"The Story of the Rose" is unfinished? I don't want my first love and ex-husband, is Liu Yifei too much

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2024-06-26 17:00Creator in the field of emotion

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In full swing, "The Story of Rose" has come to an end.

Huang Yimei played by Liu Yifei After the death of her "soul mate" Fu Jiaming, she became a "motorcycle girl", she is no longer as beautiful as before, but a little more sassy and cool.

Dressing up is no longer deliberately "high-profile and bright" and "low-key ordinary", very casual, her hair has become curly, frizzy, and her gestures are all wonderful and tasteful of mature women.

After her 40th birthday, Rose met her love, and the pilot Hosie was fascinated by her, seeing that the two were about to spark love, but Rose personally curbed the budding love in her heart.

At the age of 40, she is no longer obsessed with and obsessed with love, she said to herself:

"I walked on the road with ease and pleasure, I was healthy and free, the world was in front of me, and the long brown road was in front of me, pointing to wherever I wanted to go.

From then on, I no longer wanted to be happy, I was happy, I liked everything I met, and everything was accepted.

From then on, I am unrestricted, I set myself free, I go wherever I want, I preside over me completely and absolutely. ”

sublimated the whole drama at once.

"I completely and absolutely preside over me", everyone savored this sentence, and after you understand it, you won't say that "The Story of Rose" is unfinished.

This is what this drama wants to tell us about women, what a truly free woman looks like.

As Yi Nengjing wrote a small essay for "The Story of Roses", "I completely and absolutely preside over me, this is not only a line, but also an epic that belongs to Huang Yimei's life, we have loved, we have made fools, we will also redeem ourselves again and again in decay and construction, we will eventually become bystanders of our own lives in the past, and also the owners of future lives, just because women can empathize with each other and accept everything that can happen in life."

Yi Nengjing's writing is so good, she really understands the spiritual core of this drama.

Some netizens said that Huang Yimei played by Liu Yifei is too much, she really can't catch up at all, her first love has guarded her like a jade for more than ten years, and she doesn't want the domineering president's ex-husband to find her to remarry, you say she can't do it. It's not realistic at all, if it's in real life, how can such an excellent first love and ex-husband still be waiting for her in the same place. A woman with so many pasts, men will dislike it, okay?

This kind of remarks are quite speechless, the cognition is not at the same level, and there is no way to discuss it.

Why did Rose completely change after Fu Jiaming's death?

It's not that Fu Jiaming's death has had too much impact on her, but that she knows how to live for herself and what she has wanted for a long time.

After Rose helped Fu Jiaming fulfill his last wish to climb the mountain, she did not see Fu Jiaming again after coming down the mountain, she attended Fu Jiaming's funeral, she was sad, and after the funeral she danced in her secret base in mourning clothes. Under the influence of Fu Jiaming, she also signed a personal "body donation", and then dressed like Fu Jiaming, and traveled by the motorcycle that Fu Jiaming left her.

She took Fu Jiaming with her and continued to live in this world.

The person you love is dead, and no matter how much you cry, you can't get it back, so you can only let yourself move on.

In fact, life is a journey, experience and experience life, and if you want to understand this layer, you will not have so many troubles.

Joys and sorrows, ups and downs, aren't they all what life brings us as it is?

Happiness and pain are real life, and there is no need to complain about anything.

At this time, Rose really realized why she continued to live and what she could do.

I like the finale of the drama version of "The Story of the Rose" very much, because Yishu's roses are still too vulgar, just a vase that can't withstand the wind and rain, and Yishu's roses have never been independent, whether it is spiritual or economic, she is dependent on others, willful, beautiful, and aggressive, relying on a better appearance, doing whatever she wants, too abusive.

Because of this, I have always disliked roses, I don't appreciate such women, they are beautiful and empty.

The ending of the rose in the original book is to marry Sir Rodeching, inherit a lot of inheritance, and play the world. She does not refuse love, because she has this strength, who makes her beautiful?

The drama version of the rose is truly her own.

