When faced with love, women will have some ideas of their own. The more she cares about a man in her heart, the more women hope that the man really loves her, even if he encounters some contradictions and differences, men will not easily leave.
When the opposite sex gets along, women are often very sensitive, even if it is a little thing, women will often wonder whether men are sincere or not. A man's words, a behavior, it is easy to make women insecure. If the heart can not get the most basic satisfaction, the woman's heart will naturally be anxious, will want to see through the man's mind.
Women will feel this way, as Bouchot puts it: "The bud of love is the end of wisdom." ”
Once love arises in the heart, it is difficult for women to remain sane and calm as before. Love will affect women's thoughts, will make women think wildly, and will make women anxious.
When two people are together, some women will also use some ways to test men's minds to understand what men think about the relationship between the two. It's just that some women's temptations are more obvious, and it is easy to be seen through by men, even if men are not so loving, they will deliberately behave well in front of women.
Smart women, who want to understand men's minds, do not use some deliberate ways to test men, but know how to observe quietly. In a man's words and deeds, a woman can know whether a man is sincere or false.
Boccaccio said, "True love inspires, awakens the sleeping strength and hidden talents within him." ”
Women should understand that once a man moves the truth, he will take the initiative to do these things for you, and he can't be wrong.
01 He will take the initiative to change your shortcomings for you and make your relationship more harmonious.
Tennyson said: "Love is buried in the depths of the heart, not between the lips." ”
The biggest difference between whether a man loves you or not is whether his love for you is in his mouth or in his heart.
If he does not love you, he will often deliberately show a look of love for you, for him, naturally he will choose the simplest and most direct way, that is, to use sweet words to confuse you and use routines to deceive you. If a woman easily believes in a man, the end will definitely be hurt and suffer this pain.
If he really loves you, he will naturally not count you in this way. What he wants to do is to love you well and bring you the greatest happiness in his own way.
He's thinking about not just your life in the moment, but also your future, and for that, he'll care a lot about your feelings. If you put forward some dissatisfaction with him, although he will not say anything more, he will definitely keep it in mind, and then silently change his shortcomings and try to show his best side in front of you.
A man's willingness to do these things for you means that he has a real feeling for you.
02 He will take the initiative to help you, many things do not need you to open your mouth, he can observe it himself.
When two people are getting along, when they need help, if they need to take the initiative to open their mouths every time, they will be disappointed if they have more times. After all, for two people who love each other, many times there should be such a tacit understanding, knowing that when the other party needs help, they will take the initiative to help, rather than necessarily the other party to open their mouths.
Especially for women, they already feel that in love, men should take the initiative to observe and guess their minds. If everything needs to be opened, such love is easy to tire.
La Roche Fuucco said: "The joy of love is in love, and enjoying love is happier than evoking love." ”
If a man is in love, he knows more about cherishing than when pursuing women, and is more willing to spend his mind for women, which means that he is moved by true feelings and wants to protect his love well.
Such a man will definitely guess your mind, and many times will take the initiative to help you, rather than waiting until you open your mouth to ask for it.
03 Will introduce your family and friends to you and let you integrate into his life.
In our hearts, in addition to love, family and friends are the most important people in our hearts. In particular, our family, whether in life or in our hearts, occupies a very important position that no one can replace.
When we meet a person we love very much, as long as we identify this person, we will naturally want to introduce him to our family, let him integrate into our lives, and become a part of our lives.
The same is naturally true for men, who generally don't introduce women to family and friends if they just have a playful attitude towards relationships. Because in men's hearts, they are always measuring the weight of women, and once they want to leave, they will resolutely bring it up, and there will be no other places to consider.
As long as the man moves the truth and identifies a woman, the man will be eager to introduce the woman to his friends and family, hoping that they can identify their feelings, so as to lay a good foundation for the future of the two.
Liszt said: "Love can reduce a woman's weakness and increase a man's courage." ”
Once a man moves the truth, he will naturally have a lot of courage for love. He will take the initiative to pay for the woman, to overcome all the difficulties on the road of feelings, and will also take the initiative to let the woman integrate into his life.
These performances of men, women must know how to observe, and use this to judge men's sincerity.