Wen | Late Tang Dynasty
She was a non-professional actor and won the film queen at the age of 49.
36-year-old married Faye Wong's first love.
Speaking of herself, she said: "There is no magnificent legend, no blockbuster sensational effect."
She is Yongmei.
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The two characters yongmei are taken from Mao Zedong's poem "Bu Operator Yongmei".
It was the name her father gave her.
Not only does the name have a Jiangnan flavor, but Yongmei on the screen has a slim figure, willow eyebrows and thin eyes, and has the beauty of a southern woman.
But she was a real Mongolian girl, and her Mongolian name was "Senjidema", which means "fairy".
When she was a child, Yongmei was very quiet and introverted, and seemed out of place among the clans who could sing and dance.
My aunt often counted her down: "We Mongolians are not as shy as you."
The mother's concept of son preference made the young YongMei once very inferior.
Fortunately, he had a very open-minded father.
As an electrical engineer, my father wasn't always at home.
But he always taught his daughter: "Don't let desire run with you, you have to manage yourself, self-respect and self-love, and have the ability to think independently, otherwise you will have no dignity." ”
Later, the parents had different concepts, which led to the breakdown of the marriage.
Wing Mei lived with her mother, and it was even more rare to see her father in a year.
The mother's mind was only on her son, and she sent Yongmei to a relative's house.
The days under the fence are too difficult, especially for an adolescent girl, who is more and more insecure inside.
Countless times, Yongmei wanted to escape from such a life.
Fortunately, her father encouraged her to go abroad to study.
Therefore, Yongmei came to Beijing University of International Business and Economics alone to study.
It was her father's decision that changed the trajectory of her life.
Years later, Yongmei choked up when recalling her father: "He gave me direction at an age when I didn't understand, so I didn't want to let myself fall and disappoint him."
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YongMei, 17, stands alone on the road in Beijing, a city so unfamiliar to her.
But she knew that from now on, her life could only be decided by herself.
Growing up in a small environment, Yongmei developed a personality of solitude.
Eat alone, go to class alone, go to the library alone.
Others didn't think she fit in, but she herself was happy.
Low-quality social networking is not necessary.
Near graduation, the school allowed students to go out for internships.
Yongmei also entered an economic and trade company and worked as an intern.
This year, Wing Mei's company held a rock concert in Chengdu.
Many bands have gone to Chengdu to participate in the event, and the "Black Panther Band" is also among them.
On the train to Chengdu, Yongmei saw Luan Shu for the first time.
At that time, Yongmei had a boyfriend who was talking, and Luan Shu was also in love with Faye Wong.
There were a lot of rock singers on the train, and YongMei had a good chat with everyone along the way.
The pure and direct, unapologetic personalities of theirs are something that Wing Mei particularly likes and appreciates.
In fact, since college, Yongmei has had a understanding of rock and roll.
The performance of the underground band, no matter how big or small, Wing Mei will go to the scene to watch.
On that trip to Chengdu, Yongmei not only knew Zang Tianshuo, but also luan shu.
However, the fate of the two did not really begin.
On the eve of graduation, the Black Panthers released their debut album, Black Panther.
Luan Shu invited Yong Mei to be the MV heroine of the album's single "".
Wing Mei has short hair, wears a white shirt, and sits on a motorcycle.
Exuding a modern style, she has become a goddess in the hearts of many people.
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In 1991, after graduating from Yongmei University, she became a regular employee of the company.
In Shenzhen began the life of an urban beauty.
Luan Shu, who is far away in Beijing, also broke up with Faye Wong because Faye Wong fell in love with dou Wei, the lead singer of the band.
At the same time, because of Dou Wei's departure, Luan Shu took his place and became the lead singer of the Black Panther Band.
In 1992, the Band Black Panther toured the country.
At this stop, they arrived in Shenzhen.
At that time, Yongmei did not know about this matter.
One day, her friend called her and said that the Black Panthers were performing in Shenzhen.
At the same time, the band's drummer Zhao Mingyi also invited him to come and see the performance.
In this way, Yongmei saw Luan Shu again.
In just one year, Luan Shu changed from a sunshine boy with short hair and earrings to a man with long hair and a shawl.
Luan Shu, who was standing on the stage and singing, touched the heart of Yong Mei under the stage at that moment.
Coincidentally, at that time, Yongmei had already broken up with her ex-boyfriend.
But she didn't know that Luan Shu was also single.
After the performance, everyone ate and chatted together.
Luan Shu also saw the change in Yongmei, dressed in a white-collar dress, she was gentle and dignified, and her temperament was elegant.
In this way, the two hearts attract each other.
After learning that the other party is single, the two naturally walk together.
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But at that time, one was in Shenzhen and one was in Beijing.
In the beginning, the two were in a state of long-distance love.
But in fact, Yongmei has long been tired of life in the cubicle of the office building.
Every day from nine to five, you also have to deal with interpersonal relationships in the office.