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Let's take a look at the growth route of roses:

When she was in her early twenties, she was so bright and dazzling, she dressed herself up as gorgeous as she wanted, she wanted all men to look after her, she pursued passionate love, Zhuang Guodong was not as she wanted, she went crazy and smashed his home, she couldn't understand why Zhuang Guodong couldn't focus on her.

When we were young, we all did this, we didn't experience the hardships of life, and we were even more ignorant of love, thinking that love would be centered on you.

Guan Zhizhi said that "a girl as beautiful as a rose will not suffer in love", how is it possible?

As long as you believe in love, try to love, and all in, you will suffer, because the ideal and reality are too different.

After breaking up with Zhuang Guodong, Rose suddenly dimmed, she went to Fudan University to study psychology, and she wore the most ordinary clothes that she couldn't look at when she was young. At this time, Rose has not yet come out of her emotional wounds, and she feels that "low-key ordinary" can make her feel more secure.

Fang Xiewen appeared, and she fell in love again.

Unlike the love with Zhuang Guodong, Rose was moved by Fang Xiewen's kindness.

thought that Fang Xiewen was sincere to her, but this time she tasted the bitterness of marriage.

A man's goodness can be disguised, catering to you everywhere before marriage, but after marriage, it's like a different person. For the sake of the child, you have to endure everywhere, the bad mother-in-law, the suspicious husband, I thought that the marriage could last by forbearance, but I didn't know that it was still a chicken feather.

A happy marriage is hard to come by. Rose insisted on divorcing Fang Xiewen because she found that she didn't love him anymore, and all her love was consumed by the trivialities of life. The other party's love is the love that Rose pays the most, but if you give, the person is not right, and you will not get a good result.

Then it was with his soul mate Fu Jiaming.

Fu Jiaming is the one who really understands roses.

I can fully understand why Rose fell in love with Fu Jiaming, and they reached a natural soul understanding.

fell in love with Fu Jiaming, which made Rose see through life and death in the world.

In the past, she loved blindly and wanted this and that, but in the end, she realized that life was so fragile. We all come and go empty, and we can't deny the whole of our life just because the life of our lover is short. You can only move forward, live with the expectations of your loved one, enjoy the rest of your life for him and see the scenery of this world.

No one knows, why on earth do we live?

The world is so bitter, but we still have to live.

Just because we don't know, we have to live with questions, life is an experience.

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How good it is to reunite with my first love Zhuang Guodong.

Be. Zhuang Guodong is very handsome, with a lot of gold, and infatuation, for so many years, he is like a jade.

But the problem is that the love that used to be is gone, and there is no passion to continue with him. What about being together? Can you be happy? Won't there be any more contradictions from before? already knows what it's like to be in love with him, and there is no need to do it again, not to mention that Rose has Fu Jiaming in her heart at this time.

How good it is to remarry the president's ex-husband Fang Xiewen.

Be. Fang Xiewen should know that she was wrong and would not restrict her freedom.

It's just a matter of course, Fang Xiewen's love is control, he has been divorced for so long, knowing that Rose is ambiguous with the young man He Xi, he still can't help but want to sarcastically mock Rose. Fang Xiewen can't change it, there's nothing wrong with him, it's just that the way he loves is wrong.

So if you remarry, Rose will still repeat the old path of marriage.

Remarriage is the most meaningless thing.

You want to rebuild the old good, thinking that he will cherish you, but you don't know that you are just repeating the mistakes of the past.

Why do people have to have love?

Wouldn't it be nice to have experienced it?

At the age of 40, life is also a new beginning, and you can live boldly according to your own ideas.

Don't be defined by the world, you must be married to have a sense of security, you can't control yourself, is there a sense of security?

I envy Rose's life, she has become her true self.

What woman doesn't envy her?

Let's work hard in her direction, just do it.

Encourage each other to become an independent woman in the true sense of the word.

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Author: YIBAO, the original creator of emotions, millions of emotional bloggers, marriage and family counselors, practice writing the warm feelings of this world.

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