Zheng Nan, the master of memory: Do your children have these characteristics?
Hello everyone, I am Zheng Nan, the memory master, what I found today is whether your child has these characteristics, it may be a potential bully. Many parents believe that to be a good student, they must be very smart, have a high IQ, have a strong memory, and excel in learning. Excellent what connection?
Harvard university research found that excellent students have a common characteristic, that is, they have a strong motivation to learn. Therefore, at Harvard, the school trains students to learn to swim completely differently from swimming instructors elsewhere:
Generally speaking, when learning to swim, the coach will teach the child the basic movements and points, while Harvard University will let the child go straight into the water and think about how to swim by observing others.
It is precisely because the learning motivation is super strong, the learning efficiency will be very high, and the results will be excellent.
Through observation and research, Harvard University found that these outstanding students have strong learning ability because of these five characteristics. If your child has these characteristics, it means that the child has strong learning ability and is likely to be a potentially excellent student.
In the face of the next learning, these five types of children will be easier than their peers, so even if they are naughty, it doesn't matter.
First, focus on doing things.
The great scientist Newton once had a friend who came to see him while doing experiments. When my friend was hungry, he ate the lunch that Newton had prepared for him. As a result, when Newton finished his experiment, he found that the lunch bowl had been eaten, and he thought he would continue to do the experiment after lunch.
Since ancient times, great people like Newton have tended to have good concentration and can do something for a long time. This ability allows them to do more with less and is the key to their success.
Therefore, if the child is very focused while doing things, the parents cannot interrupt them. Whether they're playing or reading, they'll stay that way. In this way, when they go to school, their grades tend to be very good.
2. Acceptance of delayed gratification.
The U.S. did an experiment: divide a group of children into groups in a room and tell them they had two options: one was to eat marshmallows now, and the other was 15 minutes later. If you choose the latter, you can get more marshmallows.
Many children could not stand the temptation and immediately ate marshmallows. Of course, some kids stuck around for 15 minutes and got more rewards.
After 10 years of follow-up surveys, the researchers found that children who could stick 15 minutes without eating marshmallows had better careers and relationships than those who ate marshmallows right away.
As a result, children with the ability to delay gratification tend to be more patient, more persistent, and achieve better results later in their studies.
In fact, most good students have to practice day and night to easily win the exam room championship, and what is needed in this repetitive practice is the ability to delay gratification.
Third, children with strong hands-on ability.
When children are young, if they have strong hands-on ability, this can be a very bad thing for parents, because such children may demolish all their homes, they may remove some toys at home, and they cannot restore these toys.
Therefore, many parents will find that their home is a mess by their children after they come home from work, and some parents can't help but be angry with their children, and they have set a lot of rules for their children, and they are not allowed to touch things at home. In fact, this kind of behavior especially stifles the nature of children.
When the child is still young, the child can be exposed to more stimuli through both hands, which can help the child's brain develop faster. If the parents stop these behaviors of the child at this time, it is likely to affect the child's brain development, and it is likely to make the child's intelligence level lag behind that of his peers.
On the other hand, strong hands-on ability is a manifestation of their exploration of the world and a manifestation of their curiosity. During this period, if you let your child know more about new knowledge, it will help lay a good foundation for your child's future.
Kids who like to ask questions.
Some kids really have a lot of problems when they're young. These problems may include many insignificant places in life. These insignificant places are likely to be blind spots in the knowledge of parents.
Some parents may really be asked by their children, endless questions will make their parents' emotions become irritable, and some parents will loudly stop their children and will make their children not ask themselves.
The way parents trade does make their lives much cleaner, but it can also greatly affect children's curiosity. Children will most likely keep a lot of questions in their heads, but no one answers, so they gradually don't ask others in their future lives.
This also leads to a decline in the child's desire for knowledge, and the child is likely not to take the initiative to learn or take the initiative to ask others questions.
What parents really should do is to patiently answer their children's questions and let them look up the answers to their questions through other channels such as encyclopedias or mobile phones.
Fifth, strong thinking ability.
Each child is an independent individual, but for the sake of their child's development, most parents choose to arrange everything for their children. They always think that children are still young, can't do anything, and can naturally master when they grow up.
However, once children rely on you, they don't actively think. No matter what difficulties they encounter, they will turn to their parents for help. In the long run, their thinking ability will become worse and worse.
Therefore, parents need to exercise their children's independent care skills to develop their thinking skills. If your child thinks independently, there will be autonomy in school, whether it is homework or study, and there is no need to be without the company of parents.
Every child loves to play games as a child, so we can use this to develop our children's logical thinking.
Use creativity to exercise your child's thinking, concentration, observation, and memory.
Memory master Zheng Nan summed up preparing for the development of brain thinking. Usually do more left and right brain.