You don't have to please everyone. As long as people are floating in the rivers and lakes, they will encounter all kinds of troubles, and the key is whether they can see it openly.
Things come to conform, things go and do not stay. If a person can control emotions, he can control life.
Tian Jing, the wife of Yao Wei, the party involved in the 28th case, has tasted everything sweet, sour, bitter and spicy since the live broadcast with the goods. She made money, naturally some people will be red-eyed, they question Tian Jing relying on Xu Mama's traffic to make money but did not share it with Xu Ma, questioning Tian Jing will only sell misery sympathy and show, these Tian Jing endured, but when her family was attacked by language, Tian Jing could no longer bear it, and began to recoil, which just hit the trap of the other party, Tian Jing paid the price for her anger, and her interests were damaged.
It is said that eating a long and wise, I believe that Tian Jing, who has suffered losses, will understand the significance of emotional management, never pay for other people's emotions, no matter how others stimulate you, most of the time, you must learn not to be moved. Your affairs can only be dominated by you, and others cannot interfere with you.
Tian Jing live streamed the goods in a bright and upright way, there is nothing wrong with it, this is her right. She gradually improved her life by carrying goods, not only did she not let herself become the worries of Xu Ma and Yao Dad, but in turn she could help them, killing two birds with one stone. What you do in February and March, there will be an answer in July and August, and Tian Jing just has to do it.
There is a saying in psychology that everyone has their own psychological boundaries, and it is like a moat that distinguishes itself from others. If a person has a clear sense of boundaries, he will realize what is his own business and what is someone else's.
If others interfere with you, you have the right to be dismissive, have the right to ignore it, and living your own life is king.
A life is not long, and only those who please themselves can live freely. Having a safe deposit in your pocket, having a family around you, and being unharmed is the most worthwhile way to live. Tian Jing's life is also envious of others, there are cute and loving sons and daughters, there is a partner who loves herself, and considerate elders, not perfect, but also the future can be expected, and all aspects are moving in a good direction.
There is no need to complain about living, everything is the best arrangement, Tian Jing has the confidence to enjoy life, more time to play with the children, set aside some time for herself to read books, listen to music, clean up the room, eat food, and apply masks. Pleasing yourself is an investment that makes no loss, and you will become more confident and ignite your enthusiasm for struggle.
Regarding the way to please yourself, you may wish to look at Liang Wendao's advice: "Reading some useless books, doing some useless things, and spending some useless time are all in order to reserve an opportunity to surpass yourself outside of everything that is known." Some of the great changes in life come from these moments. ”
Only when you make yourself satisfied, can you do things more easily, and only then can you live out the taste.
In life, you can never satisfy everyone, and you have no obligation to please anyone.
One of the criteria for measuring inner strength is how many things the heart can pretend not to be entangled or entangled, and to be able to eat well and sleep well. People with strong hearts, the wind and waves are not alarmed, calm and free.
Finally, I would like to say: in the vast world, it is the normal state of life to backfire, and if you accept all this, you will find it easier to endure a lot.
Instead of complaining about being in the dark, it is better to carry the lamp forward. The heart has mountains and seas, quiet and indisputable.
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