If you like someone, you'll want to marry her, or marry him. That's okay, but what if the person you like has a wife or a husband? Will you still do the "know three and be three" thing? Especially do not like those who say "like" but brazenly destroy other people's families, Sun Xiaoning in "The World" once again touched my bottom line.
Zheng Juan heard that Sun Xiaoning liked Zhou Bingkun, and the next day she went to the bookstore to find Sun Xiaoning, and she looked at Sun Xiaoning, young, beautiful, and loving.
Zheng Juan asked, "I want to marry him and live a lifetime, don't you?" ”
"Yes!" Sun Xiaoning greeted Zheng Juan's eyes, without cowardice, and posed as if he was determined to win. Zheng Juan paused, trying to squeeze out a smile, afraid that she would lose the battle when her youth had gone. Wu Qian inexplicably nagged and pulled the duel between Zheng Juan and Sun Xiaoning, two women, back to reality.
Zheng Juan shook her head, grabbed Sun Xiaoning's hand, and said to Wu Qian, "You see, Xiao Ning's hand is really beautiful. Wu Qian raised her head and smiled, "That's not because you are young, your hands look better when you are young." Through Wu Qian's mouth, she said all the things that Zheng Juan had worked hard for the Zhou family over the years.
This is Zheng Juan's "capital", but also her "youth", she does not want everyone to feel that she is qualified to be Zhou Bingkun's wife because of hard work, but in the face of Sun Xiaoning, who looks like a flower, Zheng Juan is still a little flustered, so she has to show the "bottom card".
After all, Shaohua had gone, and Zheng Juan didn't know what else to use to keep Zhou Bingkun.
Sun Xiaoning didn't care what Zheng Juan said, she didn't pay attention to Zheng Juan, a woman who was both uncultured and vulgar. In her opinion, Zhou Bingkun is capable, attractive, and worthy of a better woman.
Not knowing who gave her confidence, Sun Xiaoning felt that she was the "better" woman.
1. Sun Xiaoning
Many people who "know three should be three" do not understand, in fact, this "ideal" person in front of you has also had a period of "being hated by others and no one wants". Now that he is full of style, you have the idea of taking it for yourself, but you are just digging up the "vegetables" grown by others and fishing for the "fish" raised by others.
Zhou Bingkun is like this, without Zheng Juan, I am afraid that the entire Zhou family would have dispersed long ago. At the beginning, Zhou's mother was unconscious because her daughter and son-in-law were imprisoned; Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned for half a year because of her brother-in-law's involvement. Zhou Mu and Feng Yue (Zhou Rong's daughter) became orphans and children who were left unattended.
Zheng Juan has no name and no points, holding the title of "nanny", taking her son and brother, insisting on massaging Zhou's mother and taking care of the Zhou family for Zhou Bingkun, which has a future situation.
Sun Xiaoning did not understand that Zheng Juan and Zhou Bingkun were "husband and wife in distress". Maybe she doesn't understand it, but just "doesn't hit the south wall and doesn't die", and she has to fight for her fate. Because she really wants to get ahead.
In the photon film, Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong changed their fate after passing the college entrance examination, other children also followed suit, looking forward to living a comfortable life through hard work.
However, when she took the college entrance examination, she fell behind because of 6 points.
Although the gap of 6 points is not large, Nu work hard and there will definitely be opportunities next year. But Sun Xiaoning is not willing to suffer from learning anymore, and she wants to take shortcuts to get a better life for herself. So, she set her sights on Zhou Bingkun's body.
Sun Xiaoning is the younger sister of Sun Chaochao and has known Zhou Bingkun since childhood. But at that time, Zhou Bingkun was still a "stunned qing" who did not have a decent job.
Now Zhou Bingkun, who is flourishing, not only has the compilation of a magazine, but also manages a hotel and a bookstore. And Zhou Bingkun's older brothers and sisters are all leading cadres. For 19-year-old Sun Xiaoning, it is already a "ceiling".
