The conditions for a "bad" woman are: to pursue self-actualization, to be sober, to have the courage to practice dreams, to be independent, to love herself... Miss Zheng, the business director of a company, believes that women who often make men feel lost are "bad" women. A "bad" woman can push a bad man to be a good man.
"Bad" women have always been men's favorites, but everyone has their own interpretation of this "bad". No matter how you interpret it, at least the following "bad" is the "software" that new women should have in the field of love.
1. Women should be spoiled in love.
Weird but clever Xiaomi, who does almost nothing every time he eats with his boyfriend. The reason was: "I spent the morning drawing ten nails, please serve me!" In fact, feeding her to dinner, in the eyes of her boyfriend, is the lightest of all love tortures.
Failed love makes women stupid and men bad. Xiaomi believes that if you are too good to your boyfriend, it is easy to have an IQ drop. I believe that the best way for Xiaomi to fall in love with high emotional intelligence and high interest is for men to chase women, take "distance" as the chapter, and shape themselves into a "target" that can never be seen or touched. Don't fall in love with your ears, easy to be too soft-hearted. Also don't fall in love with your body, so it's easy to end a man's belligerence.
As a result, she presents herself as a mischievous, mischievous, savage image. Under the golden sign of "girlfriend", under the aura of love, she did all the small sins, on the one hand, testing the sincerity of her boyfriend, on the other hand, increasing her interest and personal charm. She finally succeeded. Xiaomi is a delightful woman. Her mantra is: Love me, spoil me!
More and more girls find that being a traditional "good woman" often suffers losses, so they put forward such a slogan: don't be a "good woman". A "virtuous woman" will only please men, but does not know how to love herself. What is even more hateful is that men may call "bad women", but in their hearts they like "bad women". Of course, the so-called "bad" does not mean crime, but when most women can't find their own emotional position and dare not speak up for their love rights, those women who are willing to speak up for their rights and interests will be very special and a little "bad".
Miss Cheng admires Hollywood star Barbara Streisand very much. Shi Cuishan, who has always been smart, did not reduce his IQ because of love. She drafted a prenuptial agreement with her boyfriend, Brolin, to protect her property rights from infringement. Miss Zheng has recently fallen in love again, and this time she is no longer "buried in her relatives". She said both men were equal and rational. She said, be a smart woman first, and then be qualified to judge which man is good and which man is bad. Only in this way can we be free from suffering and have true dignity and true love.
2. "Good" does not know how to love.
My cousin has always behaved as a good daughter, a good student, and a good friend. When she was a graduate student in science and engineering, some people praised her as "Boba". She almost fainted. She is a very "right" lady. How could she have such an indecent nickname? As a result, she was never chased again.
Later, my cousin did not learn to be "good", and inadvertently used the nickname of "red nails" to chat online. As it turns out, it's a delightful sight to attract butterflies. She finally realized that she was too "good" before, and men "climbed high". Men need sensual and "bad" things like red nails. When a man sees a woman he likes painting nails, he will have a wonderful association, very sexy, full of fox fairy spirit.
In fact, in essence, men love bad women more, naked men need naked seduction, seduction, ridicule and even slight insults, such as pinching him with red nails... "red nails" evoke men's animality, like alcohol, so that men are happy like gods.
With the "bad" practices of the virtual world, the cousin finally walks into the bar she used to despise, becomes the "bar queen", and soon catches a "true destiny". Once, she always waited tenderly, even foolishly, but found nothing. And the man who made her heart move easily married her cousin just because he praised her for "looking sexy when she ate ice cream".
Ms. Ye Ying, Kodak's global vice president, is an idol of countless boys. She has a famous saying that circulates among college students: "My skirt is short, my high heels are high!" Indeed, an attractive woman is confident, healthy, decent, and a model for women in our time. If "good" is autistic, dare not show female charm, and love is incompetent, then what is the point of such a "good" weak woman?
3. The "bad" of a good woman in the bedroom
Many working women have had the illusion of split personality. On the one hand, they have to play the role of good wives and mothers, on the other hand, they also have work pressure. Therefore, in the case of two-headed burning, they will be physically and mentally exhausted, which will naturally affect personal lust and negative sexual interaction with their husbands. This is a real problem.
The husband of the other party often ignores the embarrassment of the wife's role and only asks her to be enthusiastic and wild, which is commonly known as "bad". Instead of being an unhappy good woman, be a happy "bad" woman.
It is undeniable that there are still many virtuous women who do not know how to develop "gender resources", let alone the beauty of "femininity", and of course, they cannot enjoy "sex". They think that an independent professional woman wants "intellectual" and "rational", but does not understand "sensibility", and even cannot learn "sexy" courses. How to change from a bug to a beautiful butterfly is a problem that every woman has to consider.
The seemingly pure and lofty relationship between husband and wife is cold and lacks a fleshy breath and appeal. It turns out that women can also be "bad" enough to make men "sexy"; it turns out that femininity can be learned, sexiness can be trained...
Some "good" women don't get what they deserve and marry a failed or mediocre gentleman, but some seemingly toothless "bad" women can marry a good gentleman, which is really good and bad. Of course, this "good" woman may be cowardly, conservative, dull, and dare not pursue true love, while the "bad" woman may be vigorous, intelligent and cheerful, and dare to pursue true love...
The best illustration of this problem is the two women in The Legend of the Condor Heroes, who are cunning and eccentric. Huang Rong, who can say that he can do it, has finally obtained the perfect love of Brother Jing, and the gentle and virtuous Mu Nianci can only live alone in the shadow of Yang Kang! Isn't Mu Nianci good enough? No, Mu Nianci is very filial and kind! Was it fate, or did Mr. Jin Yong already see through everything with superhuman wisdom and design this game?
Love: How should a woman be "bad" before a man falls in love?
In the contemporary entertainment industry, it seems that the "jade girl" has not been popular, but the "desired woman" and "evil woman" can call the wind and rain, all the way to flowers and songs. In fact, the problem is still in myself. So-called "good" women tend to be better at or used to waiting than being proactive or afraid to watch men get picked out by "bad" women. The pursuit of love does not queue up, this is an era of competition, if you are too polite, then sorry, early birds have worms to eat!
Psychologists have found that people can be divided into many kinds, but there is one kind of person who has a unique "happy personality". They always get the moon first, and many seemingly "bad" women in life often have this "happy personality", positive, enthusiastic, strong, dare to love and hate, witty, open-minded, of course, they also love themselves, even selfish.