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Approaching Valentine's Day, many boys can think of gifts to send sister paper are lipstick, perfume, roses, these regular objects that are not colorful and error-prone, in fact, are not necessarily the best choice. The information obtained from years of study and communication, combined with my own experience, provided you with a list of N gifts, as well as N sets of gift-giving models, and combined with details, to provide some suggestions for everyone to get rid of the gift-giving mode that is not colorful and easy to make mistakes, please accept it.
Tip: If you are handsome and golden and clearly higher than the level of the gift recipient, please ignore this article, thank you.
Core: Clarify the relationship first
The relationship at different stages, the purpose and variety of gifts will be different, I hope that everyone can understand this point, and then consider what to send. I simply divide the relationship into three types, you can see.
Confession stage: The other party still does not know and is not sure of your intentions, and the purpose of this gift is to be carried out as a confession.
Pursuit stage: The other party already knows your intentions but has not yet determined the relationship, is still in the pursuit stage, and the purpose of gift-giving is to increase the success rate.
Love stage: Already in the love stage, the purpose of gift giving is to increase intimacy.
In the following gift recommendation session, I will explain what stage each gift is suitable for.
flower
The title says, please do not send the rose, refers to the above ~ why not send this kind of door? Because it is too common, too ordinary, too many people have, too little special, every year our office building cleaning aunt, how many such rose bouquets can you know? Including that kind of 999 roses, do you know how much heartache the florist owner has such a list, do you know how much trouble the sister paper is to receive such a flower? Difficult to move, difficult to store, difficult to lose, discounted than this reality! As for the rose of a single transparent wrapper, don't try it, it's safer not to send anything than to send this!
What is the purpose of sending flowers: half to satisfy the vanity of the girl in front of the crowd (here is the positive meaning), and the other half, is a proof that the girl is loved.
Have the boys ever thought about the question of what girls will do with the flowers they receive?
1. Install vases at home or office or place them directly as decorations;
2. Some girls will wait until the flowers wither, make dried flowers, embossed flowers, etc., and can be placed all the time;
3. Take pictures, keep the hair ring, plus hold it on the way to the appointment or home, which is a kind of pride;
4. Throw away the trash.
Therefore, I personally suggest that it is okay to send flowers, but please send designed and aesthetic (girls to aesthetics!). Is it good to spend? For example, if you want to be larger, like the above is very popular, of course, pay attention to the type of sister paper Oh, younger, this kind of large bouquet is not recommended, because it is too heavy.
And slightly smaller, can be easily put into the vase or on the tabletop, and will not appear too abrupt medium-sized bouquet, will be more versatile, any age group is very suitable.
More recommended is the above picture, relatively light, small hand bouquet, one-handed can be held, delicate and special, relatively more popular with the lower age group Oh.
In addition, here are some tips for sending flowers:
1. Please be sure to send to the office location where the girl is during working hours (unless the unit is inconvenient), to achieve the purpose of sending flowers as mentioned above, if Valentine's Day/Tanabata/Birthday is on holidays, please send it in advance;
2. Flowers are embellished, please be sure to bring other gifts together, for example, it can be a beautiful small dessert, or it can be a small gift;
3. If you send a large bouquet of flowers, please be prepared to pick up people after work, otherwise there is a high probability that this flower will still go to Aunt Procter & Gamble.
In terms of relationships, sending flowers is suitable for each relationship, but the more familiar it is, the more accurate it should be, such as size, color, fragrance, taboos, and what gifts to match.
The above floral photos come from the Alike concept flower room of friends Xinlan, and the bouquets of all photos are made by Xinlan herself and I appeared in the camera, and I am particularly grateful for the photos and consultations provided by the Alike concept flower room.
Product Recommendation
Flowers have no purchase of the recommendation, it is recommended that the local flower shop or studio production will be better, Guangxi Nanning local can find the Alike concept of the heart orchid flower room customization Oh
Beauty products
Boys should at least understand that beauty products and skin care products are two things, right?
It can be simply understood that beauty products are used for makeup, such as lipstick, eye shadow, foundation, blush, etc. Skin care products are used to care for the skin after washing the face in the morning and washing the face at night, anti-aging, moisturizing and whitening, such as water, milk, cream, sunscreen, etc.
As I said earlier, don't just give lipstick because:
1. Lipstick is not a very expensive gift, even If Robbtin is in his early six hundreds, he can buy it;
2. Lipstick is always the icing on the cake for most girls;
3. The choice of color number and brand, too much attention, unfamiliar is difficult to buy what girls like;
4. The most core, too many people sent ... I've seen girls receive gifts on Valentine's Day, and seven or eight out of 10 are lipstick.
The more fashionable and good-looking girls are, the more they have their own preferences and opinions on makeup. Boys think it's good-looking and think girls will like it, most of them are stepping on thunder. Although there are indeed some products with a good reputation and basically no mistakes, such as YSL air cushions, Dior's 999 lipstick, CPB's bright softening powder, etc., there are a few boys who will understand these...
