First of all, let's understand the family background of the love enemy of Wang Andrin.
Born in Gaomen, the Wang family is the younger daughter of the Lanxi Wang family, and her father is a generation of heroes, who are famous all over the world and deserve to enjoy the Taimiao Temple.
This grandfather of the Wang family was one of the few able officials who had a good death, after three dynasties, he was low-key and calm, no matter whether he rose or fell, he was honored and humiliated, no matter which emperor he served, even if he had a heart knot at the beginning, he finally had to appreciate and reuse, which was called a generation of masters.
Wang's mother was commanded to add to her body, and the Lanxi Wang family was famous outside, although Wang's brother's ability was far inferior to his father's, but he could still rely on the aura of his ancestors to become an official.
When Wang was four or five years old, his father needed to go to a foreign post, and Mrs. Wang accompanied him, so it was inconvenient to take the newborn daughter, so he handed the daughter over to the younger brother of Mrs. Wang's family. The uncle and aunt loved the Wang clan very much, responded to his needs, and did not restrain him, so that the Wang clan developed a rampage, heartless nature, and had not read several books.
When Wang was ten years old, she was taken home by her parents, and Mrs. Wang felt guilty about this daughter and did not ask too much. After staying with his parents for a long time, the Wang family should get married.
At this time, Sheng Xuan, who had obtained a meritorious name but had an inconspicuous family lineage, and Uncle Kang, the son of an official eunuch, came to the Wang family to ask for relatives, and Wang and his sister Kang's aunt picked a husband, and Kang's aunt took a fancy to Kang's father and had to marry him, but at first, the Wang family did not look up to Sheng Shao and refused to let the Sheng family's lintel be too low.
"It is difficult to say whether the world is good or bad, I have felt inferior to my sister since I was a child, and when I came out of the cabinet, her husband-in-law was also higher than mine, and I also made a big fuss, and I was almost put on the family law by my father; at that time, my mother said to me, the Sheng family population is simple, the mother-in-law is not pro, she will not take the shelf to entertain the daughter-in-law, the husband is a self-motivated, but if there is some help, there will be a good life in the future, as long as I am a daughter-in-law; and although the brother-in-law has a noble family and good learning, he has no responsibility for people. It is a male brother, and the mother does not like it, because it is the old lady of the Kang family who has a very thick friendship with her father to make a family. Now that I think about it, my mother really said a good word. ”
Eventually, Wang married Sheng Xuan.
As for Lin Jiaoshuang, she was originally also a lady of the official eunuch family, and she lived a life of fine clothes and jade food. However, when Lin Mishuang was young, his father committed a crime, although he was not raided, but the family also fell, not long after his father died, Lin Mishuang's mother also died.
Lin Wanshuang's mother and Mrs. Sheng had met in the boudoir, and before their death, they entrusted their daughter Lin Wanshuang to Mrs. Sheng, hoping that Mrs. Sheng would shelter Lin Wanshuang. Old Lady Sheng was a bodhisattva, and naturally agreed.
Originally, Lin Yanshuang was raised under the knee of Mrs. Sheng, and was taken care of by Mrs. Sheng as her own daughter, who ate and wore all the food and clothing, and was also ready to give her a look at her in-laws and let her marry well.
However, due to the hardships, compared to the so-called easy to ask for priceless treasures and rare lovers, she believed more in money, preferring to make a concubine for Sheng Xuan, rather than marrying an ordinary person as a proper wife according to the arrangement of Mrs. Sheng.
In fact, before Wang Shi just entered the door and Sheng Xuan and Lin Wanshuang had an affair, the relationship between Wang Shi and Sheng Shao was quite harmonious.
When Sheng Changfeng was happy to have a beloved daughter, Wang Shi was not satisfied that everyone's attention was snatched away by Sheng Changfeng, and when people around her comforted her, she mentioned that Sheng Hualan was born at the time when her parents had the best feelings, and she was Sheng Xuan's most beloved daughter, even Sheng Molan was not comparable. Sheng Xuan was reluctant to give up his newborn daughter and carried her to the public office.
