Girls are really very complex creatures, some time ago just wrote that Rafido grass men are too picky for love, yesterday and girlfriends chatted about what birthday gifts boys send at the bottom, but everyone chose a Unified WeChat transfer 520.
Boys may not understand, girls will understand what I am saying as soon as they hear it. If it is more terrifying than poor is the key, then what is more speechless than the key is perfunctory.
The heart > action> money is always the gift-giving rule of girls, and in this regard, only transferring money is the lowest level of romance.
Asking about the most memorable surprise of the girls is never how much money was transferred, or what expensive gifts were received, but a letter placed in the gift package, or a small essay on WeChat, which everyone cherished for a long time, and even could be memorized word for word.
One thing that may come as a surprise is that almost all girls prefer to receive love letters or small essays with a sense of truth than gift transfers.
The bags that men have saved for half a year are not even as touching as the small card "I will always love you" in the bag.
Boys who like to write small essays are angels. I remember that when I was in my second year of high school, WeChat was just popular, I was not in a class with my boyfriend, I couldn't use my mobile phone to go to school, and I couldn't see a few times between classes, so he would send me a long essay on WeChat every night.
"Today's physical education class went into a few three-points", "I was nagged by the class teacher during the lunch break", "Did you see me when you went to exercise", "It was so happy when I sent you home", "I want you to have a good night". The most anticipated thing every day is to receive his WeChat in the evening.
The secret and sweetness of early love are hidden in the small composition.
Later, with the current one, others were very shy and did not like to talk, but every day when they met, they would receive a paper rose that he folded by hand, and once curiously opened it, they found that each rose had a sentence written in it.
To say that the big straight man really can't say anything earth-shattering love words, roses are not written inside "think of you" or "love you", but it still does not prevent me from looking forward to getting a new rose every day, and then smirking at the love words with a high repetition rate.
The love words written by hand are more lethal than the WeChat small essays, and sometimes just a few words can make people can't help but ascend to heaven with their cheekbones.
Until now I still keep these paper roses, occasionally taking them apart to look at them, feeling childish and embarrassed, but after laughing, I will remember how much I liked each other.
Love is still like this, the small essays written by parents are even more destructible, especially people like elders who rarely say love, once they express love, it is really cute.
I was very impressed by the day of the college entrance examination, when I went home for dinner during my lunch break, and found that my father had written a small note on the side of each dish, and the scrambled eggs with tomatoes and his handwritten "Double Eggs Fly Together" seemed particularly lame, but they made me feel funny and touched.
The ancient way of expressing emotions is always heartwarming, seeing the blessings written by the lover, between the lines is his habit of speaking, as if he has seen his expression and gushing love when he writes these sentences.
The old way of communication, though backward and ancient, was exceptionally warm. I remember my mother mentioning the popular pager in the 80s, who wanted to contact first called the pager, turned love and greetings into short words, and then sent to the designated person's bb machine, now it sounds really romantic.
Today, I unexpectedly received a "paging message" from a friend, although it was only a few words to click on, but inexplicably reminded me of the joy of receiving New Year's greeting cards when I was a student in the past.
I also tried to use the "analog pager" to send everyone a New Year's greeting, remember to press the QR code to receive my blessings!!
If you also want to send one of these New Year's wishes to your loved one, you can also choose "I want to page too" after receiving my blessing.
I have heard a saying before that "some people only have three points of love but can express ten points", I think it is more sad than overexpression, "I love you very much in my heart but never express it". After all, only the love that can be felt is called love.
The new year is coming, I hope that everyone can take this opportunity to say happy new year to the loved ones, and I also wish everyone can be loved and worried in the new year.
Head image / Arren Aaren
Illustration / Japanese edition of "I May Not Love You"