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Guan Mu Village
Guan Mucun is a well-known national first-class actor, a famous mezzo-soprano singing artist, who sings songs such as "If You Want to Know Me", "The Grapes of Turpan", "Singing with a Tambourine", "ToastIng", "When the Golden Wind Blows" and other songs.
Anyone who has heard her singing can feel the warmth that flows from the bottom of her heart, and people who like her evaluate her as China's top mezzo-soprano, and there is no one, which shows the status of Guan Mucun in people's minds.
It is just that Seki Makimura, who has achieved such impressive results in his career, is not very emotionally smooth.
As early as 1984, Guan Mucun had a marriage with actor Wang Xingjun, and the two married in 1984 and had a son after marriage.
Guan Mucun and her ex-husband Wang Xingjun
Originally upgraded from a world of loving two to a happy family of three, Seki Makimura thought it was a lifelong affair.
Who would have thought that before the seven-year itch, this marriage ended because the ex-husband's career was not smooth, his heart was uneven and he did something to him.
In this marriage, Guan Mucun dutifully performed his duties, endured humiliation and burdens, gave each other opportunities many times, and finally ended in the other party's lack of cherishing.
After divorcing Wang Xingjun, Guan Mucun met true love again, took his son to marry the high-ranking official Jiang Hong, and now that 32 years have passed, is she okay?
01 Guanmu Village
Guan Mucun, born in 1953 in Xinxiang, Henan, is a Manchu from Shenyang, Liaoning Province.
Because he was born in a family of Muye Village in the suburbs of Xinxiang, Henan, he was named after the village and called Guan Mu Village.
Guan Mucun's family is not rich since childhood, there is a younger brother below, his parents are ordinary people, but Guan Mucun's mother has a good voice, and she has inherited her mother's good voice since she was a child.
I like to sing with my mother when I have nothing to do, although the material conditions are not rich,
But mentally, the family of four is rich and happy.
But the heavens did not go according to people's wishes, and Guan Mu died early due to illness,
The remaining Guan father is alone with a pair of children, life is very difficult, guan mucun has achieved very good results since childhood,
Because of the changes in his family, he entered a steel file factory in Tianjin as a lathe worker after graduating from middle school.
Fortunately, Guan Mucun is very cute, and during the seven years of working in the factory, the workers and masters have given her sincere understanding and love.
In order to have more time for Seki Makimura to study and participate in stage practice,
Workers took the initiative to take over her production tasks;
She lived far from where she worked, and the masters took the initiative to buy her a bicycle;
Seeing that she is living alone with her underage brother, the old sister of the union will sew warm quilt clothes for them;
This is also the reason why Guan Mucun later had a natural affinity for the grassroots masses.
Because she was born as a worker, she received the most help and love from the masses of workers.
Guan Mucun also lived up to expectations, and later officially became a soloist of the Tianjin Song and Dance Troupe with his strength.
After becoming famous, Guan Mucun would often go back to visit those old workers, and they still called her "Xiao Guan'er" as affectionately as before.
Guan Mucun did not have a sense of distance from them, and she felt extra kind to see the workers and masters wearing overalls and greasy hands.
Every time she had the opportunity to perform, she would be particularly excited and affectionately rub her gratitude to her co-workers into her song.
02 Wang Xingjun
Perhaps it is precisely because of this origin and the affection for the workers' masters,
Only then did Guan Mucun plant a heel fight in his first marriage with Wang Xingjun.
Wang Xingjun is six years younger than Guan Mucun, he was born in the Xinjiang Construction Corps,
His father was from Gansu, and he was arrested by the Kuomintang earlier and went to Xinjiang to become a Zhuangding.
His mother, who was also from Gansu, went to Xinjiang from Zhibian, and later the two met and formed a family, giving birth to Wang Xingjun and a younger brother and two younger sisters.
Early years of Wang Xingjun
Coupled with the early death of Wang Xingjun's father, it was too difficult for his mother to pull the eldest four children alone, and he remarried a colleague when Wang Xingjun was nine years old.
But because Wang Xingjun and his brother are growing up, they eat more,
The stepfather hated them for eating too much, so he was not very good to him, and thus had a bad relationship with their mother.
At that time, they would often quarrel over half a nest or a piece of pickles because the grain and oil were not divided correctly.
Wang Xingjun, who grew up in such a family, became inferior and sensitive from an early age, and it was this that caused the misfortune of his later marriage with Guan Mucun.
Wang Xingjun recently took a photo
Wang Xingjun was able to embark on the road of acting, which was also born after watching a drama called "Sail a Thousand Miles" when he was 14 years old.
At that time, after he watched it, he told his uncle, an old actor in the troupe, that he also wanted to be an actor in the future.
The uncle saw that he had a good image and let him sing two voices, so he encouraged him to apply for an art group.
After that, Wang Xingjun's heart planted the seed of becoming an actor, although this road was not smooth, but it was a good thing to go.
It also harvested the first marriage of her life, but because she was too young and radical at that time, she ended in divorce.
03 Love because of drama
Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun were born of love for "Born bright moon on the sea", when Guan Mucun was already a household singer.
She played both a female lead and a female lead singer in the play, and Wang Xingjun was still a small actor with no name at that time.
But because he is tall and handsome, his personality is also very straightforward,
Although it was the first time to partner with Guan Mucun, with tacit understanding, he did not think that the two would extend the emotions in the play to reality.
At that time, after this news came out, it was not optimistic at all, first, Guan Mucun was six years older than Wang Xingjun, and second, the two were very famous, and some people said that Wang Xingjun relied on Guan Mucun to ascend to the throne.
