A good dad is better than 100 teachers

As the saying goes, mother's love is like water, and father's love is like a mountain. While my mother took care of us with painstaking care, my father also tried to play the gentle role that God had given him. For many years, while singing and praising the mother, people have not forgotten the greatness of the father. Let's take a look at the stories of "model fathers" around the world.

Some of these good fathers are unknown, but they have cultivated talents who are famous in the world; some are world celebrities themselves, but they have a set of skills in educating their children. Whether these stories are touching or inspiring, they truly reproduce the deep love of fathers for their children and show the great influence of fathers in the growth of their children!

Mozart's father: He gave up his job to raise his children

The Austrian composer Mozart has been hailed by countless people as a "child prodigy" in his childhood, and many of his works have been an enduring repertoire of classical music. However, Mozart's achievements are closely related to his father's careful cultivation.

When Mozart was 3 years old, his father found that he often sat quietly on the side, very interested in watching his sister practice, so he began to educate him. Under the guidance of his father, Mozart began composing short pieces at the age of 5 and piano concertos at the age of 6. Later, in order to better train him, his father even gave up his job as a musician in the court and devoted all his energy to Mozart.

It can be said that without the father's persistent spirit, strict requirements and deep care, it is impossible to create a music master like Mozart.

Andersen's father: poor shoemakers produce great writers

The Danish fairy tale writer Hans Christian Andersen was born in a small town on The Island of Fuen called Osseden, where there were many nobles and landlords, while Hans Christian Andersen's father was a poor shoemaker and his mother was a washerwoman.

The aristocratic landlords, fearing that their status had been lowered, never let their children play with Hans Christian Andersen. Andersen's father was very angry about this, but he did not show it in front of the child at all, but said to Andersen very easily: "Child, others do not play with you, father come to play with you!" ”

Father himself decorated Andersen's humble room like a small museum, with many drawings and decorative porcelain hanging on the walls, some toys on the window cabinets, bookshelves full of books and song scores, and even on the door glass, a landscape painting. His father also used to tell Hans Christian Andersen ancient Arabic stories such as "One Thousand and One Nights", and sometimes read him a play by the Danish comedy writer Hollberg or a british Shakespeare script.

In order to enrich Andersen's spiritual world, his father also encouraged Andersen to go to the streets to see the lives of craftsmen who buried their heads in work, old beggars who bent over backwards, nobles who ran rampant in horse-drawn carriages, etc., which laid a good foundation for Andersen to write fairy tales such as "The Little Girl Who Sold Matches" and "The Ugly Duckling".

Leo Tolstoy: Sketching children's books with a quill pen

The Russian writer Leo Tolstoy paid great attention to cultivating children's interest in learning, and he often found time to tell children stories. 卮鹚翘岢龅髦治侍狻? br />

Tolstoy never forcibly instilled knowledge in children, but served them according to their hobbies and interests. For a while, the children were interested in the writer Jules. Verne's work was intriguing, and Tolstoy told them about it one after another.

Later, he found that the book "80 Days of Global Travel" had no illustrations, and in order to help the children understand the storyline, he actually used a goose quill pen to personally illustrate the book every night. Tolstoy's time is precious, but he believes that it is worth spending time on improving children's interest in learning and stimulating children's curiosity.

john k D. Rockefeller: Exercising and traveling the world

In the 19th century, the founder of the Rockefeller family business, John F. Kennedy, was the founder of the Rockefeller family business. D. Rockefeller was just a $7-a-week migrant worker, but he ended up founding Standard Oil through personal struggle.

In educating his own descendants, he developed many strict "measures".

john k D. Rockefeller often stressed the importance of exercising with his children, and when his son went to school, he let his son rollerblad through Central Park to Lincoln School, and the family driver just drove behind.

In addition, the Rockefellers were very concerned about the impact of traveling around the world on the growth of children. When the child is very young, he follows his parents, tutors and a large number of luggage, and begins to fly over the Continental United States, Europe, North Africa and other places. This kind of education enhances children's ability to understand social diversity and accurately grasp social common sense, and plays a good role in inspiring them to establish life goals in the future.

Gates' father: Let children know how to earn money from an early age

The world's software giant - Microsoft's CEO Bill ? Gates came from a wealthy family of lawyers in Seattle, USA, and his father William paid great attention to cultivating his sense of "working hard with his ability" from an early age.

William said: "It is important for children to know that they can make money and that they have the confidence and motivation to do whatever they do. Gates helped the family, and his father always gave him a small reward to stimulate his enthusiasm and let him understand that work is the step to happiness. William said that this can let children understand the real society and the outside world, but also let children understand the joy of working together and pursuing the same goal together.

When he was in a private high school, Gates and his friends developed software to calculate the amount of traffic in the city, and won the competition, signing a contract that was not small. Later, the head of the school hired them to prepare the teaching plan, and Gates also worked with others to write the procedures for the company's payroll system. William praised that "Gates was paid for his labor." ”

Thaksin: Thai Prime Minister Qianjin went to Work at McDonald's

Thai Prime Minister Thaksin Shinawatra is a fourth-generation Thai Chinese, and is also a famous "telecommunications tycoon" in Southeast Asia, and his family is very wealthy. However, the 55-year-old Thaksin is quite strict with his son and daughter, and even takes the initiative to ask the children to go out and "suffer", with long experience and insight.

In March 2004, after Thaksin's youngest daughter, BetonDan, took the college entrance examination, and Thaksin sent her daughter to work at a McDonald's restaurant in Bangkok, and Betongdan became the focus of Thai media attention for a while. "I just want her to have this experience, to make her understand life, so that she can adapt to work faster, adapt to society, and develop a sense of responsibility," Thaksin said. ”

The above story tells us that fatherly love is the key to making a genius. In the process of children's growth, father's love and maternal love have different influences.

Maternal love can make children's physical and emotional health development, the function of father's love is manifested in teaching children how to cope with and solve various life problems they encounter, maternal love represents human nature and social life emotions, father's love often symbolizes career, thought, order, adventure and struggle, representing the rational aspect, which is mainly manifested in the cultivation of children's sense of achievement, children's academic performance and learning ability in school are also related to the father, and the survey of relevant institutions shows that if there is a good father, Then the child's ability in mathematics and reading comprehension will be relatively high, there will be a sense of security in interpersonal relationships, self-esteem will be stronger, and it is easy to get along with people.

So in a sense, fatherly love is far superior to maternal love. Therefore, the most ideal personality of a child is to have both fatherly and maternal love at the same time. The more common problem now is that some fathers often neglect or even give up their educational responsibilities, resulting in a serious shortage of paternal education for their children. Such children are prone to form the so-called "yin personality", that is, fragile, timid, sentimental, dependent, and poor independence. Fathers should "personally" be on the front line of education, so that it is conducive to cultivating children's healthy personality and autonomy, so that children can better adapt to the real world and future society.

Some people say that "one father is better than 100 teachers", I would like to remind all fathers: the growth of children, the cultivation of genius, fathers must not walk away.

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