Therefore, she also wants to get Zhou Bingkun's "love" no matter what. Therefore, she began to put on a sympathetic look, when Zhou Bingkun kept vigil, Sun Xiaoning went to deliver food; when Zhou Bingkun was embarrassed because he could not help Wu Qian, Sun Xiaoning stepped forward to help him break the siege.
Sun Xiaoning did not hide her "liking" for Zhou Bingkun at all, and even when her brother introduced her to her, she insisted on finding Zhou Bingkun like this. She said she liked Zhou Bingkun, but her liking was too "cheap." The bed meal that came to the hospital cheaply was made by her grandmother, and her own mind asked her brother to put pressure on Zhou Bingkun.
In fact, Sun Xiaoning's "liking" for Zhou Bingkun is nothing more than Zhou Bingkun's "social relations" and existing material conditions. As Zhou Bingkun's master Bai Xiaochuan said in the original work:
"Your brother is a deputy inspector of the Cultural Affairs Agency, your sister-in-law is the daughter of a high-ranking official, and she is also the admissions office of a key university, and she is also a deputy director, right?" Your sister is also an associate professor, and your brother-in-law in Beijing is a well-known poet. All this is a rich and extensive relationship for a female 'social person'. Even if she doesn't break up you and Zheng Juan, she will definitely be willing to have a leg with you. ”
2. Zhou Bingkun
It is said that "a slap can't make a sound", no matter how beautiful the scenery outside the window is, you have to stop, it has a chance for you to see; the wildflowers on the side of the road are so beautiful that you have to pick them, so that you can confuse your heart.
Zhou Bingkun is righteous, gentle, and thin-skinned, and he is embarrassed to refuse everything. It is precisely because of this that Sun Xiaoning saw his "opportunity".
Zhou Bingkun asked Sun Xiaoning if there was anyone he liked. Sun Xiaoning said "yes" and said that he was afraid that the person would not look at him.
Zhou Bingkun regarded Sun Xiaoning as his sister, and when he heard her say this, he didn't think much of it, and praised her vigorously: "You said that you have such good conditions, you must have good looks, you must have culture and culture, and your temperament is good." I can't look at you. ”
Sun Xiaoning listened with great excitement and went to his mouth to confess, because of Zheng Juan's arrival, he swallowed it back again. She thought that Zhou Bingkun praised her and just liked her.
But they don't know that some men's praise for women is tentative and provocative; while some men's praise for women is just "scene words". Zhou Bingkun belongs to the latter, and he has always been like this to women.
At first, Qiao Chunyan asked him, "Why don't you like me?" ”
Zhou Bingkun's answer was, "I didn't dislike it." ”
Qiao Chunyan said, "The ice cave in front of your house, I fell into it without paying attention, and my shoes were all dirty." ”
Zhou Bingkun said: "I turned around and filled it in." ”
This ambiguous answer, for women, is really "tasteless food, it is a pity to abandon it." Then he fell deeper and deeper, and made up a sweet idol drama for his own brain.
Zheng Juan asked Zhou Bingkun to talk about things, and Zhou Bingkun thought it was Zheng Juan's brother's business and did not want to hear it. In front of Sun Xiaoning, he and Zheng Juan made faces. Sun Xiaoning saw it in her eyes and was happy in her heart, she naturally didn't know that it was Zheng Juan's brother, she only thought that they were not harmonious with each other and had a gap.
In fact, Zhou Bingkun is cowardly, honest, and likes to escape when things happen, so he will grind and rub in his feelings, and it is easy for women to misunderstand.
Wu Qian pulled Zhou Bingkun to say about finding a job for her husband, Zhou Bingkun was forced too tightly, a little irritable, just at this time Zheng Juan came. Coincidentally, he also said that there was something to find Zhou Bingkun. Zhou Bingkun, who was confused, did not know how to face it, and it was understandable.
However, as soon as he grabbed Sun Xiaoning's hand, he deliberately let Zheng Juan talk about family affairs in front of Sun Xiaoning, which was really a bit too much.
