Lin Jiaoshuang, as the first white lotus in the early stage of the plot of "Know It or Not", many people in this role hate her.
The reason why Lin Yanshuang is hated is mainly because of the three points. First, take the initiative to make a concubine for Sheng Xuan. Although in that era, it was normal to be a concubine, and it could not be said that she was a little third, but she disregarded the grace of Mrs. Sheng's upbringing, hooked up with Sheng Xuan, and entered the room, which was indeed annoying; second, she was a white lotus flower, the best at playing the emotional card, she dressed up as weak at every turn, obviously took advantage, and pretended to be bullied and miserable, so that people would be angry when they looked at it. Third, she is self-righteous, a person who will stop at nothing to achieve her goals, in order to let her daughter Sheng Molan marry high, she does not hesitate to use the reputation of the Sheng family as a threat, forcing the Sheng family to fulfill the dirty thoughts of their mother and daughter, and also fiercely and fiercely, killing Wei Xiaoniang.
In fact, Lin Yanshuang has the opportunity to live a very good life, Sheng Xuan treats her not thinly, as long as she keeps to herself, does not pretentiously, looks up to herself and her daughter too much, and lives a down-to-earth life, waiting until her son Sheng Changfeng has a meritorious name, there must be her good life, unfortunately, Lin Xiaoshuang's biggest shortcoming is that she has no self-awareness.
01. Lin Jiaoshuang's concubinage to Sheng Xuan was not a wrong decision, and she won a good life for herself;
Why did Lin Jiaoshuang have to make a concubine for Sheng Shao? You know, once a woman becomes a concubine, she can't lift her head for a lifetime, not only is she not qualified to attend the big scene, but even her children will become out of the house, looked down upon by others, and talk about marriage and marriage will be greatly affected.
In fact, Lin Wanshuang's concubinage for Sheng Xuan was not a wrong decision, her purpose was very simple, that is, to live a good life.
The reason why Lin Xianshuang was willing to make a concubine for Sheng Xuan was because of three points.
First, Lin Yanshuang was poor and afraid, knew the importance of money, and was unwilling to continue to live a hard life.
"You're older, it's time to understand. ...... The old lady is good at everything, that is, there is the same, the old likes to talk about what 'easy to ask for priceless treasures rare to have lovers', the so-called poor couple Pepsi lament, the old lady is a Lady from the Houfu, and she does not know the suffering of the poor family outside. A twin a month, but six or seven buckets of rice and one or two pieces of money only, our house's head of the moon silver have eight silver, this jacket on your body alone is worth fifty or sixty two, the silver wire charcoal burned in your hand stove to two or two stripes of silver a pound, plus what you eat and wear every day, how many twins to afford? ”
Second, Lin Yanshuang believes that whether a man's character is good or not has nothing to do with whether he has money or not, and marrying a poor student does not necessarily have a good life.
Third, Lin Yanshuang's concept of mate selection is very clear, that is, to find a man who can shield the family from the wind and rain and not let her and her children be afraid, as for whether to be a concubine, it does not matter.
"A woman's life is not dependent on a man, a man is a nest, no matter how strong a woman can not stand up straight, then I thought, no matter how big or small, the husband must be outstanding, serious, talented, able to shelter the family from the wind and rain ... With your father, although he is a concubine, he does not have to be afraid, at least he can have a peaceful life to live, and his children have a dependence. ”
I have to say that although Lin Jiaoshuang is not a good person, he is sober-minded and his view of choosing a mate is also right. Whether it is an ancient woman or a modern woman, when choosing a mate, you also need to pay attention to the ability and character of men.
Lin Jiaoshuang chose to make a concubine for Sheng Shao, in fact, the bet was right, after following Sheng Shao, her life was very moist.
First of all, although she was a concubine, Sheng Xuan had feelings and righteousness for her, and would protect her and not let the main mother, King Ruofu, harass her. Secondly, Sheng Shao, as a shuzi, knew the pain of her children, and had a heart for Lin Xishuang's children, gave Lin Xishuang the property, and gave Lin Xishuang the right to raise children; in the end, Sheng Shao loved Wu and Wu, and was very fond of the children born to Lin Jiaoshuang, and sincerely considered the future and marriage for her children, so that the three of them could live a very comfortable life.
That is to say, Lin Jiaoshuang's purpose with Sheng Shao at the beginning was very simple, that is, he was poor and afraid, he did not want to live a hard life, and he wanted to find a man who could shield him and his children from the wind and rain, and live a comfortable and comfortable life.
