"Your resignation is too sudden, can you give me a month..." When faced with the resignation of the farm workers, I almost begged them to leave later.
But they refused, and I cried and walked helplessly down the road.
My husband and I have been working on this farm for more than two years, and the most asked question is "Why don't you find workers..."?
When we decided to rent land to do a farm, we didn't think at first that we would work in the field ourselves. So there were resident workers and temporary workers on the farm at that time.
My husband and I both work in the city, and we rarely come to the farm, and the resident workers are more slack after a long time...
We considered the development from the future, and felt that if it was a relative or a family member, it would definitely be better.
At this moment, my sister from my hometown called to say that there was a problem with their work in my hometown and that I could help find a job.
At that time, my first reaction was to let them come to the farm, my sister has always had a good relationship with her husband.
When I proposed, my husband hesitated, although he was a sister, they had a good relationship with each other. But after all, I haven't been together much since I was a child, and I worry that if I have an unpleasant feeling in the future, it will not be good.
However, si lai wanted to go to the house and really did not have suitable relatives, so the husband consulted with his mother-in-law. The mother-in-law's opinion is to let the brother-in-law go.
In the end, the brother-in-law was very willing to come, but hoped to take care of each other with his sister.
In this way, we also negotiated the salary, which is 1,000 yuan higher per person than the salary in the hometown. My sister was also very happy and came over together not long ago.
At that time, the farm was not yet formed, and I rented a few houses in a nearby village, and my sister was very happy here, because it was all trivial things, managing peach trees, planting watermelons, and planting whatever she wanted. When the farm is busy, we hire temporary workers, and when we are idle, we will slowly do it ourselves, just like living at home, and we will often go to see it.
Because we often use the problem of temporary workers, the villagers and sisters get along warmly, but after a long time, problems and contradictions have emerged, today's East Parents Tomorrow West Family Short! For this reason, there is no less unpleasantness, and the husband often goes to coordinate and dredge.
Every time we encounter these things, we naturally maintain our sister's, but slowly, the sister's things and emotions are more and more... Villagers get along, farm planting, sister-in-law contradictions, in short, every time she goes she can say half a day...
Once the husband knocked on the side of the side of the speech is the village who said where to work how much salary, the implication is that they feel that their low ~ in short, a mood down the second month and add 500.
Until 2019, what happened that time was not only sad but also made us dispel the idea of hiring resident workers at present.
It was Monday, and my husband said he would take the time to come and build a kennel. I also followed to help move the bricks! On the way, my husband said that my sister said that I had a conflict with my brother-in-law, so I proposed that I go over and chat with her and comfort her.
I remember very clearly that day I was sitting at the gate, my sister was sitting in the middle of the room, and we were chatting casually. From trivia to the village, from the village to the field, to the home,... Suddenly my sister said, "I'm going home soon, homesick... Can't do it..."
I was stunned and said, "Have you been tired lately,... Homesick for two days and let Doudou Daddy take you back to your hometown for a few days..."
"Not tired, just not adapting... Here, I can't understand what people say..."! The sister said casually.
"Wasn't it nice to be here before?" Have you lived for so long, is there anything unpleasant about it, you told me it was okay, or someone bullied you..." I asked.
"Oh no, who dares to bully me... Just don't fit in..."!
"What did the brother-in-law think?"? I looked at her and asked.
"I don't know, you ask him," the sister replied.
At this time, my brother-in-law was also standing next to me, and I smiled and asked, "Brother-in-law, what do you think?"
The brother-in-law put his hands in his pockets, his eyes hesitant, walked back and forth, looked down and said, "I'll let her..."!
At this time, my sister did not say a word, I looked at my brother-in-law and said, "Otherwise, sister, if you want to go home and send you home first, the brother-in-law will stay here for another month, I will first see if I can find a worker, and then my brother-in-law will go back at the end of the year, or how about you come back to you after a few years"?
At this time, my sister paused for a long time and said, "You ask him what he can do..."!
I looked up at my brother-in-law again. The brother-in-law does not say a word... Turning to look at his sister, he said, "Whichever line you want, I will go..."!
My sister smiled and said, "Why don't you come with me?"
The brother-in-law also stressed, "Then I will not do it alone, and I will go when you go, or I will go together..."
At this time, my sister did not say a word, and I said again, "Sister, if you don't leave, you suddenly want to go back, wasn't it all good before?" Suddenly left, I don't know what to do, there is no one here, I still have children, you are gone, what about your brother, even if you help us, when we find the workers, you can go again..."?
At this time, my heart was full of mixed feelings, a little absurd, the tone was close to the request, I thought she should agree, who knew that she came all the way "I am not here, or let your brother-in-law be here..."
Before the words could be heard, the brother-in-law came all the way, "You go, I go..."
The sister grinned at the street again, "You really are, you are coughing..."
Watching them push back and forth as if they were nothing, I got up and said, "Forget it, if you want to go back, go back, I'll talk to your brother and ask him to send you back..." After saying that, I turned around and went out to the farm.
The moment I walked to the road, tears came out of my eyes, helpless, and there was a feeling of collapse... Usually only ten minutes away seems to have walked for half an hour, the chest is uncomfortable and breathless, crying while walking, two legs seem to be unable to take strength... My husband and I still can't forget that day.
(The question of length, which I'm going to get to here today, is just a record of how we made this farm and why we haven't found workers in the past two years.) Please also don't blame your sister for words... ）
