In the original work of "Knowing or Not", Sheng Hualan once commented on Kang Yun'er, saying that she was a white phoenix flying out of the black crow's nest.
"I just pity Yun'er's cousin, over the years, she has pitied the old and the weak, given porridge and rice, and did not do less good deeds." alas... A white phoenix flew out of the black crow's nest, what's going on..."
Indeed, Kang Yun'er is a good bamboo shoot, and she was originally a good girl.
Kang Yun'er's father, Kang Haifeng, was a concubine of the Kang family, but his character was very poor, not only did he have average earning ability, he ate soft rice hard, he had to rely on the dowry of his wife Aunt Kang to maintain the operation of a large family, and he was lustful and immoral, took in a large number of concubines, gave birth to a room full of sons and daughters, and only cared about birth and maintenance. If kang zhao'er, a concubine, walked up to him, he would not necessarily recognize it as his own daughter.
Kang Yun'er's mother, Aunt Kang, needless to say, but anyone who has watched "Know It or Not", whether it is a fan of the play or a fan of the original, has no good impression of it. Aunt Kang was vicious and vicious, fierce in heart, and regarded people's lives as grass and mustard, and she could not see that anyone was better off than her, and even her own sister Wang Shi was harmed.
With such parents, Kang Yun'er is knowledgeable and kind-hearted, and has done a lot of good things, which can also be regarded as coming out of the mud without staining.
However, Kang Yun'er had a fatal weakness and ruined his life, that is, he was unclear and foolish, and in order to save his heinous and hopeless mother, Aunt Kang, did many wrong things, completely chilled the hearts of her in-laws and husbands, and buried her happiness with her own hands.
01. Mrs. Sheng personally acted as a matchmaker, married Sheng Changwu, and Kang Yun'er lived a good life for a while;
Originally, Aunt Kang planned to give her daughter Xu to sheng changbai, the son of her sister Wang, as a wife, and the Wang clan also agreed, wanting Sheng Changbai to be with Kang Yun'er, but was opposed by Sheng Xuan and Old Lady Sheng.
Sheng Shao knew very well what kind of goods the Kang family was, Uncle Kang was lustful and virtuous, did not have much career, Aunt Kang was fierce, and marrying such a family would not only be of no benefit to the future of Sheng Changbai, but also drag down the entire Sheng family, so they asked Sheng Changbai to marry a noble daughter of the Hai clan.
In order to give the Wang family a face, Mrs. Sheng personally acted as a matchmaker and gave Kang Yun'er to Sheng Changwu as a wife.
Sheng Changwu is the second son of Yu Yangsheng's parents, and he is really a good match. How good is this marriage?
First of all, when a woman marries, she must pay attention to the character of the man's parents, otherwise, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is enough for you to drink a pot. For example, after Sheng Hualan got married, he was bullied by the evil mother-in-law.
Sheng Wei and Li Shi were kind, because Changfang had made trouble with spoiling concubines and destroying wives, almost ruining the entire family, so they were very disgusted with the concubine room and would not indiscriminately give their sons Cypriots. For example, Sheng Changwu's sister-in-law did not come out for many years after entering the door, and Li's mother-in-law did not think of giving her son a concubine.
When Sheng Changwu married Kang Yun'er, he was already 20 years old, and in ancient times, he was a proper older leftover man, but after marriage, there was not a single woman around him.
After Kang Yun'er got married, her in-laws were quite satisfied with her and gave her a generous meeting gift. Moreover, they did not leave Kang Yun'er to make rules, let her and her husband live in a different place, but let her go to the capital with her son, and the little two lived, there was no need to serve the in-laws, there was no need to make rules, and there was no need to worry about which woman had taken her place when she was gone.
In fact, Li Shi is not a mean mother-in-law, but she is afraid that Yun Er's official miss is born, without the in-laws clamping down on pampering, in the capital there is Wang Clan support will slight their sons, now think about it, turn around and call back the daughter-in-law. Yun Er was so happy that she almost burst into tears, but did not dare to show ten, only obediently listening to Li Shi's instructions on how to take care of her husband in the capital after interpersonal contact, and a few days later she went to Beijing with Changwu.
Secondly, although the Sheng family is a merchant family, its status is not high, and Kang Yun'er is the eldest daughter of the official eunuch family and is married, but in terms of economic conditions, Kang Yun'er is definitely not bad at marriage.
After asking for peace, PinLan secretly told Minglan that the dowry that Kang Yun'er had accompanied was not as much as when Shulan married Sun Xiucai, and Minglan took a look at Pinlan who had no intention of doing so--it seems that the Kang family is really a bit down, no wonder the parents are yun'er from the family, but Sai Weng lost his horse and knew that it was not blessed, seeing that the eldest sister-in-law Wen Shi had not been out for several years and the in-laws and husbands-in-law still had a lot of maintenance, Yun Er was also blessed.
