After middle age, true happiness
01
There is a word called thirty and standing, forty not confused.
Thirty years old is the time when people are in their prime.
Thirty to forty, this decade is also a stage in which a person gradually enters middle age.
People who have entered the middle age stage have enjoyed the beauty of youth and are hovering at the crossroads of old age.
So what is true happiness for them?
For young children, their happiness is probably that the teacher does not assign homework after school.
Or, after returning home, I opened the teapot and found that my grandmother had boiled two tea eggs for herself;
The tea soup was steaming hot and making a grunting sound.
The air is also filled with the smell of happiness.
For the white-haired elderly, things that make them feel happy;
Presumably, the children and grandchildren came back to visit themselves during the holidays.
Especially, when the Family is reunited in the New Year;
Listening to the song on the TV that often comes home to see, the son who has worked outside for a year has returned home.
Everyone was busy Chinese New Year's Eve meal, and the table was steaming hot.
For the elderly, this is true happiness.
For those who enter middle age, they are the pillar of the family.
There are elderly people who need to be cared for, and children who need to go to school to accompany them.
They also have times when they are tired;
If they feel tired, someone can give them a little warmth.
As in the cold wind, a cotton coat is sent; the dark night illuminates the world.
For middle-aged people, this is probably real happiness.
02
Some people love, some people understand
After middle age, people have to be busy working every day, and overtime until the early morning is a common thing.
They also have to face all kinds of torture that life gives.
For those drivers, they almost didn't close their eyes twenty-four hours a day.
Eating and sleeping, all in the car.
Sometimes, you may not be able to eat a meal for a day, and you will also face some criticism from picky customers.
And for those who work in office buildings;
The working environment may be equivalent to a slightly better driver.
However, their pressure is not less than anyone, the program design has been changed and changed, usually overtime until the night.
It can be said that after middle age, people are really tired.
At work, you have to face the difficulties of the guests, and when you return home, you have to smile and face your family.
In the eyes of their families, he is the pillar of this family, so he cannot fall.
However, there are always times when people are tired.
He also wanted to have something to rely on when he was tired.
If, at this time, there is someone who understands him, loves him, understands his troubles at work;
Knowing his exhaustion, give him proper comfort and warmth.
This is true happiness for middle-aged people.
03
Give real help
In life, people will encounter all kinds of difficulties and all kinds of troubles.
Especially when your own relatives suddenly fall ill and are hospitalized and need surgery;
For poor families, it is indeed a big blow.
Some families, in the end, are forced to be helpless and can only use their houses as collateral.
Even, some families did not have surgery because they could not afford the operation.
These are for a middle-aged man, watching his parents have no way to do surgery because of money.
In his heart, he will also feel ashamed of his parents.
If someone can help him through this time, make a little help.
I believe that middle-aged people will be very grateful to him.
Icing on the cake, perhaps easy to forget;
However, sending charcoal in the snow will make people remember this kindness forever, especially for people who have entered middle age.
04
Live decent
Middle-aged people work overtime every day and stay up all night.
On the way home, if you see a light on the window of your home.
At this moment, he will feel warm inside.
Because this lamp is reserved for him.
When he returns home and sees that the table is a hot meal for him, he will feel warm in his heart.
Suddenly, it felt like all the pain I had suffered was worth it.
Middle-aged people, working so busy overtime every day is to make their families live better.
In order to give children a better education.
Always remember the phrase, don't let your child lose at the starting line.
It is more important for children to receive a good education.
A good school will benefit people for a lifetime; meeting a good teacher will benefit people a lot.
For the family, middle-aged people work hard to support a family.
They work hard so that they can help their parents when they are in a hurry.
Parents have worked hard all their lives, and they can also enjoy the joy of old age.
Instead, letting the parents work outside at such an old age can make the family live decently.
This is the real happiness of middle-aged people.
There are many meanings of happiness, and for people at each stage, the experience of happiness is different.
For middle-aged people, parents are alive and the children are healthy.
I was outside, working hard for this home, and on the way home, I could see a light that lit up for myself.
Back home, someone can understand themselves and love themselves;
You can have a reliance when you are tired, and maybe these are the real happiness of middle-aged people.