Stills from "Bright Moon on the Sea"
But at that time, the two were fighting fiercely, especially after Guan Mucun learned of Wang Xingjun's origins.
In addition to the relationship between lovers, there is more of a sister and brother for him,
And for Wang Xingjun at that time, he also withstood great pressure to communicate with Guan Mucun.
Because no matter what he did, others had something to say, maybe they were really in love at that time.
In this way, the sister-brother love that was not optimistic finally entered the marriage.
After marriage, the marriage life between Guan Mucun and Wang Xingjun was very sweet, but this was all temporary, and with the birth of the child, the contradictions between them gradually became apparent.
In particular, when Wang Xing's military career was not going well, he would sprinkle his anger on Guan Mucun's body.
At the beginning, Guan Mucun was tolerant, she was optimistic about her husband in her heart, but she did not meet him, so she could understand him, but in the long run, Wang Xingjun used his wife as a gas pump.
He often said to Guan Mucun, "If I had such a reputation and influence as you, I would have gone to a foreign country a long time ago." ”
However, this is not the last straw that overwhelmed their marriage, if Wang Xingjun is only verbally hurt, Guan Mucun can tolerate it in order not to hurt the child and give the child a complete home.
But Guan Mucun's concessions became a weight for Wang Xingjun to "bully" her, and he regarded her tolerance and generosity as weakness and incompetence.
Once, Wang Xingjun asked Guan Mucun for money to hold an exhibition, but Guan Mucun could not come up with so much money for a while.
Wang Xingjun didn't believe it at all, and in a fit of rage, he moved his hand at Guan Mucun.
It is said that domestic violence is only zero times and countless times, which is the final bottom line of Guan Mucun, Wang Xingjun stepped on it,
The final result was that she was heartbroken, completely dead, and finally chose to divorce him, and her son lived with Guan Mucun.
04 Meet true love again
After the divorce, Guan Mucun plans to focus his time and energy on his son and career.
She no longer has any hope for marriage, but God is fair, it will be extra kind to gentle and kind women,
When Guan Mucun was most frustrated, a person who really loved her walked into her, and this person was Guan Mucun's later husband, Jiang Hong.
Jiang Hong is a doctor of economics, not only a talent, but also a promising high-ranking official, more importantly, he loves Guan Mucun.
At that time, Guan Mucun was alone with his son, the house was left to Wang Xingjun, the mother and son had no place to live, and the days were very difficult, Jiang Hong saw it in his eyes and hurt in his heart.
Guan Mucun with her husband Jiang Hong
Therefore, Jiang Hong will often go over to help her when she has time.
He knew that she was a celebrity, and there were too many people who liked her, but there were too few people who really cared about her, so he had to approach her and help her.
Gradually, a new affection arose in both people's hearts.
However, at that time, Jiang Hong did not divorce, but his marriage had long been extinct in name only, because it was arranged by his parents, and when he married his wife, the two did not have feelings, so the feelings after marriage were not very harmonious.
In order to make both people feel better, Jiang Hong chose to divorce, at that time, as a leading cadre, the impact of divorce on career and life would be great, but Jiang Hong was ready to go home and become a farmer.
In the heart of Guan Mucun, Jiang Hong is a kind-hearted person with both moral integrity and ability.
In her life she used to feel lonely, without the power of backing.
But since having him, her life has become more and more beautiful, and all the haze has dissipated and become clear.
Of course, for Jiang Hong, he personally witnessed how Guan Mucun went through the most difficult days, in his heart, Guan Mucun is a "national treasure", she suffered too much before, and he did not want to let her suffer any more in the future.
So when Jiang Hong told Guan Mucun that he had prepared for the worst, "it was a big deal to go home and become a farmer", she did not hesitate to go with him.
Finally, after eight years of guan mucun's divorce from Wang Xingjun, she finally entered into marriage with Jiang Hong.
After marriage, Jiang Hong really put Guan Mucun in the palm of his hand, and he treated her son as his own son.
Now the two have been married for 23 years and are still in love.
Their son has long grown into an adult, has his own career and family,
And Wang Xingjun really went abroad as he wished, now living in the United States and serving as the artistic director and director of the American Modern Communication Group Company, perhaps, this is also a good ending.
"The Island Bookstore" said: "Everyone has the most difficult year in their lives, making life beautiful and broad. ”
Deeply believed, really powerful people, can maintain optimism in difficult situations, maintain bravery in the trough,
And Guan Mucun is such a powerful person,
She has experienced family changes since she was a child, and with her own efforts and strength, she has embarked on the artistic road of independent singers step by step.
Then encountered the failure of marriage, a person with a son, always forward, desperately upward, out of the quagmire, finally goodbye to the light, and hold hands with the beloved person.
Seeing the recent photos of Guan Mucun, some people said that she was really more and more beautiful, and the older she was, the more temperamental she was.
In fact, this is the power of happiness, her happiness comes from the love and tolerance of her husband, the filial piety and consideration of her son,
Of course, in my opinion, the most important thing is that this happiness and calmness come from her heart, she has never lost herself, whether it is on the road of pursuing art, or on the road of pursuing a happy marriage, she has always adhered to herself and not forgotten her original intention.
In her, we see the best way a person looks, and that is to be who they are.
As Tagore said, "The most beautiful appearance of man is not to become a man, but to become oneself." "May you also strive to be your own light, illuminate your own path, and become the protagonist in your own story."
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