Text/Flying Fish
Fate is really wonderful, you sometimes meet a person, think it is a kind of fate, but when you receive the other party's signal, mistakenly think that the other party wants to be with you, so you pay the initiative, want to contact each other more, and finally the other party chooses not yourself.
This is actually a fate. We often say that two people can be together is fate, can not be together, is the fate of no division.
Maybe we have all met the missed person at the right time, we take it seriously, or it is a void, so we have doubts about ourselves, suspect that we are not attractive, suspect that we are too ordinary to attract others.
In fact, you have to know, it's not that you're not good enough, it's just that you haven't met the right person, don't worry, the fate that really belongs to you will come sooner or later.
Fate is actually predestined, in the dark, the people you meet, the people you miss, in fact, are to let you meet the people who are really suitable for you, appreciate you, and only see you.
The wrong person will leave, in order to let you usher in the person for you, so even if you can't meet it temporarily, don't worry, take your time, be confident, and eventually you will meet the fate that really belongs to you.
Feelings are urgent, and they can't be forced. Meeting the right person at the right time is a very good fate, if not, we must also accept it calmly, the encounter is also very beautiful, but we are not suitable, does not mean that you are not excellent, does not mean that you do not have a shining point.
In fact, everyone has a shining point, but you have not yet met the person who can appreciate you, when we have experienced some emotional twists and turns, we will slowly release our nostalgia, learn to love ourselves, and stop letting ourselves be wronged in our feelings.
Zhou Nan in "Semi-Acquainted Lover", she came to this show, met Yu Yue, and later met Wang Yucheng, did not develop the relationship between men and women, in fact, not because Zhou Nan is not excellent, but they are not the right person.
In this show, only a few people, can not match is normal, so, do not rush, do not self-denial, learn to look a little open, a little self-confidence, before you meet the person who is really suitable for yourself, you first love yourself, first be beautiful alone, be the true self, be the best state of yourself, so that you can meet the person who really has a fate with you in the same state.
Encounters and fates are all arranged by Providence, good, bad, we all have to accept it calmly, and then live in the moment, live happily, don't be too pessimistic, don't ask for trouble.
After Zhou Nan met Wang Yucheng, in fact, she and Wang Yucheng dated twice, and also looked at each other's circle of friends, and often got his attention in each other, Zhou Nan thought that the other party was sending a signal to himself.
So Zhou Nan's circle of friends was sent to Wang Yucheng every time, and he also wanted to find him out to have a good chat and let him understand himself more comprehensively.
Unexpectedly, Zhou Nan found that asking him to come out to talk was inappropriate, so Zhou Nan stopped saying the words in his heart.
When Zhou Nan heard Wang Yucheng say that he was actually impressed with others, then she said it very generously, because she had misunderstood.
Because Zhou Nan felt that he would see her in his eyes, and then she would also respond, get closer to him, and even deliberately avoid contact and communication with others for him.
She had always thought that Wang Yucheng also had a good feeling for her, but she did not expect that the other party was not, but had a good feeling for others. So he said to Wang Yucheng, "Since I misunderstood, then these wrong signals are not good, so it is really not good." ”
Yes, if you don't have a crush on someone, don't send the wrong signal, it will be misleading and it will also make the relationship awkward. If you don't like someone, don't be inexplicably nice to others.
After Zhou Nan knew the truth, he responded generously and gently reconciled, which was the dignity of an adult.
However, no one is a god, they all have seven passions and six desires, so Zhou Nan, who returned to the hut, let go of his strength, and slowly released his emotions, sitting outside alone and waiting quietly for a while, and then Tong Yao saw it, came to accompany her, comforted her, and told her not to be sad.
Zhou Nan's sadness is actually because he has not developed successfully twice, so he has self-doubt, suspecting that it is his own problem.
Zhou Nan asked Tong Yao if I was very bad, I was too ordinary, so ordinary that no one else could see me.
Tong Yao said to her, why do you think so, you are very good, if I were a boy, I would marry you home immediately.
Perhaps there will be many people in life who feel that they are not attractive and feel that they are very bad, so that others will reject themselves and always blame themselves.
In fact, no, no one is wrong, it's just inappropriate, you are not unattractive, not not excellent, but you have not yet met the right person.
Even if you do yourself well, be your true self, and be the best version of yourself, there will always be a special person who will be very subtle to you, will also take care of your emotions, see your whole, and wait patiently for you.
Now I haven't met, it doesn't matter, insist on being yourself, you are in a comfortable state, you will meet people with the same frequency as you, the most in tune with you, the most comfortable with you, the closest to you.
No matter how many emotional twists and turns you have experienced, don't immerse yourself in pain, remember, it is not yours, you can't wait, it belongs to you, sooner or later it will be seated.
Don't worry, really, your fate has not yet arrived, don't deny yourself, but also let yourself go, so that others have the opportunity to understand you, you also give yourself the opportunity to understand others, then maybe fate will also come quietly.
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