My daughter, from the age of 25 to the age of 30, has succeeded and unsuccessful, probably to talk about it.
1, don't have too much hope for blind dates, and don't start doubting yourself when you are rejected. Now it is very good to be able to become one of the ten people on a blind date, I have a girl around me who can't necessarily become one of thirty blind dates a year, most of the time either you can't look at each other or the other party can't look up to you, or you can't look at each other, and there are very few who can meet each other and like each other. Especially as you get older, the conditions of the blind dates introduced are not necessarily worse, but the sincerity is indeed getting less and less, and many people are in a state that can be talked about, so girls want to let the blind date man have more heart and like you, or dispel this idea as soon as possible. Maybe he will like you in the future, but at first don't get too much hope, after all, you haven't experienced anything, but two strangers are suddenly pulled together!
2, blind date if each other feel more satisfied, do not think that this matter has become, I have the privilege of dating two men, met down to express satisfaction, some even met several times, each other expressed good feelings, and finally for no reason a sentence inappropriate ended. There are two reasons for this point that I analyze: one is that the other party may still be dating others at the same time as you are dating, and when you see you, you may be moved, but when you meet better or more suitable for him, you will definitely have to say goodbye to you; second, I feel that the boys now consider more and farther, such as the conditions for their own love (whether it is economic conditions or time conditions), but the family is tight, out of coping with the family to come out on a blind date, you are indeed the type that he likes, and has the impulse of feelings. But then after calming down and thinking about it carefully, I realized that my conditions were limited, so I simply refused.
3, blind date can meet first, the best to meet first. In fact, this is the fastest way, there is no need to chat for half a month or a month to meet, sometimes the Internet chat is good, but meet to find that the other party does not look like their favorite type, the rejected party will be more uncomfortable (not suitable for scumbags and scumbags type). Therefore, if you meet first or meet quickly, there will be no burden in this regard!
4, blind date is plain is fast food, see a few times almost understand after the relationship to determine, if a person and you have met many times, are a month or two have not yet established a relationship with you, then this person is mostly in fish farming. You must quickly judge this possibility and quickly cut through the mess, otherwise you will be dragged by the other party for longer and longer and lose other opportunities.
5, since they have all come to the step of blind date, some conditions should be appropriately relaxed. For example, you used to like rich and handsome, non-rich handsome do not look for, now you should only focus on one point to see, other conditions must be lowered. For example, for "handsome", this point can not be abandoned. Then you have to be prepared that he may not have any money, or have any bad habits; for example, if you value "rich", then you must accept that he may not be tall, average-looking, or even ugly. Blind dates are definitely a picture, but only one you need most, don't think about everything. Aren't people who really have all the conditions also sought-after goods? What conditions do you have to make people like you?
6, when you encounter something you really like to talk about, I sincerely hope that everyone can try to let go and chase, put out their sincerity, and leave the rest to the other party to make decisions. Don't be afraid to show your sincerity, especially girls, don't feel that your initiative is a bargain, and the pursuit of your own happiness is not shameful. Don't believe what online affection is licking the dog, but affection can not have no bottom line, like a person, you did what you should do, you tried your best, if the other party is still indifferent, then you should retreat. I like you, you have spent time for you, but you still can't accept me, so I should think for myself.
Harm, wrote so much, I am still a single dog ~
