On January 18, 2018, such a scene occurred outside the rescue room of a hospital in Henan.
A mother squatted on the ground and cried bitterly, raising her hands and hitting herself in the face.
While crying, he said, "They all blame me, they all blame me, I hurt my daughter." ”
Why would this mother say such a thing?
What did she do to get her daughter to be sent to the rescue room and experience the ordeal of life and death?
The girl who was sent to the rescue room was named Wenwen, and her family lived in Zhenping County, Nanyang City, Henan Province, at the age of 11.
It was a carefree age, playing around with classmates on campus during the day and coming home at night to hug her parents and coddle her.
But because of a bowl of poisonous water, Wen Wen's life has undergone earth-shaking changes, and the family has since added a layer of haze.
One day, when he returned home from school, Wenwen went into the house and threw his school bag on the sofa and shouted to his mother:
"Mom, there is no water, I am so thirsty."
After shouting several times, there was no voice from his mother answering, and Wenwen had to pour water to drink himself.
Unexpectedly, when she walked to the table, she saw a bowl of water soaked in mountain bean roots on it.
Wen Wen also thought that this was the water that his mother had cooled out in advance, because he was too thirsty, he did not ask his mother, and directly took it up and drank it all.
Subsequently, Wen Wen's body began to have constant problems.
She began to be restless, always frowning, and constantly walking back and forth in the living room.
The parents who returned home did not think much about seeing their daughter's strange behavior, and thought that it was ADHD again.
Gradually, however, Wenwen's situation became more and more wrong.
In the evening, after Wenwen's mother, Sun Mom, made a meal, the family sat at the table and prepared to eat, and Wenwen began to vomit.
As soon as she saw her daughter's appearance, Sun's mother also thought that her daughter had secretly eaten unclean things outside and caused a bad stomach.
Hearing his mother's accusations, Wen Wen, who kept vomiting, was very aggrieved in his heart and shouted to his mother:
"I had the money to buy snacks, so I came back and drank a bowl of water."
The mother and daughter quarreled, Wenwen's tone became weaker and weaker, and the whole person suddenly fainted.
Seeing this scene, Wenwen's mother was shocked, and she and her husband rushed to the hospital with their daughter.
After careful examination by the doctors, they found that Wenwen's condition was very dangerous and was a phenomenon of food poisoning.
After careful questioning, Sun's mother suddenly remembered what her daughter said before she passed out.
She told the doctor that her daughter had only drunk a bowl of bean root water when she came back from school, but that there was no chance that something would go wrong.
"People in our village often drink water soaked in mountain bean root, and I have never heard that it will be poisoned, doctor, is it a mistake in the examination?"
Hearing Wenwen's mother's words, the doctor's face changed drastically, and he quickly asked:
"How big a container do you use, how many bean roots you soak?"
"It's the bowl for eating, and it's about forty or fifty grams."
Listening to Wen Wen's mother's words, the doctor was even more certain that Wen Wen was poisoned, and it was the bowl of bean root water that harmed Wen Wen like this.
The doctor quickly began to induce Vomiting on Wenwen, but unexpectedly, Wenwen's condition became more and more serious.
She was constantly vomiting, constantly comatose, and after the doctor saw that the vomiting did not work, he immediately arranged for the nurse to push Wenwen into the emergency room to wash his stomach.
Watching her daughter suffer such torture because of herself, Mother Sun was filled with grief and blamed herself.
But she couldn't figure out, everyone drank the bean root water that was fine, why only her daughter was poisoned?
Subsequently, the doctor told her that the mountain bean root water does have the effect of clearing heat, detoxifying, reducing swelling and throat.
However, everything has a degree, and once it is over-consumed, everything will have a bad side.
After investigation, it was found that mountain bean root is a kind of traditional Chinese medicine, but the medicine contains matrine, so it is toxic.
In general, the dosage is controlled within 6 grams, and there will be no problems with the human body.
Unfortunately, many people know that mountain bean root is detoxifying and detoxifying, but they don't know that once it is overused, it will also become poison.
Hearing the doctor's explanation, Mother Sun suddenly realized, but the doctor's next words were like a thunderbolt, directly to her head.
Because Wenwen mistakenly ate too many mountain bean roots, it is likely to cause symmetrical lesions in the brainstem, cerebellum, basal ganglia and cerebral cortex, which is commonly known as toxic encephalopathy.
Hearing the doctor's words, Wenwen's parents completely collapsed, and Sun's mother slapped herself fiercely.
She burst into tears, apologizing to her daughter one by one, and her heart was full of regrets.
The husband on the side, with red eyes, quickly grabbed his wife's hand and choked up to comfort:
"What the doctor said is that it is possible, things have not yet been determined, and the daughter is still rescuing, if she comes out to find her mother and sees you in such pain, she should be sad."
Her husband's words calmed her down, and Wenwen finally came out of the emergency room after a long rescue.
However, although the life was saved, but the person is still in a coma, there will be accidents at any time.
At the doctor's suggestion, Sun's mother and husband transferred their daughter to the detoxification center of the 307 Hospital of the People's Liberation Army for treatment.