From my point of view, there are the following suggestions for your reference:
1. Skilled use of the Little Red Book, to search for keywords such as makeup-free makeup and foundation without errors, view high-heat notes and read the comment area, and spend an evening to know what products have recently become popular;
2. The higher the level of makeup, the higher the age, the higher the level of education of the sister paper, the boy will be relatively more difficult to buy her favorite beauty products, gifts can be bold and blunt, in the Little Red Book on the study of a night, I hope you like;
3. In order not to make mistakes, it is best to send two different items together, such as lipstick + foundation, or eyeshadow + air cushion.
From the relationship point of view, sending beauty products is suitable for each relationship, but the recommendation is not to choose too cheap products in the confession stage, such as KISS ME's mascara, although it is very easy to use, but the use of the confession stage will be too stingy. And the pursuit stage to send this and then express that you have studied and know that this is easy to use, the sister paper will feel that you are intimate. The pursuit stage and the love stage to send beauty products should try to say hello in advance to the makeup brand that the sister paper likes, probably knowing the positioning and scope.
Skin care products
Compared with beauty, in the case of unfamiliar with the other party's habits of using skin care products and what skin care products are suitable for, such products are even more sinkholes. Many girls don't even know what skin care products are suitable for themselves, and there will be noble women-level products sent by boys, but there are not many changes and even the skin problems have become serious, which is really a pit.
The only skincare product that can be sent without mistake, I think, is Argesa's sunscreen...
In terms of relationships:
1. Confession stage, it is not recommended to send skin care products, Although Anresha is very good, but the price is not expensive, pay attention to pairing with other gifts Together.
2. In the pursuit and love stage, it is not recommended to send skin care products in the case of not determining the skin type of the girl and not knowing the price range of the products used by the girl.
3. If you have to send, send the girl in use, or determine the girl's skin type, choose the same grade or a higher grade brand, and determine the right skin type for girls with the sale.
clothes
There are many types of clothes, from ordinary daily clothes, to sports equipment and shoes, underwear and underwear worn inside, and then to personal interests such as Hanfu, JK, etc
Compared with other products, clothes are very unsuitable for products sent at the time of confession, because she is too personal in terms of color, style, and size, unless you are a practitioner yourself and have a precise vision, and are familiar with the dressing style and preferences of the sister paper, it is not suitable for unfamiliar girls.
There must be my sable cicada exotic dancer! The hanfu little policeman let me go...
In the stage of pursuit and love, sending skirts, sportswear (premise that there are sports habits), and shoes is indeed a better choice, but the premise has several points:
1. Understand each other's approximate preferences and daily dress price range;
2. Shopping site tried to buy the most appropriate, but expensive, need to weigh the wallet; online buy discounts but buy do not like inappropriate, not very familiar with the case is very embarrassing; online buy suitable for a certain degree of familiarity of the relationship, worry about inappropriate, size to buy 2 similar back 1 is good;
3. Special preferences such as Hanfu and JK, to find out whether the other party is a professional colleague or a suitor of the original imported JK, so as not to buy inappropriate products;
4. Underwear or something, please be sure to be in love and then consider, remember...
Sports attributes, although as a person who has come to tell you, the quality of lululemon and Taobao's various sports brand stores is not much different, but buy a set of lulu for sister paper, you will still like it.
In the choice of some coats and shoes, now the domestic is already trendy and easy to use, but everyone's aesthetics and preferences determine whether the brand attributes are important or the actual feelings are important, we must find out the brands that the sister paper can accept (those who do not accept domestic brands... The recommendation is still .... emmm..... ）
Seasonal gifts
The so-called seasonal gifts are a category with a wide range of choices and a wide price range, which is frugal and frugal, and can reflect the warm and careful side.
For example, most girls in winter will be afraid of cold, that heating products are very suitable for sending sister paper, if it is the confession stage, choose a girl attribute of a little product plus a card, will be more heartwarming Oh. If you think this is relatively thin, you can combine other products to make a small combination.
Another example is the thermos cup, the price is moderate to send up will not be too abrupt, and when encountering a good-looking cup, many girls do not mind replacing the original use of Oh! In the confession stage, as long as the cup looks good, it is very suitable ~ including the pursuit and love stage, as long as you make sure that the sister paper does not have too many cups, it is still a good gift.
Beiding this thermos cup, really to do a strong push, I call it one of the best looking thermos cups I have ever seen, the most suitable for sister paper thermos cup is not one. In terms of design and appearance aesthetics, it surpasses all the thermos cups of Tiger and thermos, 6 hours of heat preservation, fully meets the needs of daily use, and 300ml is also in line with the drinking water of the sister paper, after all, the water cup is too big to drink.
The 300ml design also caters to the car cup holder, which is really a direct hit to the needs of users, and the silicone pad in the drinking water position can also be removed to clean and achieve cleaning without dead ends. When I first saw that I didn't wait for the sister paper to make a sound, I bought one directly, and the sister paper that was completely unsurprisingly changed the Tiger giraffe cup, without a trace of hesitation...
After the pursuit stage, the electric blanket is a good gift. You say the sister paper already has an electric blanket? Then look at the following one.