Zhou Bingkun's action not only hurt Zheng Juan, but also gave Sun Xiaoning hope that she could take her place. Therefore, he took out his own handkerchief and wrapped the wound for Zhou Bingkun. In that conservative era, this handkerchief could be used as a "promise of love".
3. Zheng Juan
In "Thirty Only", Gu Jia once said: "A woman with ability will only solve the unfaithful man, and the impatient will come to find a woman outside." ”
Gu Jia has the ability and courage, and when she encounters this, she naturally dares to fight with her husband. But Zheng Juan couldn't, she had no culture, no job, and when she encountered this, she didn't dare to mention it to Zhou Bingkun.
Sun Chaochao told Zheng Juan that Sun Xiaoning liked Zhou Bingkun and hoped that she could take care of Zhou Bingkun and let Sun Xiaoning die of this heart. But Zheng Juan said: "Bingkun has no responsibility, you take care of your sister." ”
Sun Chaochao looked at Zheng Juan incomprehensibly: "What time is it, are you still protecting him?" A slap does not make a sound, you can't manage it, or don't you dare to manage it? ”
Sun Chaochao is also a man, and in the face of young and beautiful girls and widows who have experienced vicissitudes, he will choose the former. In the view of catching up, although Zheng Juan is the "hero" of the Zhou family, she has not read books after all, and she is no longer young, Zhou Bingkun is getting higher and higher, and it is reasonable to like Sun Xiaoning.
At this point, Zheng Juan and Chao Chao thought of going together. That's why she didn't dare to ask, because she was afraid to face it. Zheng Juan said to her brother: "He takes good care of Sun Xiaoning, and the work is also arranged by him, just arranged in the bookstore he is responsible for, if the two people want to contact, it is quite convenient." ”
In Zheng Juan's view, Zhou Bingkun is special to Sun Xiaoning.
Zheng Juan was suspicious as early as Zhou Bingkun was visiting the hospital, and Sun Xiaoning ran to deliver food. But she just didn't dare to talk to Zhou Bingkun, and she didn't dare to let Zhou Bingkun choose between herself and Sun Xiaoning. Compared with Sun Xiaoning's ambition to win, Zheng Juan has no self-confidence at all.
Zhou Bingkun helped him in the most difficult time, but when she handed herself over to Zhou Bingkun, she was not "complete". Zheng Juan was very inferior, so she was willing to pay more, and even asked for the protection of the gods and Buddhas in order to give birth to a son for the Zhou family.
At first, Zheng Juan was afraid that Zhou Bingkun would have a burden and opened herself up. She told Zhou Bingkun:
"I'm not going to stick to you, rest assured. When you think of me later, hand my mother a note and write down that when you come one day, I will wait for you at home wholeheartedly. When you are in the object, you will not come and it will be over. You're going to get married, just forget me. ”
For a long time, Zheng Juan has put herself very low and behaved very weakly. Therefore, she did not dare to mention to Zhou Bingkun, for fear of breaking their relationship, afraid that Zhou Bingkun would really marry Sun Xiaoning.
In fact, seeing Zheng Juan is like seeing many women in reality. The good years were dedicated to the family, children, and husbands, but in the end, it was a perfunctory "incompatible personality, good two boxes".
Simply, Zhou Bingkun in "The World" is not a person who thinks differently, but in reality, how many "Zhou Bingkun" are there?
Therefore, since you are already married, don't think about the problem of "worthy" or "unworthy". If there is something, timely communication is always like passive acceptance.
I have always hated women or men like Sun Xiaoning who "know three when three" and feel that they have no bottom line. Although everyone wants to get better and better, how long can the glory gained in this way last?
However, if you think about it in turn, although people who "know three and do three" are hateful, the undisciplined behavior of some married people is indeed difficult to say. Review their behavior, and some do give others "hope" and "confidence."
It is indeed a slap that does not make a sound, do not "know three when three", and do not give others the opportunity to "know three when three".