But at that time, she was not ready to leave, after all, this job was also obtained by her through layers of assessment.
What really made her decide to leave was Luan Shu.
One day, they were talking on the phone as usual, and YongMei was complaining about the unsatisfactory work as usual.
Luan Shu suddenly said, "If you come to Beijing, it is not a long-term solution to always be in a different place, even if you can't find a job, it doesn't matter, I can raise you." ”
In this way, Yongmei rolled up the covers and went to Beijing without hesitation.
Unexpectedly, before she could gain a foothold in Beijing, Luan Shu said that she wanted to leave the Black Panthers.
He said he had his own horse farm in the countryside and wanted to concentrate on raising horses and living his own life.
Yongmei also likes this kind of life, but she is forced to make a living and needs to wait.
Fortunately, friends in the circle recommended Yongmei to go to "Meet Sunday" as a part-time host, which is considered to have an income.
In 1994, Luan Shu left the Band Black Panther.
Life at the racecourse was primitive, without any appliances, not even a washing machine.
There was no heating in the winter, so two people sat around the stove to keep warm.
Although this kind of life is very comfortable, raising horses also needs money to support it.
Wing Mei's income could not afford the expenses of two people and the horse farm.
Fortunately, the owner of "Meet Sunday" recommended Yong Mei to audition for a crew.
In this way, under many twists and turns, Yongmei joined "The Man who Muyun".
Since then, he has started an acting career in the entertainment industry.
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After the broadcast of "The Man Who Muyun" was broadcast, Yongmei's drama was about to increase.
In 1997, Luan Shu also took his beloved foal to the National Games, but only achieved an eighth place result.
The racecourse expenses are too large, and the prize money for the race is not enough to repay the loan.
Yong Mei's remuneration is all used for the daily operation of the horse farm.
In this way, more than a million debts were also owed.
Therefore, in 1998, Luan Shu had no choice but to close the horse farm and make money with Yong Mei to pay off his debts.
According to Luan Shu's talent, you can make money by writing a song that meets the tastes of the public.
But he was reluctant to settle down.
YongMei never forced this.
She said: "Luan Shu's talent is given by God, I have a special belief in him, and I will slowly accompany him." ”
In those years, YongMei played countless classic works.
In "Bangkok Rainy Season", the beautiful, mature, and capable Bu Yi Lan.
In "Chinese Divorce", an obsessive 'third party' Xiao Li;
Han Rusu, a university teacher in "Where Is My Home";
Nie Yinniang's mother in "Assassin Nie Yinniang"........
It wasn't until 2011 that she won the Best Supporting Actress Award for the first time.
For more than twenty years, Yongmei has played a supporting role in obscurity.
When it comes to acting, she is very pure, and it is not necessarily important only the protagonist.
Supporting roles are also indispensable souls in a play.
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In 2006, Yongmei and Luan Shu got married in a low-key manner.
That year, Wing Mei was 36 years old and Luan Shu was 37 years old.
At that time, the two did not have much savings and lived in a rental house outside the fifth ring road.
But the two of them had a very comfortable time, and the days were very happy.
After marriage, Luan Shu took care of YongMei like a daughter.
At first, Luan Shu considered YongMei's age and wanted her to temporarily leave her career and give birth at home.
But Yong Mei said that the ability of two people to bear the pressure of children will be great, let it be natural.
Luan Shu respected his wife's ideas.
Later, Yongmei's parents passed away one after another.
During that time, she was very miserable inside and fell into depression at one point.
It was Luan Shu again, silently accompanying her.
Give her support and encouragement, and even act as her counselor.
Accompanied by Luan Shu, Yong Mei walked out of pain.
In 2017, he was invited by director Wang Xiaoshuai to play the role of the orphaned mother in "Long Days on Earth".
For this role, Wing Mei specially found a lost mimizine and spent a long time with her.
They exchange feelings, feelings.
This is YongMei's first time as a female lead, and she cherishes it very much.
In 2019, "Long Time on Earth" won the Best Actress at the 69th Berlin Film Festival.
In the same year, she won the 32nd Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress.
This year, Wing Mei was 49 years old.
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Zhang Ailing said: Become famous early.
But Yong Mei, 50, said: "Don't smooth my wrinkles, this is the mark of my growth, the most authentic and frank proof that I have lived from a little girl to now." ”
He debuted in 1994 and has been around for 27 years.
Some people say that she is late in life, and some people say that she is pregnant with talent.
And for Wing Mei, this is called life.
Nowadays, Luan Shu's horse farm is getting better and better, and Yong Mei's career is also reaching its peak.
After experiencing the vicissitudes of the mulberry field, the husband and wife still hold the hand of the son and grow old with the son.
This feeling is the most rare.
At the beginning, Luan Shu was a popular Black Panther band in China, and many people called Yong Mei luan Shu's wife;
Now that Wing Mei has become a shadow, everyone calls Luan Shu the husband of Wing Mei.
But either way, it was "our" best time.