22-year-old "visually impaired girl" Baoyan Fudan University, what should parents do to make their children talented?
Recently, a blind girl Zhu Lingjun Baoyan Fudan University news rushed to the hot search. While netizens sent their blessings, they couldn't help but sigh: "From primary school to university graduation and then Baoyan, disabled, I have become a light." ”
It is reported that Zhu Lingjun was born blind, is a native of Wuxi, Jiangsu Province, and many years ago, in order to enter the first grade of primary school in Shanghai School for Blind Children, he began to study in a different place. In 2018, she was admitted to East China Normal University, where she won the "National Inspirational Scholarship" for three consecutive years.
This is undoubtedly shocking, ordinary students from primary school to graduate school have to make great efforts, let alone a girl who is born blind? There is no doubt that in her growth, it will be more difficult, and her parents will pay more for it.
In fact, the education of parents is very important for the support of children's education. Supporting your child to read is more than just providing a chance to study. In order to cultivate their children well, many people spend high prices to ask famous teachers to teach, find relationships, and send famous schools... Busy with feet on the ground.
Of course, the author is not saying that these things cannot be done and are not important, but for the growth of children, it is certainly not the most important.
After all, the main body of learning is the child, many times, the child's own learning interest is not mobilized, rather than drastically improving the environment, it is better to create a world rich in humanistic "nutrition", support and guide the child to make "choices", just give some appropriate advice at the critical moment when the child opens his mouth. The same is supportive, or it is easier to immerse children in the humanistic "nutrition learning environment", so that children are educated, thereby changing the growth path and even changing the fate.
It is worth mentioning that parents also need to pay attention to avoid their children from falling into the "atmosphere misunderstanding". People are inert and easily affected, and children are no exception. A positive environment is often a benign guide, and conversely, a negative and depressed environment tempts people to sink. The ancient "Three Migrations of Mengmu" is this truth.
Another aspect of supporting children to mobilize their own internal drive in the process of learning is the training of ambition and will. What cannot be ignored is that if people do not have upward ambition, they have no direction to strive. But if a person has upward ambition, the direction of effort, but there is a "worried tired" parents, a person whose thoughts have advanced three thousand miles, just ran out of a kilometer, the mother let the break drink tea, such behavior, it seems to be doing a good job of logistical guarantees, supporting the child, in fact, is disrupting the rhythm of the child's self-management, helping.
Middle and high school is a busy stage, and it is also a key stage for children to gradually increase their independent learning and form active learning, independent thinking, and systematic thinking. If parents only pay attention to the health of their children, do not consider the actual situation of their children, and only care about self-righteously looking for tutors to talk to and find foreign teachers to speak, it is difficult to form a child's comprehensive and independent thinking, management ability and independent learning ability.
Therefore, in the education of children, the premise of using money is to understand the children's different stages of growth and different needs, so that the children can obtain the abilities that should be obtained at different stages; the standard of using money is to choose carefully to ensure that children can get the improvement they deserve after using money.
Tsinghua University once said in a reply letter to a student: "Life is really hard, but please believe enough."
Indeed, life is bitter, the road to study is also bitter, enough to believe, in order to lead their actions to be angry. Parents should also believe enough in the child, when he is struggling hard, silent support, far more practical than the "heartache" of maternal love. To truly love and protect children is to let children fly on their own, and some parents' arms are too protective of their children, and they may break the wings they want to fly.
In short, parents are willing to invest in their children, after all, children's education and talent are the biggest wishes of parents.
But to support children is not only to use money, but also to spend money with heart, in just a dozen years of study, to help children become a special person, a more "powerful" person, mobilize children's internal motivation, help children overcome hardware difficulties in schooling, it is enough.
After all, it is our children who should run endlessly for the sake of their original intentions and dreams, not their parents.
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