In fact, each of us will hold the purpose of raising children and preventing aging, because we all hope that our old age life can become more comfortable. But it is not an easy task to achieve this, because we will see a lot of filial piety in life. These children will throw the elderly out of the house and even beat up their parents.
Mr. Li has a 7-year-old child at home, and although his conditions are not so good, Mr. Li will still meet all the requirements of the child. Usually, I don't dare to let my child get tired, so I have always been cleaning the house and working hard. Neighbors will express great helplessness after seeing it, because they feel that Mr. Li's way of education is incorrect.
At first, Mr. Li did not feel that there was anything wrong with his education method, until one day the child said a word to him, which made him feel that his education method was problematic. On this day, Mr. Li brought back a lot of delicious food at home, and he wanted to taste it together as a family.
Unexpectedly, this child took all the food into his arms and said, "None of you can rob me, it's all mine!" "Mr. Li really didn't expect his children to be so selfish, since he could say such things to himself."
And when Mr. Li told all this to his friends, the friends around him all said: "Your child can actually say such a thing, and he will certainly not become filial when he grows up." "Now Mr. Li is also helpless, so what should be done?" The seeds of filial piety have long been planted.
In fact, when we communicate with children on a daily basis, we can see whether children are filial piety. For example, children often say these three mantras, which means that they are no longer filial piety, and often these things will be hidden in the details.
Which three mantras of filial piety represent filial piety?
Some children especially like to say such a sentence, that is, "These things are mine, don't touch them." "The biggest feature of this kind of children in life is that they are more selfish, they never like to share everything with their parents, they always like to keep good things for themselves, if their parents ask for them, they will find their parents very annoying." Once the child presents such a situation, then we should be careful, which shows that the child is not filial piety.
After all, how could such a selfish person consider the feelings of his parents? Therefore, in the process of educating children, we must not let them become a selfish person, we should let them know how to share, be good at sharing, only in this way can they be grateful to their parents.
There are also some children who especially like to hang on to this sentence, that is, "This matter has nothing to do with me." "Once the child has this mantra, this shows that we always love the child in our daily life, which also causes the child to like to lose his temper and like to play tricks." They often think of themselves as the center of the world, they think that the whole world should revolve around them, and everyone must follow their own wishes.
And they also especially like to shirk responsibility, they feel that living in this world does not need to pay responsibility, and such children often do not like to respect their parents, so they will definitely become a filial piety child when they grow up. Therefore, in our daily life, we must not indulge our children too much, we should let our children know how to be grateful, let them know how to respect their parents, and even let them correct their own etiquette, so as to ensure that they become a filial piety to their parents.
In addition, some children have a mantra, which is: "I don't want to do housework, you do it." "If a child likes to do housework, it means that they know how to share everything for their parents. Although doing housework is only a very small thing, we can also understand through this detail that they know how to let their parents take a break.
After all, my parents were very tired of working every day, and if I said that I still needed to do housework when I got home, I would definitely make my pressure very high. At this time, if children can help their parents to do housework, then they can understand their parents' hard work. If a child does not like to do housework at all, then it means that they do not want to share the responsibility for their parents at all, such children are often lazy and lazy, and they will never think of filial piety to their parents when they grow up.
Therefore, when children have these three mantras, we should be careful, because this already means that there are some problems in our way of education, which causes children to become less filial. We should treat them in the right way, and let them know how to be grateful, know how to be content, and even know how to pay for their parents, so that they can ensure that they become a filial piety when they grow up.