Sheng Changwu only has two sons, even if the family is separated, Sheng Changwu can also inherit a large amount of family property, enough for them to have no worries about food and clothing for a lifetime, not to mention, Sheng Changwu is not the kind of man who is not contentious, he himself is also a self-motivated, promising young man.
In the end, Sheng Changwu has good character, loves Kang Yun'er, and cherishes marriage.
Let's take one thing! In order to add to Sheng Minglan's blockade, Aunt Kang left her daughter Kang Zhao'er in the Marquis of Ningyuan and made a concubine for Gu Tingye, angering Old Lady Sheng.
In order to give Sheng Minglan a blow, Mrs. Sheng wrote a letter to Sheng Wei Li. Old Lady Sheng has a great favor for Sheng's parents, and if it were not for her full support, Old Lady Shengda would not be able to revive the family business, so in order to help Old Lady Sheng, Sheng Wei Li called Kang Yun'er back to her hometown and separated her from her husband, which was a warning to Aunt Kang.
Kang Yun'er did not dare to disobey her in-laws, so she had to leave her husband and children and return to her hometown. Although Sheng Changwu was dissatisfied with what his mother-in-law had done, he still liked Kang Yun'er, so with Sheng Changwu's efforts, Kang Yun'er quickly returned to his side.
Later, Kang Yun'er did a lot of stupid things for his mother, and Sheng Changwu also tried to save it as much as possible, refusing to raise his wife and wanting to give Kang Yun'er another chance, but Kang Yun'er was also too angry.
02. No matter how good the in-laws and men are, they can't tolerate Kang Yun'er's daughter-in-law who died like this.
Aunt Kang murdered Mrs. Sheng, and with the efforts of Sheng Changbai and Sheng Minglan, Aunt Kang was eventually brought to justice and imprisoned in the Prudential Discipline Division, never to be seen again.
Kang Yun'er obviously knew that her mother's evil deeds were unforgivable, she knew that Old Lady Sheng had great kindness to her in-laws, and she knew that she could not save her mother, but she had done too many stupid things in order to fulfill her filial piety.
Ignoring Mrs. Sheng's kindness in matching her marriage, she morally kidnapped Mrs. Sheng, and when Mrs. Sheng returned to her hometown for the New Year, she knelt at the door of Shou'an Hall and tried to force Mrs. Sheng to forgive the people who almost killed her.
"You should also be satisfied, my great uncle and great aunt have treated you kindly enough, although they are angry in their hearts, but they have never been angry with you, think of Yuan'er, her in-laws are still our sister-in-law's uncles and aunts!" You are good, you have to go to visit your mother, and suddenly you are pestering the old lady Yuan Yu - the old lady rarely returns to Beijing, and you kneel at the door of Shou'an Hall in the New Year and cry and beg, as obscure as possible! ”
Disregarding the interests of her in-laws, she actually pierced her finger and wrote a blood letter, trying to send it to Sheng Minglan and begging Gu Tingye to save her mother.
"The cousin of the Kang family told her to be annoyed, so she said, 'If you want to release people from the Prudential Commandment Division, you can't do anything unless you are the Marquis of the Gu family, it is better for the sister-in-law to ask Lady Gu Hou', and the cousin actually pierced her finger and wrote a blood letter to send to Shudi. Fortunately, the housekeeper who stayed in the capital by the great aunt was clever and stopped, and the news spread back to Yuyang's hometown, which frightened the uncle enough. If this letter is really sent out, the sixth sister will still be gone, and the brother-in-law will still think that this is the meaning of the Changwu brothers! ”
Regardless of her children's future, she took her children to visit Aunt Kang, and with Aunt Kang's urine nature, she naturally would not say good things about the Sheng family to her granddaughter, but would only instill hatred in Kang Yun'er's children.
"Not to mention our old lady's kindness to the big house, in the final analysis, the hall house is a merchant's family, only one Wu Second Master is out of the army, or a military attaché." But what about our family, Wen's, Wu's, how many? In this generation, our two rooms are still as close as a family, but then call Wu'er's grandmother to go on like this, from time to time with the child to the Prudential Discipline Division to meet the suffering grandmother of the Kang family, teach by example, after the brothers and sisters are older, they do not secretly remember what to hate! ”
Once the children are taught by Aunt Kang to be bad and hate the Sheng family, will her children still have a future? Can the Sheng family tolerate them? However, Kang Yun'er patronized filial piety, but she was not a qualified mother, and even her own children were harmed.
In order to fulfill filial piety, regardless of the interests of the in-laws, even the future of the children does not care, even the kindest in-laws and the best men, can not tolerate such a daughter-in-law.
In the end, Kang Yun'er completely lost the heart of her husband Sheng Changwu, lost the custody of her children, and was no longer welcomed in the Sheng family.
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