So, what did the Gaomen Gui Queen Clan do to cause herself to be suppressed by Lin Yanshuang? It is true that Sheng Xuan's pet concubines destroyed their wives, but the Wang clan really did not manage marriages and stepped on many pits.
First of all, she failed to fulfill her duty as a daughter-in-law and did not honor her mother-in-law, resulting in her failure to get the help of Mrs. Sheng;
In the era when "Know It or Not", serving the mother-in-law was even more important than taking care of the husband. The mother-in-law has absolute authority over the daughter-in-law, no matter how difficult the daughter-in-law is, let the daughter-in-law stand in the rules, take away the grandchildren and raise, the daughter-in-law can not resist, otherwise it is easy to be tied to a hat of filial piety.
Mrs. Sheng was a generous person, and she was not Sheng Shao's mother-in-law, so naturally she would not treat her daughter-in-law harshly, so she did not have any requirements for the Wang family. Wang Clan grew up free and accustomed, seeing that Mrs. Sheng did not ask for it, she also pushed the boat along the water, regardless of the things that Mrs. Sheng was doing, and was at ease.
"Don't worry, mrs., listen to me slowly. The old lady said, when you are a daughter-in-law, do not make rules in front of your mother-in-law, do not say that the morning and dusk are fixed, you only go three or two times a month, and each time you go is also a cold face, and you can't say a few words. The mother-in-law's food, clothing, and housing are all self-care, you don't have to worry about Zhang Luo, which is a big filial piety to say it; Mrs. You have a hundred reasons for the old man, only this one you have no mouth, isn't it. No matter how cold the old lady is and does not like to be disturbed by others, you must always do your filial piety. ”
Wang Shi did not have the slightest appearance as a daughter-in-law, and Old Lady Sheng was uncomfortable in her heart, although she would not be embarrassed, but she did not bother to deal with her. When Wang and Sheng Shao quarreled, as soon as Sheng Shao talked about her unfilial behavior, Wang Shi was speechless.
Secondly, the Wang clan is too strong, wants to grasp inside and outside, interferes too much in Shengsuo's affairs, and always makes mistakes;
After the Wang family got married, they were too strong, wanted to grasp inside and out, not only to manage the affairs of the inner house, but also to manage Shengxuan's silver money and personnel exchanges, interfering too much, Shengxuan would naturally feel suffocated and dissatisfied with her.
In addition, Wang Clan is still a very confused person, even if things are confused, they do not listen to advice, if it were not for Sheng Xuan and Old Lady Sheng, she would not have known how many problems had occurred, and the Sheng family had been miserable.
"Sister, listen to my sister' words." When you go back to your brother-in-law to go outside, you must keep your duty and don't point fingers at official affairs. At that time, you were still young, I don't know, my mother suffered a big loss on this, listened to people's good words, took advantage of others, and forced my father to do this and that. ”
What Sheng Xuan cared about most was not Lin Xishuang, but the future of himself and the Sheng family. Whoever obstructed his future with the Sheng family would be rejected by him.
In the end, the Wang family always used their family lineage to suppress Shengxuan, so that Shengxuan, who wanted face, could not tolerate it.
Mrs. This first mistake is that the life is too smooth, it is inevitable that the arrogance is forgetful, you have to manage the internal affairs and the foreign affairs, the old man's silver personnel you all have to be the master, Su Ri acts and says one thing, open and close your mouth is how the wang family is how the old lady and uncle are, this is called how comfortable the old man is in his heart? Men who don't like women to do small low, who don't want a gentle and hearty aunt, the old man is not a useless man, who outside does not say that our grandfather has a great future, Mrs. You once or twice to the face of the old man, from time to time under the face of the old man, how does the old man intimate with you, how not to afford the outside heart?
Women should remember that if you choose to marry low, do not look down on your in-laws and talk about your mother-in-law's affairs at every turn. Men love face and want their women to give face.
If Wang Shi did not make mistakes when running the marriage, Lin Wanshuang would not have a chance, so in the end, she herself did not know how to manage marriage and harmed herself.
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