Don't be unconditionally good to a boy, he will feel that being good to him for a long time will be taken for granted. Even if the boy chased after him for a long time, he must know moderation in the future relationship and not focus on him. When my friend's boyfriend was in his third year of high school, they were assigned to a class, and later in the relationship, the boy began to chase my friend, and my friend did not mean anything to him, so he simply refused, but the boy has always been very good to my friend, chased for a year, and after the college entrance examination, my friend agreed to the boy.
In fact, in the second half of the third semester of high school, my friend has a good feeling for him, but in order to study, often very indifferent to him, a month after the college entrance examination, two people are very happy, boys are very pleasing to girls, for my friend to start very well, after the results came out, the boys did not have ideal exams, want to repeat, two people made an appointment to wait for each other, my friend went to college, the two people will make a phone call every night, knowing that boys like to play basketball, my friend will save money to buy him sneakers, usually send food to boys, because college communication is not the same as high school My friend was better and more sociable, and then the boys began to wonder if my friend was looking for someone in college.
But we all know that she didn't, and the boy's friend also told the boy that there are many people in college and it is difficult to persevere (so, the beginning and end of a relationship have external effects). Since October, the two of them began to argue, the boy became irritable, became distrustful of my friend, asked her to take pictures of him wherever she went, the friend did, but the boy still suspected her. Later, the two people quarreled fiercely, what the boy said was very difficult to hear, we were all surprised, did not expect that the boy who was so close to my friend could say such ugly words, we all said that we should not be separated for a while.
Friends cry a little more every night, because every night the boys are condemning him, friends say she is reluctant, she still wants to continue, but in our outsiders' eyes, this boy obviously has a problem, and then the boy started a cold war, the New Year when the friend called me, said that the boy and a girl in their class ambiguous for nearly two months, I felt particularly distressed my friend, my friend went to him to question, he said, is ambiguous for two months, did not do anything, my friend said to break up, the boy did not agree (I do not understand why this).
Later let my friend give him another chance, the friend softly agreed, the two people are almost a year old, the friend is preparing gifts for the boy, the boy asked me what my friend wanted, the friend was afraid that the boy did not have enough money at school, he said no, but her own money was also saved for a long time to save it, the boy really did not plan to send any gifts, 520 did not say anything that day, the friend after experiencing the ambiguous thing, began to guess the boy, in the end whether there was a break with the girl, until now has not broken up.
My friend thought about his college entrance examination and thought about putting up with it again, but the boy became more unscrupulous and often scolded my friend because of small things. After this incident of my friend, what I want to say is that girls must stop losses in time when dealing with feelings, those uncomfortable relationships should be broken early, so as not to be laborious and laborious later, and there is, to invest more in themselves, not to be too good to a boy, even if they especially love him, when others scold, the first time they have to go back, save him from becoming more and more bullied, girls must protect themselves, love themselves more and more self-discipline, good is always in the end.
I also hope that some girls are far away from the boys who have objects, not worse than this one boy, do not know that the appearance may take another girl's half-life, do not pay attention to the first to come later, at least to have courtesy and shame. Love comes, just love well, don't lose yourself, still want to be a better self, don't test how much he loves, temptation is like holding a hammer to smash the floor to see how hard he is, and finally the temptation comes out Some people's love has also been shattered.