Be a happy mom who will be lazy
As a full-time mom with two years of service, I passed all the subjects of the self-study exam and the teacher qualification certificate exam for the next year and a half. At the beginning, I was also irritable because of the child's crying, and I was also upset because of the postpartum body shape, dull skin, and physical discomfort. Ever since I was playing downstairs with my children and meeting a mother of a six-year-old, her parenting concept has directly changed my perception of bringing children.
"Be a lazy mother", this sentence has played a positive effect on me, now talk about my happy lazy baby mode. Our children's father has been working in the field for a long time, so I am really independent with a baby. My way of taking a baby is first of all to cultivate children's good sleep habits, the child's sleep is guaranteed, the mood and spirit are naturally good, and I can also get a good rest, and I can also do something quietly.
Secondly, cultivate the child's independence and sense of autonomy, the child wants to eat and wear clothes and shoes to guide her to learn, my baby is now two and a half years old, you can eat and wear shoes and clothes, at night you take off your clothes and wear diapers. So I get rest and liberation to give myself skin care or something.
Finally give the child the opportunity to solve the problem independently, I will take the child to play outside for 2-3 hours a day, the baby will walk after the age of one, I will not follow her, find a suitable position to sit and watch her play, record a video to capture some photos, or jump rope, as long as she does not have conflicts with other children or do other dangerous activities I will not interfere with her to make friends and play, who you want to play with, play what you choose.
In short, with the help of the neighbors around you and all the available resources, let the children no longer be bored, let their lives not all be around the children, do not blindly take the children, let the children follow my rhythm. Since learning how to "lazy" with a baby, I think it is a very happy thing to be able to accompany the baby when she needs her mother the most.
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