After receiving the document, the doctor immediately arranges for an examination.
After an anxious wait, it was finally determined that wenwen had changed from poisoning to toxic encephalopathy because the poisoning was too deep.
People with this disorder will experience subconscious disorders, mental disorders, convulsions, autonomic dysfunction, signs of central nervous system limitations, and increased cranial pressure.
Unexpectedly, the last thing I wanted to happen happened.
Overnight, the innocent and cute little girl became mentally retarded.
However, the husband and wife have always felt that no matter what their daughter becomes, they cannot give up.
In this way, WenWen lay in the intensive care unit for four days, and his father and mother stayed on the bench outside for four days.
In just four days, it seems like a long four years have passed since I asked my parents.
Whenever their once lively and lovely daughter, with a tube full of sticks on her body, stood still on the hospital bed, her heart would be like a knife.
Four days later, Wenwen finally opened her eyes, but she felt like she had changed into someone else.
Unable to speak, unable to stand, unconscious, paralyzed.
Even if her favorite parents stood in front of her, Wenwen seemed to be invisible, ignoring each other's existence.
She lay on the bed, her misty eyes fixed on the ceiling, grinning silly.
Seeing the appearance of his daughter, Wenwen's parents had mixed feelings and hated that they could not suffer for their daughter.
In Wenwen's mother's view, her daughter's tragedies are all self-inflicted, and she lives in self-blame every day:
"They all blame me, it's all my negligence that ruined my children, ruined my home, and I'd rather it's me than the children who are suffering now."
However, toxic encephalopathy is not only a hurdle in Wenwen's life, but also a test for his family.
After waking up, wenwen, the symptoms of toxic encephalopathy became more and more obvious, her hands and feet were deformed, just like a stroke patient, and her body began to twitch non-stop.
Every time she fell ill, her mouth would roar, and sometimes her father was not there, and her mother alone could not control Wenwen.
The old lady in the same ward as Wenwen had never seen such a patient in her life for decades, and at first she thought that a neurological patient had sent the wrong room.
It wasn't until I became familiar with my grandmother that I learned of what happened to young Wenwen, and I couldn't help but feel a pang of pain in my heart.
Whenever I saw that my grandmother was guarding her daughter every day, and Wenwen's father always came and went in a hurry, even if he came to the ward, he stayed for a while and left, and the old lady was even more sympathetic to Wenwen's mother.
However, what the old lady did not know was that Wenwen's father did not want to take care of his daughter, but that he had unspeakable secrets.
Since Wenwen's accident, the family's savings have been spent a lot, and he and his wife have borrowed a lot of money from relatives and friends around him.
However, in addition to Wenwen's usual medical expenses, the next step is to prepare money for rehabilitation.
It is said that a serious illness can turn a rich person into a poor person, not to mention that Wenwen lives in an ordinary family.
In order to let her daughter get better treatment, Wenwen's mother quit her job to take care of her in the hospital, and the burden of supporting the family and earning medical expenses all fell on the shoulders of her father.
Although Wenwen's encounter is painful, the parents' inseparability also makes people feel great.
After several months of treatment, WenWen was transferred to zhengda fifth hospital for treatment at the children's fukang medical department.
Sun Haoyu, the attending physician of the department, said that the girl's treatment requires a lot of energy because of the serious brain damage and the basal ganglia area.
In this hospital, Wenwen undergoes rehabilitation treatment every day, and the medical staff take her to walk and do some small exercises.
For normal people, what is easy is a kind of torture for Wenwen, whose intelligence degenerates into 2 or 3 years old.
Whenever the medical staff took her to exercise, Wenwen would be very resistant and make a big fuss in the ward.
At this moment, the grandmother wanted to take her daughter to escape from the hospital, but she knew that if she did not work hard, her daughter would be paralyzed in bed for the rest of her life.
The medical staff is also very sympathetic to the Wenwen family, and every time they see their granddaughter who is crying because of their daughter, they will always comfort each other softly.
Fortunately, the hard work is rewarded, and after a course of treatment, Wenwen's nervousness gradually stabilizes.
After more than ten days of comprehensive rehabilitation treatments such as exercise therapy, occupational therapy, physical factor therapy, traditional Chinese medicine rehabilitation therapy and water injection site injection, Wenwen's parents handled the discharge procedures for her.
It turned out that after many inquiries, Wenwen's father learned that there was a very authoritative hospital in Beijing and had a lot of experience in treating Wenwen's illness, so they planned to take their daughter to Beijing for medical treatment.
After a long road to seek medical treatment, Wenwen still can't speak, and her physical motor ability is still in the early childhood stage.
But fortunately, after the careful care of her family, Wenwen's upper body muscle tension dropped a lot, and she finally stood up.
Wenwen's parents also said that no matter how difficult the future is, they will persevere until the child recovers his health.
The encounter of the Wenwen family makes us feel sad.
Because of her mother's ignorance, she went from a sound child to an intellectually handicapped child, and the mother lived in self-blame.
However, they are also great, after their daughter experienced several life and death tribulations, they insisted on not abandoning, and the improvement of their daughter's condition is not only the credit of the doctor, but also the payment of their love.