We often have such a person around us: they can't live their own lives well, and they can't see others well. So either find something for yourself or something for someone else. For such people, the heart should be hard

We often have such a person around us: they can't live their own lives well, and they can't see others well.

So either find something for yourself or something for someone else.

For such people, the heart should be a little harder, but also a little fierce, and we must stay away.

After reading such a small story, I was quite touched.

Two people met on a narrow bridge.

One man said arrogantly, "I never give way to dogs." ”

The other stepped aside with a smile and said, "And I'm the opposite." ”

This is not instigation, but understanding that not pestering is not cowardice, but a kind of wisdom.

It's like Lincoln said:

Instead of arguing with the dog and getting bitten by it, let it go first. Otherwise, even if you slaughter it, you won't be able to cure your bite scar.

Tangling with rotten people will only affect your mood and consume your time.

There is a saying that goes: If you want to become a tree, don't fight with the grass; the general has a sword, and he doesn't cut down ants.

For rotten people and bad things, staying away is the fiercest counterattack against them, more powerful than an outbreak.

Middle age is not easy, there are old and young, we are busy taking care of everyone, but often forget ourselves.

Daily triviality, it is easy to wear down the enthusiasm of moving forward, unconsciously out of shape, described as haggard...

However, there is a kind of person, the more this is the case, the more silently they are cruel to themselves.

Writer Li Xiaoyi is famous for being cruel to himself.

At the age of 36, she still did not forget the literary dream in her heart and began to write;

At the age of 37, he became the champion of the annual bestseller and received millions of royalties;

38 years old, set up his own cultural company;

At the age of 41, he became a producer and host.

Netizens are curious about how she completed the identity transformation in a short period of time and achieved great achievements.

In her own words, she replied, "Those guys who look pretty, who do well, who live beautifully, who think beautifully, are cruel characters." ”

It is with this fierceness towards himself that Li Xiaoyi insists on getting up at 4:45 every morning to write, completing 2500 words without interruption;

She rests at 10 o'clock every night without moving; she is also good at using fragmented time to read a lot of books to improve herself.

At the age of 43, she practices jazz dance for 4 hours every Sunday from 8 a.m. to 12 p.m.

She is beautiful and loves beauty, does not relax for a moment, and is always radiant in the face of the world.

People who are cruel enough to themselves are always particularly dazzling, and it is easier to get the favor of fate.

In the 2022 cross-Chinese New Year's Eve, Luo Zhenyu came with the "Friend of Time" New Year's Eve speech as promised.

Although there was no audience under the stage this time because of the epidemic prevention and control, he still spoke enthusiastically for 4 hours in the face of the empty live broadcast venue.

As many people know, Luo Zhenyu regularly releases a 60-second voice every morning and gives a New Year's Eve speech once a year.

When asked: "Don't you feel tired when you force yourself so hard that you are almost perverted?" ”

Luo Zhenyu only replied lightly: "I don't feel tired, I'm just afraid that I don't have enough time." ”

He felt that after forty years, he could especially feel the urgency of time, so he wanted to work harder and force out his potential, so that when he looked back on his life in the future, he would not regret it too much.

Middle-aged people who have suffered a lot from life are just dead with themselves again and again.

Life is half a slope, career and family are shouldered, and everyone's energy and time are limited.

A lot of times you don't have a good time because you're not being tough enough with yourself.

If you want to be healthy, don't lie flat every day; if you want to be beautiful, don't overeat; if you want to live well in the second half of your life, don't get by.

Push yourself hard to change the second half of your life without regrets.

Confucius said, thirty stands, forty is not confused.

When people reach middle age, they have just reached the halfway point of life, time has not aged, and this life is not yet over.

Middle-aged people are the pillar of the family, the dependence of parents, the arms of children, and the master of their own.

You have to be tough, and life will take you lighter.

May you not linger on what you should give up, and do not hesitate to insist.

For the rest of my life, I lived a steaming life and rejoiced freely.