Life often sees such a scene, parents chase their children to feed, children run around, parents also run around, and finally the children are full, parents are tired enough, and end up full of meals, are you and your children in life like this?
Neighbors children have been in kindergarten middle class, parents are doctors, usually are early out and late home, are very busy, basically no time to manage children, children are basically grandparents with growing up, although it has been in kindergarten middle class, but it is still grandparents feeding him food, and while eating while playing tablet, the mother reminded: children can not eat while looking at tablets. The child's grandfather said: When the child plays with the tablet computer when eating, he can stop a little, eat a little more, so many children in the community are playing with toys, watching cartoons, while eating, you young people do not have much children, you do not know the hardships of taking children. Eating every day is either watching TV to eat, or chasing and feeding, chasing and feeding tired, it is not as easy as watching the computer to eat. Hearing this, the child's mother can only sigh and is also helpless.
This scene is so familiar in our real life, the child is four or five years old, but the parents still have to chase the food or watch the cartoon while eating, chasing him bite by bite to feed. The elders also feel very wronged, but there is no way, everyone hopes that the child can sit down to eat quietly, but once they sit down, the child will not eat, the elders are also worried, helpless can only chase the doll to feed. In fact, if you really love your baby, you don't have to. Chasing the feeding not only pits the children but also increases the burden on the elders to a certain extent.
Disadvantage 1: It is easy to cause the baby to be anorexic. We adults all know that the atmosphere of eating and drinking is very important, and our desire to eat will be stronger in a good atmosphere, and under the cold scene, no one has much appetite. The same is true for children eating, to want the baby to eat well, eat well, the atmosphere of feeding is very important. However, when parents feed the baby, often the bowl and spoon are placed on the baby's mouth, has not left, just fed a bite, the baby has not chewed, swallowed, another bite of rice has long been waiting at the child's mouth, parents keep urging, the baby eat quickly, eat fast. Such a feeding atmosphere will invisibly cause a certain psychological burden to the child, and there will always be endless meals, and over time it will be anorexia and picky eating.
Disadvantage 2: It is easy for the baby to develop the bad habit of eating slowly and not swallowing with food. Many babies have not developed the habit of eating at the table from an early age, so that parents chase their children around to eat, and where the children run, parents follow where to feed, and eating a meal can run the whole house. In order to let the children stop, parents let them play with toys, play tablets, and watch cartoons, so that the children are sitting down, but they are concerned about playing and not concentrating on eating, and it is easy to develop the bad habit of procrastinating and eating.
Disadvantage 3: It is easy to affect digestion, resulting in indigestion of the baby. Children eat while playing, do not chew food well, basically swallow directly, over time it is easy to form the habit of not chewing. In the long run, it will increase the digestive and absorption burden of the stomach, and the stomach is in a state of long-term fatigue, which can easily lead to indigestion and food accumulation in the baby.
Developing good feeding habits and cultivating them from an early age can be done from the following aspects.
1, when the baby is eight or nine months old, start to be active, like to grasp, parents in the feeding, you can properly give the baby a spoon to eat, let the baby practice taking the spoon, gradually adapt.
2, when the baby is 10 to 12 months old, the mobility of the hand has made great progress compared with the front, you can grasp the food with your hands, and you can let him hold it and eat it himself.
3. When the baby is 12 to 18 months old, the hands-on ability is stronger, and the hand-eye body coordination ability becomes better. This is the best time for the baby to eat independently, and it is necessary to develop the habit of the baby sitting and eating by himself. When the baby first learns to eat, it may make the food scatter all over the ground, and it may also make the baby's whole body full of food, at this time the parents should have enough patience.
4. After a series of exercises, the baby will gradually develop a good habit of sitting and eating. Not only does it not have to be fed, but it can also cultivate the independence of the baby. It is beneficial for both babies and parents.