This enelca electric blanket is my gift to my sister paper last year, she is different from the general electric blanket, it is graphene heating, do it with use, do not need to preheat in advance (the above does not pad the case of the quilt), which is very good. And it does not make the skin dry when it is open, it is used very mildly, it can be used directly for a night to sleep without overheating, and the traditional heat wire will be woken up in the middle of the night under the lowest heat of the traditional heat wire. In addition, the extremely thin and light materials are not convenient for both use and folding and storage. Allowing washing machine washing machines is also destined to make this product extremely friendly to girls and mothers and babies. Various certifications also guarantee its security. If you also happen to need a good quality electric blanket, then enelca this one will be a better choice.
The point is that this price is really more quality than the general electric blanket.
A duvet is also a great way to show care, but if you send it during the confession stage, you will feel a little embarrassed.
Seasonal gifts, most of them are more daily types, we should pay attention to the distinction is: artistic sense, strong sense of design of daily necessities, such as good-looking hand warmers and thermos cups, suitable for the confession stage priority selection; practical daily necessities, such as electric blankets, duvets, etc., are suitable for selection in the pursuit and love stage.
Jewelry
First of all, I would like to explain that I have a very strong personal aesthetic and preference for jewelry, such as my opposition to traditional jewelry such as diamonds and gold, first, because I am poor (it is so direct...). The second reason is that it is too traditional. The jewelry mentioned here is limited to the trend of popular fashion.
Jewelry common are Pandora products, brooch / scarf buckle products, earring necklace products, headband hairpin products and other major categories, these categories, but also distinguish between different ages, different cultures, different styles of differences, for example, brooch / scarf buckle, there is the same as the picture, more atmospheric OL style.
There are also hairpins like the above picture, cute Japanese style ~
There is also this kind of exclusive cultural style that is very personal
A few points to note are:
1. Not necessarily everyone likes jewelry, it is best to determine it by observation or inquiry;
2. Jewelry manufacturing base in China, please make good use of 1688;
3. Jewelry must be opened to see, poor workmanship details are not enough or hurry to change one.
Confession stage and pursuit stage, you can send jewelry, according to each other's work, life dress, try to be brooch / scarf buckle, sweater necklace, hair ornaments, etc., try not to be in contact with the skin earrings, necklaces, rings, etc., because the latter these are more used for intimate relationships or to determine intimate relationships.
Hot love period, it is recommended to combine the style of sister paper to send it, daily work dress is more formal and generous, brooch, silk scarf buckle is very appropriate, usually work does not pay attention to send cards, necklaces or whatever.
Cultural products
Cultural products, including a variety of calendars, ledgers, posters and related derivative products, blind boxes I also belong to this category of products, so there are many types, is a more recommended way to give gifts.
Calendars, Douban movies, fruit shells, the forbidden city's calendar, are very recommended, the sense of culture, the sense of ceremony are full, the only drawback is that the timeliness of can be sent is limited, generally from October to January of the following year, it is only 3 months.
When there is no large-screen smartphone, the handbook is very good for users to do handbooks, personal notes, etc., and it is a gift that girls who have this habit or literary and artistic style can accept. There are many brands and styles to choose from, as long as you make sure that the other party has this preference, it is a good choice.
And the book I very much do not recommend to send, unless it is already a period of love. In the stage of confession and pursuit, it is easy to send books to people's heads, because there are many meanings in sending books, for example, if you think that sister paper needs to learn, sister paper may feel: You hate me? What you're hoping to share, the sister paper might feel: just this? So, try not to start from this perspective.
Of course, it is not that books cannot be sent, such as this book that is not popular this year, it is still possible, but you had better be sure that the sister paper is a person who loves books, so this angle, be cautious!
And in the cultural derivatives, the blind box is something that has been hot in recent years, but you must not buy one to send... If you want to buy it, take it all.
No matter which kind of cultural products, even the most elementary blind boxes, we must know the basic cultural preferences of the sister paper, and this is also a test of the understanding of the sister paper and the degree of investigation and meticulousness, and the suggestion of knowing nothing about these things does not start with the cultural products. In the case of being familiar with the cultural preferences of the sister paper, sending cultural products basically has no relationship, they are very suitable, but still remember what I said, please be cautious when sending books, do not send your own head.
summary
Today from the core point of the clear relationship, to tell you about the precautions for giving gifts in the three relationships, as well as some personal experience, recommended products are my personal purchase and use of things, the effect is very good, I hope you can flexibly refer to, do not make a hard move. At the same time, I would like to add a few core contents:
1. If the gift is delivered by courier, please do not use the collected payment (I have seen the gift with the same city express freight to pay);
2. Confession stage, pursuit stage, in order to increase the fault tolerance rate, gifts are best combined with a variety of gifts, such as flowers + makeup + calendar, or flowers + jewelry + cultural products;
3. Gift-giving is just the beginning, please try to combine it with the evening dinner activities.
Originally planned to continue to write handicrafts, electronic products and bulk consumer goods, but the space is limited, simply leave it until Tanabata to talk about it, today I will share it with you here, I wish you: people who like you also like you