Emotional things, as long as we want, then we can be completely with anyone.
Love, that can indeed be very casual, but of course we can't.
After all, with different people, our inner feelings, the days we will live, it is also completely different.
There are always some people who choose him, and in life, not only do we not feel any happiness, but we will only be miserable from time to time, much worse than when we are alone.
Such a love, even if we are willing, we will not see the future at all, and it is not worth it.
In any case, in love, you should still choose the object and pay attention to the quality.
Only a relatively high-quality love is worthy of our sincerity and allows us to see the future.
Get along comfortably and be true to yourself.
There are always some situations where we do prefer a person, but with each other, we will indeed be very uncomfortable, always need to deliberately disguise ourselves, always be disliked by the other party, always doubt ourselves from time to time.
Even if they love each other very much, there is always no way to communicate, and the three views are not the same.
When a relationship always makes us so uncomfortable, no matter how much we like it, this relationship is actually not very good.
Really better love, in each other's side, we will not always be rigid, pandering, worried.
With each other, we don't have to have any pressure at all, we can just follow ourselves as they really are. What they love about each other is not the other person imagined by each other, but the most real character and the most real temper of each other.
Two people just have a tacit understanding, know each other's thoughts and thoughts, and always feel a recognition in each other.
No one has to please anyone, no one will look down on anyone, the relationship is always equal, and there will always be mutual respect.
When we are alone, we will always feel that we are not worthy of being loved, afraid that no one can accept such a self, but that person, he will really let us understand that we are good, we are worthy, we are never bad.
Progress together is constantly getting better.
Some people, he makes us become inferior, makes us stagnate, or just retreats in various ways.
We could have gone farther, but he destroyed all our hopes and enthusiasm, only trapped us where we were, and caused our bodies and minds to all regress and begin to become inferior.
The person who pulls our lives into hell, needless to say, what the other party gives us is certainly not much good love.
In a truly high-quality relationship, the other party will never be an obstacle to us, but will only become our help. In each other's bodies, we can always feel appreciated, encouraged, and supported.
Because of each other, we began to be more confident than ever, we did not dare to fight before, now dare, did not dare to try before, now always willing to try, before always afraid of failure, now not afraid.
That person, he has been constantly demanding himself, making himself constantly better, under his influence, we have always been on the road forward, becoming a better self, but also going further.
Along the way, they were on an equal footing, evenly matched, and both were particularly confident and very strong.
More than ever, we like our present selves and enjoy our lives at the moment, the man who makes everything so different and makes us the best years of our lives.
There is a great sense of belonging, and there is a sense of security.
In the vast world, everyone is just a very small existence, born like duckweed, without landing.
Love the wrong person, even if there are people around, we still only feel that we are lonely, nothing belongs to us, we will always be particularly uneasy, do not know tomorrow and accidents, which will come first.
For us, the other party does not bring us too many good feelings except for one more person around us.
Better love is different, and that person will really make our hearts feel as if they have found a place to live.
After wandering for a long time, it was as if we had finally found a docked shore, and since then we have been quite sure that no matter which city, no matter which corner of the city, where there is the other, is the soil we want to exist.
After the encounter, although we are still the very small self, and we are still only a few decades in life, we seem to have found the meaning of existence and found our own home.
As long as we are with each other, even if tomorrow is still unknown, there will be a lot of dissatisfaction, but all of them, we no longer feel afraid.
While feeling at ease with each other and believing that the other party is very dedicated to us, we can always see through each other that the future is beckoning to us, and we are looking forward to everything in the future.
Every high-quality relationship will always have some more common characteristics.
We don't need to wrong ourselves, it will make us grow, and it will always make us feel very down-to-earth.
In love, when a person gives us such a feeling, we don't have to think so much, just continue with each other, you have me, I have you, and go together to create each other's future.
Work together, I believe that it will be a better life, and I will be more satisfied.
As for the person we meet, it is not so good, but it is not bad, we can consider it as appropriate.
If it is too bad, it is best to forget it, and don't find yourself unhappy.
High quality, that is ideal, not so good, can also be on, is too bad, it is really not necessary.
Text/Tan Meng
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