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note! Children always have a lot of questions, is it unreasonable or really curious?

Many parents often ignore their children's own creativity in their daily lives, and forget to take care of their children's creativity in dialogue and communication. For example, when a child asks, why is the sky blue and not green? Why should we eat with chopsticks instead of anything else... And so on, children will be "problem babies" for a long time in early childhood, with a lot of problems in their heads. This involves the protection and inspiration of parents' creativity, in other words, parents can have a little patience to listen to the conversation with their children at many times in their daily lives, which is crucial for both parties and the family atmosphere.

note! Children always have a lot of questions, is it unreasonable or really curious?

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First, protect the child's awareness of the problem

The person asking the question is different. In fact, the questioner must first have a sharper mind and a different way of thinking. In the early days of young children, children's way of thinking has not yet been honed by the rules of real life, and it also has the characteristics of rich imagination and innocence in the early stage of brain development. Therefore, when faced with some strange questions raised by children, parents should be able to realize that they can overcome the psychology of "impatience", regard the children who ask questions as individuals who are equal to their own personality, and patiently listen to their children's ideas and wishes.

Second, reverse thinking inspires children

In the early stages of brain development, children have many problems that originate from the heart, and they are the most simple and without much modification. They use less written thinking and more direct and figurative thinking. Therefore, children are more inclined to think in reverse thinking than in their daily way of thinking.

Reverse thinking is a kind of innovation, many parents from an early age to send their children to participate in a variety of Olympiad classes, interest specialty classes, but in fact, if you can pay attention to the child's reverse thinking guidance, children will be more smooth in rational thinking. With such a premise, the child will participate in other Sutuo class exercises, and already lay a good foundation for reverse thinking.

Third, exploration and inspiration are one and the same

When children tear down toys and make a mess in the house, many parents will feel upset and think that their children are disobedient and do not understand things. But in fact, in the process of the child removing the toy, he completed an attempt to explore. The structure of the toy is not necessarily very precise, but the fit of the mechanical gears inside has its operation. Therefore, such a creativity should be protected when the child is able to explore certain toys independently.

In short, the protection of children's creativity is an indispensable part of education, or when parents frequently mention the word education, they should also protect the expression of children's creativity. Popular science cartoons can be used to help children inspire and think about many questions in daily life, so that they can build a more perfect understanding of the world.

Parents should also pay more attention when children show a keen sense of color, light and sound during play or learning. This is the refraction of the world in the child's brain, which should be understood and seen. Attaching importance to children's curiosity is essentially valuing children's natural innocence and creativity, which is beneficial to creating a harmonious family atmosphere. When parents pay attention to the interest in their children, it is actually more effective in education. Therefore, you may wish to listen patiently to your child's ideas, which is also an effective parent-child communication while protecting your child's creativity.

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