Lin Wanshuang's purpose has been achieved, if she remembers her original intention, knows how to cherish blessings, knows how to receive good things when she sees them, remembers the truth that contented people are always happy, does her duty, and honestly raises her children, she can keep the happiness of a lifetime, even if Sheng Xuan dies, she also has a son leaning over, just like Sheng Shao's other concubine, Aunt Xiang, who is not favored at all, but after her son Sheng Changdong grows up, Aunt Xiang is also bitter and has a good ending.
However, Lin Wanshuang's biggest drawback is that he has no self-awareness and takes himself and his daughter Sheng Molan too seriously.
02. Without self-awareness, she overestimated herself and her daughter and underestimated Sheng Xuan's desperation.
First of all, Lin Yanshuang was not self-aware and overestimated his own ability.
Lin Yanshuang thought that she had a very high position in Sheng Shao's heart, and even the master mother, King Ruofu, could not pay attention to it, as long as she blew the pillow side wind, there was nothing she did not want. Therefore, for her own interests, she did not blow the pillow side wind with Sheng Shao, guan Sheng Shao wanted industry, wanted silver, and encouraged Sheng Shao to seek better relatives for Sheng Molan than Sheng Hualan.
However, no matter how much a man loves you, he will also be bored by your endless desires and will also feel dissatisfied. Under The click of Grandma Kong, Sheng Shao also realized the false face of Lin Qishuang and was no longer as conniving as before for Lin Qishuang, on the contrary, the more Lin Qiaoshuang wanted, the more Sheng Xuan felt that she was insatiable and dissatisfied.
Lin Wanshuang successfully ascended to the throne, seized the favor of Sheng Xuan, and overwhelmed the main mother, Wang Ruofu, who thought that his concubine tricks were very useful and a magic weapon for victory, and instilled them all in his daughter Sheng Molan.
The problem was that her tricks could be used as concubines, after all, the concubines were fed by the favor of men, but for the housewife, it was far from enough, and her daughter Sheng Molan could not be a concubine.
Sheng Molan used the tricks that only the concubine would use to make a proper wife, and it was strange that he could succeed.
Secondly, Lin Mishuang overestimated the ability of his daughter Sheng Molan and drew an unattainable pie for Sheng Molan.
"Child, don't listen to your father, he's a big old man, he doesn't know the twists and turns of the inner house." If you are not as good as Lan in terms of birth, but your appearance is not ten times stronger than her, the same father, why do you have to submit to her in the future? If you don't fight for the strong yourself, which round of good will get you?! Don't you want to spend a lifetime like Rancha? ”
Lin Wanshuang's greatest expectation for Sheng Molan was to marry better than the two concubines produced by Wang Ruofu, not only to surpass Sheng Rulan, but also to surpass Sheng Hualan, so she instigated Sheng Molan to approach Qi Heng and try to climb up to the Qi Principality.
Even Wang Ruofu knew that the lord of Pingning County would not look up to the Sheng family, but Lin Yanshuang thought that Sheng Molan, who was out of the country, was worthy of the prince of the Principality of Qi, so why did he not have self-awareness?
In the end, Lin Yanshuang underestimated the man's desperation.
What kind of person is Sheng Xuan? In the original work, Sheng Changfeng's daughter-in-law pointed out to the point: "Aunt Lin, to this day, don't you understand why you were expelled from the house?" Xiang Gong is actually a kind of person in his bones and father-in-law, and what they value most is neither a virtuous wife nor a concubine, but themselves. Father-in-law wants to shine on the door, you are in his way, naturally you have to let go; Xianggong, he likes to chant the wind and the moon, and live a carefree life. ”
Sheng Shao's goal has always been one, that is, to shine the mendi, revitalize the Sheng family, and make the Sheng family a kind of Qingliu family that cannot stand no matter how many emperors are changed. Whoever dares to obstruct his way, he will be rude to whom, not guest, Lin Tuoshuang hindered his way, almost ruined the reputation of the Sheng family, he naturally will not be kind to Lin Tuoshuang.
If Lin Jiaoshuang keeps to herself, the contented one is always happy, and lives a down-to-earth life, no one can shake her position in the Sheng family, but unfortunately, she is insatiable and has no self-awareness, harming herself and harming her daughter Sheng Molan.
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