Hong was very reluctant at that time, but his father was forced to die, so he had to obey the orders of his parents, and such a marriage was destined not to be too happy, so the marriage between the two has not been very harmonious.
Because he is a leading cadre, once divorced, it will have an immeasurable impact on his career and life, but despite this, Jiang Hong still desperately filed for divorce from his wife.
It was not until later that Guan Mucun said: "At that time, Jiang Hong was through a painful choice. He prepared for the worst, and if he didn't, he would return to his hometown to become a farmer. I immediately said, you go home as a farmer, and I will go with you!" ”
Although Jiang Hong promised Guan Mucun many times, Guan Mucun still had many concerns, but all of them were explained by Jiang Hong, and in 1998, Guan Mucun, who was already 45 years old, married Jiang Hong, who was also a second marriage.
Because it is a second marriage, this wedding is very low-key, just invite friends and relatives around to eat. After getting married, Jiang Hong took great care of Guan Mucun's son, and he was not like a father and son.
Not only often tutoring Long Long in his homework, but also buying him a computer, sending him to computer training classes, practicing calligraphy and painting, just like Long Long's biological father, Long Long's heartfelt voice "Daddy" made Guan Mucun very pleased, and the fatherly love that his son did not get in front of Wang Xingjun was all obtained in Jiang Hong.
In the face of this hard-won relationship, Guan Mucun said: "My husband is a kind-hearted, morally capable person, before I often felt lonely in life, there is no backing, but since I was with him my life has become better!" ”
Jiang Hong expressed her love for her wife many times in the show: "She suffered so much before, and she can no longer let her suffer in the future, in my eyes she is a national treasure!" ”
After 24 years of marriage, they have never had any more children, and Jiang Hong has always regarded Long Long as his own son and is more caring for Guan Mucun.
The son inherited his mother's good voice, but after going to junior high school, Long Long gradually became uninterested in acting, which made Guan Mucun, who has always wanted to let his son enter the entertainment circle, very troubled.
In this regard, Jiang Hong advised him: "Respect his son's personality, forcing him into the entertainment circle will bring harm to two generations." ”
Guan Mucun also saw it: not necessarily the children of singers must become singers, as long as they support themselves, it is glorious to engage in any work.
Although he did not have high artistic achievements, he was admitted to the Royal Melbourne Institute of Technology in Australia after graduating from LongLong University.
After graduation, I could have a very good job in Australia, but considering that my parents were older and I was an only child, I chose to return to China to develop.
In 2015, Guan Tianyuan established a tea company in Beijing, served as the chairman of the board, and after several years of hard work, the company's profits and scale were very impressive.
The son only had respect for Wang Xingjun
After Wang Xingjun recovered from singleness, all of Jiang's energy was focused on his career, and while filming, he also entered the directing department of the Beijing Film Academy and the history department of Nankai University in Tianjin for further study.
In 1995, Wang Xingjun also obtained a postgraduate degree in the History Department of Nankai University.
In 2000, Wang Xinjun's film Silk Road won the American Film Personality Award, and Amanisha Khan won the Chinese Film Government Award.
In addition to being invited to serve as the artistic director of an American performing arts group, Wang Xingjun and his friends also set up their own film and television company in Hainan, filming, directing, and writing.
In the years since, Wang Xingjun has made great achievements in directing and screenwriting, and the Chinese Film Directors Association has also recruited him as a member.
But after many years of divorce, although the work is busy and the appearance is rough, Wang Xingjun's heart has always been worried about his son Guan Tianyuan, and after knowing that his son has good achievements in his field, Wang Xingjun feels very proud and proud.
In the face of this son who has not lived together for a long time, Wang Xingjun is very guilty in his heart, although Guan Mucun has been in the middle as a conciliator between his son and himself, but his son's feelings for Wang Xingjun seem to no longer reach the harmony of "father and son", and the respect for him is greater than family affection.
Fortunately, Wang Xingjun has the care and warmth of his younger siblings, and there is no regret and lack in family affection.
epilogue
In marriage, there may not be so much peace of mind, the same is Guan Mucun, the same high achievement, but the attitude and feelings of the two people before and after, but there are different ways.
For Wang Xingjun, she will never forget the true feelings and warmth that Guan Mucun once gave him, and her heart is also full of gratitude to Guan Mucun, but this feeling can only be buried in her heart.
Guan Mucun, who had worked hard to come, finally found his own home, the ordinary son made him proud, and the husband of a high-ranking official was her backing.
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