Author: Number One Emotion
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The Spring Festival is approaching, and it is time for a family reunion, not only delicious food, but also the warmth and liveliness of the family.
Of course, the feeling of the New Year is much worse than when I was a child, and the happiness is not as pure as before, but it adds a little trouble.
I often hear people say that "some people are happy and some people are sad", this sentence is also applicable to the Spring Festival, which should be a beautiful festival, especially in the case of the deterioration of married life, it may be difficult to feel the happy atmosphere again.
Case:
Uncle Zhang is 58 years old this year, and his current wife Aunt Yang is married for the second time, the two people usually have a care for each other, and Aunt Yang is young and capable, usually serving him very well.
It is reasonable to say that the father can find such a good wife, the children at the bottom should be happy, but they did not agree to this marriage at the beginning, and even if the father is married, the attitude towards Aunt Yang is very poor, always like to drink her as a nanny.
Since the last Mid-Autumn Festival family reunion, Aunt Yang has developed resistance to this family, and she no longer wants to face such a reunion, and even almost separated the two people.
First, let's talk about the performance of Uncle Zhang's children.
Originally, Aunt Yang was also looking forward to the first reunion of the whole family, and it coincided with the Mid-Autumn Festival reunion festival, everything should become very beautiful, but things developed in the opposite direction.
Since Uncle Zhang's children came to the house, things large and small have not been touched, and even so, they are still not satisfied with Aunt Yang's performance, Aunt Yang not only has to cook meals for the whole family, but also has to be accused of making unfortunate taste, and the most important thing is that Uncle Zhang does not know what to say.
Fortunately, during the three-day holiday in the Mid-Autumn Festival, Aunt Yang always felt that she was very wronged after three days, and her children did not come to accompany her, and she did not expect to become the nanny of the family, fortunately, Uncle Zhang apologized for her children in time, which did not cause more serious things to happen.
Let's talk about Aunt Yang's feelings.
But after the incident came out, Aunt Yang's heart was always not a taste, and now that it was the Spring Festival, Aunt Yang thought that she still had to be a nanny, and the children who served him felt unbearable and put forward the idea of separating for the New Year.
But this matter was rejected by Uncle Zhang, and he was the same word this time, anyway, it was not a few days, endure a time to pass, and when such a family is happy, there is no you always feel that there are shortcomings.
Aunt Yang was not able to say anything at that time, and she never mentioned this matter again, but since Uncle Zhang's daughter returned home early for the New Year, Aunt Yang's life has become difficult, and it has become more intense than the last Mid-Autumn Festival.
Before the children went home for the Chinese New Year, Aunt Yang took the initiative to propose a divorce: it is you who is happy with the family, not me. Aunt Yang moved back to her daughter's house, and now she is bent on divorce, even if the other party's children take the initiative to apologize, Aunt Yang does not want to be a nanny anymore.
Case Study:
To be honest, many elderly people have this problem of remarriage, on the one hand, facing the pressure of children's disagreement, on the other hand, they are afraid that the other party is looking for a free nanny, such a marriage is not only unable to harvest happiness, but eventually even bring harm to each other.
Aunt Yang in the above article encountered the above two problems, the children's difficulties, and the partner's incomprehension, everyone regarded her as a nanny, but no matter how to say that she is also an elder and a wife, and obviously it is a festival together, but only the family joy of the other family, it is difficult for anyone to insist on going on.
Married life, no matter what stage of life, should be the effort of two people, if only one person is doing things, and the other person is happy to enjoy it, even in a happy marriage will have a broken day.
In married life, no one is willing to have their interests violated all the time, not to mention the state of remarriage, this state of paying and being complained about, I believe that everyone will choose to end the relationship, after all, marriage is for happiness, not to serve others.